Hi Nicole and all. I have been thinking about you too. I'm having some confusing feelings and thoughts. A man I met in the spelling bee is interested in me. Don't know how I feel. I have only talked with him on the phone. I don't want to lead him on if I don't know how I feel.

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MarcyW882921

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If you are honest with yourself and him you are not leading him on. We all have different thoughts on these issues and only you can decide your path based on how you feel. Be in tune with yourself to sort through the confusion and enjoy the feel good moments.

Marcy

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CarolynS674392

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Thank you, Marcy. He's a bit unusual, like maybe on the autism spectrum so it's hard to get to know him or really talk. I don't think it's the right relationship.

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CarolynS674392

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That is so sweet!! A happy dance. I'm overwhelmed.🤗

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MarcyW882921

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Thanks! Thinking of you too Nicole!

Marcy

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ChaviB814890restAuthor

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3 comments (3/24/23) @jonibee 🤎🤗

jonibee

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Yesterday was a productive day in my quest to clean out things no longer needed ..The tv that is no longer used and daughter contributed a lap top along with 2 obsolete cell phones to Dollar for Scholars ..Today will see over 9 boxes going to the Vietnam Vets organization which helps their cause...This job of decluttering can be so over-whelming and I'm on a time frame. Room and storage must be ready for daughter' belongings by April 23rd.. Some days go slower than others depending on how I feel that particular day. Now yesterday really zapped me with tiredness so I had to give in to my overall feelings and step back from it ..Today because of varied appts. it will be another "no do day" but it also gives me a chance to get invigorated again..This week I have been feeling down again those ambush feelings which I'm trying to deal with accordingly and my daughter suggested getting some outside flower plants for Spring which is what I need ...Get outside and breathe and a little exercise wont hurt me in the process..Each day is a new day so use it well...

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MarcyW882921

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Wow this sounds great! You got a lot done and you are making worthy contributions. Decluttering and going through things can be overwhelming but you are getting it done.

You recognize the tiredness and you are taking the time you need to recover emotionally and physically. I see today not as a "no do day" for you but as a day that you are still taking steps forward by completing your appointments.

It is a new day and you will do whatever feels right to counteract those ambush feelings. Exercise, getting fresh air, getting flowers for outside or inside - the choices are yours!

Marcy

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ChaviB814890restAuthor

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1 comments (3/24/23) Catherine @CatherineS641676 🤗🤎

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CatherineS641676

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What the heck are you doing up at 3 in the AM?? Just kidding-Thanks for thinking of me-whatever time it might be❤️. I am doing good-same as last time-staying busy is the answer for me right now. Being a slug just makes me think too many sad things, so I try to stay busy and count the many blessings I still have . This village is definitely one of the blessings I am grateful for. Thanks for your thoughts

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MarcyW882921

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Another appointment with the bank today trying to get things settled. I spent time at an outdoor garden afterward and purchased fresh flowers for my dinner table. It is all part of dealing with reality, identifying ways to destress, and finding and appreciating beauty to soothe the soul!

Marcy

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ChaviB814890restAuthor

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1 comment (3/25/23) Catherine

@CatherineS641676 🤗🤎

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CatherineS641676

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stb♥️

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ChaviB814890restAuthor

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4 comments(3/25/23) @jonibee 🤎🤗

jonibee

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The Daffodils are getting ready to burst open..Spring despitte the prediction of a sleet rain later today will not be deterred by Winter...A good sign that we can get passed from one season to the next ..nothing stays the same....

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ChaviB814890restAuthor

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(2 comments) 3/26/23 SUNDAY Party Time = so GLAD you stopped by TODAY Kathy @BeatleloverKT 🥳💃 Nicole 🤗🤎 Lol, thanks for reposting your poem. I had noticed it was missing.... Not sure what happened to it. 🙄