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SummerOnTheWay1
August 2, 2025

WE ARE SORRY about your loss 💛

  • August 2, 2025
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THIS GROUP IS OPEN TO ALL GRIEVERS NO MATTER HOW LONG IT HAS BEEN [years,days].

 

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Grief & Loss Team  🤗

368 replies

SummerOnTheWay1
February 14, 2026

1 step at a time!!!

mc6844
Community Champion ⭐⭐
February 15, 2026

I'm a little late today to stop by and wish my friends on the forum a nice Valentines Day. It may not be happy. That is ok. Not every day is happy. I find happiness in moments. I find peace in spirituality. Sometimes the practices of our youth can bring comfort and hope. And to remind us we are living in answered prayer. For all the times our prayers have been answered. Also, the night doesn't last but tomorrow is another day. Take care of yourselves.

SummerOnTheWay1
February 15, 2026

📎  [2/14/26] Stop by when you can to encourage others [respond to THEIR POST] or ASK FOR SOME encouragement.

 

WE ALL have days/nights when we need this!!!

 

Luv,

Nicole ‌‌‌‌‌‌🤗‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌🤗‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌🤗‌‌‌‌‌‌ (Grief Forum)

SummerOnTheWay1
July 28, 2026

[Tuesday 7/28/26]

 

Dear Steven @stevenallen12323 , we hope you will stop by AGAIN to see us!!!

 

Grief & Loss Team ‌🤗‌ 

SummerOnTheWay1
February 16, 2026

📎  [Sunday 2/15/26]

 

Michelle @MichelleC103656 , SO GOOD to hear from you my friend!!!

 

Yes, losing luv ones unexpectedly is NO fun at all.

 

GLAD to see the furbabies 🐈🐈🐈 are well. As usual Mister 🐈 sends his luv. My boy!!! 💛 

 

Luv,

Nicole 🤗🤗🤗 (Grief Forum)

Contributor ⭐⭐⭐
February 16, 2026

Yes,we are doing somewhat better. We had some nice holidays and are looking forward to more, and also several birthdays🎂. Jim's birthday is on March 1st. He will be 65. Our son-in -law ,Bryce, has his birthday on March 6. He will be 30. Our oldest girl cat, Bristol, will be 16 on April 4th. She has had some stomach problems over the last few months and has been taking a couple medications. She is doing a lot better. I hope that you and Mister had some nice holidays. It is always good to talk to you and hear from you!  Bye for now! 🐈😸🐱😻🙂💌

SummerOnTheWay1
February 16, 2026

📎  [2/15/26] Happy Birthday to them!!!

 

Michelle @MichelleC103656 , you are an INSPIRATION dear friend.

 

Why?

 

In spite of YOUR GRIEF, you are still "living" - something I struggle with sometimes.

 

Luv,

Nicole 🤗🤗🤗 (Grief Forum)

SummerOnTheWay1
February 21, 2026

📎  [Friday 2/20/26]

 

Dear Michelle @MichelleC103656  I am "thinking" about you!!!

 

Luv,

Nicole 🤗 🤗 🤗  (Grief Forum)

Contributor ⭐⭐⭐
February 21, 2026

Hello, Nicole!  I have been thinking about you, too. We have had a crazy busy week. The grandkiddos had the week off, Presidents Day and Midwinter vacation. We have been taking care of our youngest daughter Korie's 2. Our 9 year old granddaughter, Scarlett, was sick with the flu. Her parents couldn't take any more time off from work. We were trying and hoping not to let her brother,Aiden, and ourselves get sick. It has been a long and tiring week. Thankfully, Scarlett felt so much better today. She is happy to at least have the weekend to enjoy before returning to school on Monday. I hope that you and Mister and everyone are doing well. Take care!  It is always so wonderful and nice to hear from you! 🐈😸😻😺🤗🙂🐱

 

SummerOnTheWay1
February 21, 2026

📎  [Friday 2/20/26] Oh my goodness Michelle @MichelleC103656 , what a week you had!!! 😱

 

SO GLAD everyone is feeling better. 🙃

 

I don't know IF you read the old posts about me falling on Black Ice on 12/6/25 fracturing my ankle in 2 places & the other old lady (2006 Hyundai Elantra) needing a Head Gasket as of 10/27/25.

 

Lol, so from October to NOW, it has been a DAILY "talk to myself" routine. 😅

 

Listening to motivational videos on free YouTube has helped & of course my boy Mister 🐈.

 

Anyway, hope to be back on the road in time to sow my Dollar Tree seeds after Easter.

 

In a Walking Boot finally after being in a cast for 6 weeks with sponge baths & physical therapy. GRATEFUL Medicare paid 100% for my Homecare.

 

Waiting on my mechanic to find a LOW MILEAGE engine and saving in the hopes of having enough when he does.

 

*** Mister as usual sends his luv. 😉

 

Luv,

Nicole 🤗 🤗 🤗  (Grief Team)

Contributor ⭐
March 2, 2026

It has been 18 months since my loss. I'm grateful for the healing so far and look forward to happy days ahead! 

SummerOnTheWay1
June 30, 2026

[6/30/26] Dear Chris @ChrisHarbuck101 , we hope you will stop by again to see us!!!

 

Grief & Loss Team ‌🤗‌ 

SummerOnTheWay1
March 5, 2026

1 step at a time!!!

mc6844
Community Champion ⭐⭐
March 6, 2026

@SummerOnTheWay1 wrote:

‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌👣‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌  ONE STEP may mean making sure YOU EAT today/tonight.

 

Sometimes OUR interest in food is gone along with the energy to face EACH day/night.

 

Luv,

Nicole  ‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌🤗‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌🤗‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌🤗‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌  (Grief Forum)

 

 

Nicole, I agree. It's definitely a challenge to keep up with a healthy diet. A frozen

meal, though processed, is better than chips or a candy bar. Add a salad, ready made. A few days of eating poorly takes the body  a while to catch up. There are also outreach programs like Meals on Wheels and Senior food resources to look into. Anyway, good luck to everyone on this topic! Taking care of ourselves is a weight lifted from the shoulders of those who love and care about us.


 

SummerOnTheWay1
March 7, 2026

📎  [Saturday 3/7/26]

 

Dear James @JamesK33 , WE ARE THINKING about you my friend!!!

 

Luv,

Nicole 🤗 🤗 🤗 (Grief Forum)

Contributor ⭐
March 7, 2026

The weather in North Carolina is just excellent!  It's around 4:30 in the afternoon and I was just thinking that today was a happy one.  I had both busy and lazy moments. 

 

The past week marked the two-year anniversary of my wife's passing.  I visited the grave site and placed springtime flowers.  I spoke with some of my friends and her friends. I miss my sweet lady, but I am working to rebuild my life. One that is different but yet familiar.  Does that make any sense?

SummerOnTheWay1
July 19, 2026

[7/19/26] Dear James @JamesK33 , WE hope you will stop by AGAIN to see us!!!

 

Grief & Loss Team 🤗 

SummerOnTheWay1
March 7, 2026

📎  [Saturday 3/7/26]

 

Dear Michelle @MichelleC103656  , WE ARE THINKING about you my friend!!

 

Luv,

Nicole 🤗 🤗 🤗 (Grief Forum)

Contributor ⭐⭐⭐
March 7, 2026

Hey,Nicole! I was just thinking about you last night and wondering how you are. We just came in from outside. It had started raining. It had been sunny and 72. It was a beautiful day. I just gave the furbabies their dinner. Stewie decided to go back out. Bristol is upstairs. Nova is napping. I hope that you and your Mister are doing better. It is always wonderful to hear from you. 🤗🐈😸😻🙂😺🐱

SummerOnTheWay1
March 7, 2026

📎   [Saturday 3/7/26] Hi Michelle @MichelleC103656 , lol - Spring is here in Virginia and this old lady has been "kicked to the curb" = Mister is back OUTSIDE hiding in the bushes between me and my neighbor. Yesterday was his LAST day of hanging out with me. 😪

 

Comes in to EAT, then leaves. 😅

 

Guess I will have to WAIT for a "rainy" day to have the honor of his company ALL DAY. 😉

 

GOOD NEWS!!! A guy from our local Automotive School is going to find a vehicle for me. Said Hyundais get MAJOR issues after 100,000 miles. My 2006 Hyundai Elantra is up to 185,100 miles. It will be very HARD saying goodbye to my girl, but replacing a Head Gasket is about $3,000.00. 😱

 

I go for xrays on the 31st. Hoping to get rid of my Walking Boot then. 🤞

 

Luv,

Nicole 🤗 

SummerOnTheWay1
March 20, 2026

📎  [Friday 3/20/26]

 

Dear Michelle @MichelleC103656 ,  WE are "thinking" about you TODAY!!!

 

Luv,

Nicole  🤗 🤗🤗  (Grief Forum)

Contributor ⭐⭐⭐
March 20, 2026

Good Morning, Nicole!  I have been thinking about you ,too. I hope that you are doing better. It was good news that you will soon not be needing your walking boot and be getting another car.

I was so happy that it was the first day of Spring. Then, I  received a message that Chuck Norris had died. My Mom and I used to watch his show "Walker, Texas Ranger". I still watch an episode or two every so often. My Mom used to call him "The Kicker ". I was thinking how sad she would have been to learn of his passing. I am going to have to end this message. I am starting to cry,and I am having trouble seeing and typing. It is always wonderful to hear from you, Nicole!  Hugs and Luv to you and Mister!  🐈🤗😸😻😺🐱

SummerOnTheWay1
March 20, 2026

📎  [Friday 3/20/26]

 

Dear Michelle @MichelleC103656 , I know you MISS HER SO MUCH dear friend!!!  😞

 

Yes, those "tears" pop up when we THINK/TALK about them.

 

Know that she is looking down at you RIGHT NOW. Proud of you for "trying" to MOVE FORWARD the best you can.

 

Some days/nights, all I do is cry.

 

Other times, the "tears" are NOT there, but I so MISS him SO MUCH.

 

Thank you SO MUCH for stopping by my friend.

 

Luv,

Nicole  💛🤗

Contributor ⭐⭐⭐
March 20, 2026

You are always such a bright spot in my day. So many of us appreciate everything about you. I just read your message, and now,I am crying happy tears. It is cool and raining here in New York today. It is a good day to feel sad. My sister Debbie and I talk about having days and nights where we just can't stop crying. We miss our parents so much. I always tell her that we were lucky to have them in our lives for such a long time. Other people are not so lucky. It is getting to be one of those days. I try to stop crying and then start again. Easter is in 2 weeks,and holidays were so important to my parents. Birthdays, anniversaries, and holidays make us miss our lost loved ones that much more. Thank you for your kind words and support, Nicole. I am so glad that we made a connection. I just blew my nose and wiped my eyes. I am going to go downstairs and have some coffee and a little snack. Thank you SO MUCH for being so helpful and nice. Talk to you again real soon!  Hugs and Luv to you and Mister!  🤗🐈

SummerOnTheWay1
March 20, 2026

📎  [Friday 3/20/26] Michelle @MichelleC103656 , Mister sends his luv too!!! 📸[*** Here he is all snuggled up for the day].