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🕯 A Place To Be With OTHERS Who Are Grieving! WE support each other.

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November 25, 2022
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Grief & Loss Team 🤎🤗

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SummerOnTheWay1

1 comment (Monday 10/23/23)

Thanks for asking MC @mc6844 💙💙💙

Small Cataracts in BOTH eyes.

Luv you,

Nicole 🤗

✏@mc6844 wrote:
Hope it was good Nicole. I know its not easy getting to these appointments.✏

mc6844

Community Champion ⭐⭐

It's good they're small at least

SummerOnTheWay1

2 comments (Tuesday 10/24/23)

▶️*** Dear Erica @EricaS968839 , I just ADDED the LINK to the CAREGIVERS FORUM below if you want to stop by. Sorry, forgot to ADD yesterday ***◀️

(Monday 10/23/23)

Dear Erica, I AM SO SORRY for your loss!!! 😭

I luv your idea of doing Halloween since your Mom enjoyed it. 👍

Gosh, dealing with your Dad's Dementia - you may find some support in the AARP Caregiver's Forum. The LINK to that FORUM is below!

https://community.aarp.org/t5/Caregiving/bd-p/bf41

*** Sandy @sandy , Jane @JaneCares , Amy @agoyer - any suggestions? 🤔 ***

Sandy is an AARP Employee.

Jane and Amy are BOTH AARP Experts.

I am SO GLAD you stopped by my friend.

Luv you,

Nicole 🤗

✏@EricaS968839 wrote:
Thank you. My mom passed away almost a year ago. 10/31/22 was when she passed, unexpectedly. It's been a very tough year. My dad is in the final stages of Dementia. He is in assisted living, amd has 24/7 hospice care. I have alot of support, but as the anniversary of my mom's passing approaches, my grief is getting worse. I'm trying to plan ahead for the day, which, is also Halloween. My mom loved Halloween, so, my thought was to try to put together candy for the kiddos. She also loved children. Any ideas for getting through that day would be greatly appreciated. ✏

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EricaS968839

Contributor ⭐

Thank-you Nicole!! Your response and support is so kind. Luv to you as well!! 🙂

SummerOnTheWay1

2 comments (Monday 10/23/23)

It was NOT "funny" THIS MORNING - but now it is/lol 🤣😂

Here I am in the Waiting Room at my Eye Doctor THIS MORNING for my 8:30am appointment AFTER "running" late. 🙄

I am looking out the WINDOW and notice something WHITE on my blouse in my reflection.

Oh YES, a tag! I had put on my blouse on WRONG SIDE. 😱

Ran to their Restroom to flip it over.

Can you imagine I would have been the TALK OF THE OFFICE today once I left....

Yikes, NO sleep last night = glad I made it to them and back home WITHOUT running anyone over.

Anyone ever done this? 🤔

mc6844

Community Champion ⭐⭐

Lol Yes with cardigans many times.

SummerOnTheWay1

👣 1 Step At A Time!

mc6844

Community Champion ⭐⭐

SummerOnTheWay1

2 comments (Monday 10/23/23)

⚠️QUESTION OF THE DAY/NIGHT!

Did you do something (or plan to) that brought you peace TODAY/TONIGHT? 🤔

ME: I changed Pillowcases TODAY and BEFORE putting on CLEAN one - I SPRAYED Cinnamon on pillow.

These are PRICEY and come in DIFFERENT scents including Pumpkin. 🙃

But I DESERVE them = RELAXES me after a Day From H.ll like TODAY! 😎

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ec73392645

Contributor ⭐

Funny I also changed pillow cases today and sprayed lavender

SummerOnTheWay1

1 comment (Tuesday 10/24/23)

Hey MC @mc6844 , can you tell us about your picture? 🤔

Thanks,

Nicole 🤗

✏@mc6844 wrote:

📸 MC Attached A Picture 📸

mc6844

Community Champion ⭐⭐

Yes. My new ceramic pup! I had fun fooling those who thought it was a real puppy! Lol

SummerOnTheWay1

1 comment (Tuesday 10/24/23)

Lol, Marcy @MarcyW882921 🤣😂

GOOD to hear from you! 💃💃💃

Luv You,

Nicole 🤗

✏@MarcyW882921 wrote:
Yes Nicole @SummerOnTheWay1, I did this in the last couple of weeks. Fortunately it was with a pair of jeans and I had a long shirt so I don't think anyone noticed but me! LOL

Marcy✏

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MarcyW882921

Community Champion ⭐⭐

Nicole @SummerOnTheWay1,

Hoping things have calmed down for you and you got your WalMart fix.🙂

Marcy

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Ellabillie

Contributor ⭐

Good evening

My husband Ron passed away 9/13/2023 and I need to get into a group that will help me through this. Or I may have a nervous break down.

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MarcyW882921

Community Champion ⭐⭐

Oh my @Ellabillie ! I am so sorry to hear about your husband Ron. What you are feeling is so frightening! I'm so glad you stopped by to post and the people who post in this forum will do our best to try and support you however we can.

I don't know where you are or what kind of group you are interested in joining. I understand that hospice groups offer bereavement groups, although mine never contacted me to offer the service. I was put on a wait list from Jewish Family Services (and their groups are for all people regardless of religious or non-religious background) and they did call me when there was an opening. Community churches also offer groups or individual meetings with clergy.

My heart goes out to you!

Marcy

SummerOnTheWay1

1 comment (Wednesday 10/25/23)

Geez, never thought I would get all my Walmart Bags unpacked TODAY!!! 😭

Mission Accomplished..... 👍

NOW for my Old Lady's Nap. 🙄

Lol, Kimberly @KimberlyM389662

I am assuming Beasley and his brothers 🐕🐈🐈 are already knocked out. 🤣😂

See you guys later,

K

KimberlyM389662

Conversationalist ⭐⭐

Nicole,

I am sorry that I haven't posted in a while. I have been reading all the posts and I appreciate the support. I just have had the up and downs. My therapist yesterday asked if I had been diagnosed with ADHD because I go from one thought to another but, I think it's partially my anxiety being in full swing and that I truly believe that if I let myself grieve then I will completely break down. Yes the mascot is fine. He is huge. He has been averaging about 4.5 pounds a week. He has to weigh close to 40 lbs. Here he is taking his morning nap. I just wish he could get the potty training down. It's the poopy that's hard.

SummerOnTheWay1

4 comments (Wednesday 10/25/23)

Dear Estelle , I AM SO SORRY for your loss! 😭

I am SO GLAD you stopped by!!! 💃💃💃

Luv you,

Nicole 🤗

✏Estelle wrote:
So sorry for your loss. I lost my life partner of 21 years 8/27 so I needed help reached out and I joined GriefShare. If you go to their website griefshare.org and type in your zip code a list of groups will appear that are near where you live. So far I have found it quite helpful and I also go for one on one counseling with a certified counselor.
Don't be afraid to reach out. There is a great deal of support out there. You just have to search for it. Best of luck!

Estelle Coffino✏

SummerOnTheWay1

1 comment (Thursday 10/26/23)

Safe Travels Marcy @MarcyW882921 🙏

Luv you,

Nicole 🤗

✏@MarcyW882921 wrote:
I’m out of town for the weekend. It is my first attempt at solo travel, but I didn’t go too far.

Marcy✏

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MarcyW882921

Community Champion ⭐⭐

I’m out of town for the weekend. It is my first attempt at solo travel, but I didn’t go too far.

Marcy

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