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Hi,My Name is Darrell Gilbert. I am 75 years old and live in Sand Springs, OK. I am a former city councilor in the city of Tulsa, OK and a former State Representative in the Oklahoma legislature. I served in the legislature for 12 years and term limited out in 2008. I am currently active with the Osage County Democratic Party, serving as the affirmative action representative. I am constantly striving to make sure that our rights as Seniors are understood by our elected officials; locally and nationally. I hope that each of you are contacting your elected officials locally and nationally to ensure that we are not forgotten.

Hello all, My name is Matthew. I am 24 years old and I just joined AARP this month. I really enjoy the videos and challenges. I am learning and thinking a lot about my physical, mental, and financial health these days. I travel a lot. In the past few years, I have lived in Los Angeles, Austin, Little Rock, and abroad in Turkey. I am planning on going on a months-long road trip very soon that will take me from Little Rock to New England and everywhere in between. My other hobbies include exercising & yoga, volunteering, urbanism & cities, museums, and reading. My current job is doing food delivery. Previously, I worked at a mall, as a street cleaner, and sold luxury accessories online.  A consequence of my lifestyle is that I do feel lonely often. I would like to start participating in some of these forums. If anyone wants to talk or be pen-pals (I love to send letters and postcards), feel free to message. Something that I learned from AARP articles is that i

I cannot afford much at my age which is almost 67 and it seems life has changed people no one seems to care I have been asking for anyone to lend an ear or even shoot an email no discussion needed. No responses.  Only about their own lives and how great they are doing.  I am ashamed, feel defeated and terrified to move out of state with very low financial resources. I have tried looking at driving and shipping clothing, shipping car and clothing but then i need to get there also and no one to pick me up i will be staying in a motel and praying for a job.

I used to cringe at being called ‘grandpa’ but now it’s ok 😀Four grandchildren make a life a delight. My oldest is seven.  Retirement is getting closer, but work is still a requirement.  One of the reasons I joined is to get better ideas on how to remotely care for my aging mom. She lives 1000 miles away and wants to stay put.  We enjoy phone conversations and I fly up less than I’d like to admit.  We looked into buying a home with an ADU up in her area so we could stay (in the ADU) for longer periods of time, but real-estate in the area makes that less doable.  I wrote a daily call service to check in on mom once in the morning and once at night, and that helps.  But I do worry a bit on the inevitable transition of managing her living space, medical routine, finances/taxes, and the help that does some of that for her.  Honestly it was hard for me to understand why a parent would not want to live near her kids/grands/ and gre

I am recently retired and still getting used to being at home all day.  I tried to get a part time job but no success. I would love to chat and get to know people from all over the country.  Maybe you can give me some advice on retirement loneliness!  Rebecca 

hey I’m Jeff, I’m new to the site and the community. I’m 52 divorced and like most people these days I have anxiety. My anxiety came up 5 years ago with passing of my sister. I could tell I wasn’t myself something was up with my mind and body.  Mental health has come A LONG way in the last 5 years, Back then it was several doctors playing a guessing game with me as to what was going on. I got divorced in my mid 40’s. Online dating is ridiculous.sorry for blabbering  

Hi, Im currently in VA. In 2026, I'll be looking for a kindred spirit/roomate. I am disabled but Things I enjoy and is a way of lifeGardening, cooking/baking from scratch, reading, crochet, make herbal infusions,, tea blends, studying herbs. Burning incense, sage, sweet grassMy spirituality is earth/indigenous based.I love coffee, farm markets. Thrifting, music.Love dogs, horses, birds. Will share with another female.

It has been more than a decade since I was last active on AARP Community. During my absence I managed to stay busy; occupied with my sons and their family, attending book clubs, writing reviews, posting commentary on news journals, and I also began painting with acrylics. During ten of those years, I lived in a senior community where I enjoyed the amenities and socializing with other seniors from diverse backgrounds. Then, five years ago, my sons pressured me to move to be closer to them. Although my new home is in a very nice building, the amenities and activities are for the majority of residents who are gen x and millennial professionals. I am among only a handful of seniors who reside here.  I no longer travel as often, and I have very little social interaction with anyone, except when family visits.  As such, I spend too much time alone. Granted, I have always been an avid  reader, also I continue to paint.  Feeling isolated, I recall how much I enjoyed th

Hello all,I’m Bill, 68, lately retired from a life in mechanical engineering and settled in Southern California. Most days you’ll find me tinkering with a black 1965 Corvette Stingray that still sports its original 327, although the carburetor wheezes almost as loudly as I did before I beat colon cancer a few years back. I juggle the car project with visits from three grown kids and four lively grandkids, so progress comes in short spurts. My goal is a reliable Sunday cruiser, not a museum queen. If you have any patient advice on mid-year Corvette wiring or those fickle vacuum headlights, I would sure appreciate it.Looking forward to the conversation.Bill

Hi, My name is Kay,  heterosexual female,  I live in Philly suburbs,  serial mover; Catskill Mountains,  Norfolk,  Brooklyn  to name a few.  I like reading, art, jazz, cooking,  beaches, travel,  horror movies,  twilight zone, foodie, picnics, zoo, family and friends.  Just looking to correspond,  share experiences and meet new people on a platonic vibe.  I am an entrepreneur,  nurse and realtor. I would love to meet you!

Hi,I'm a retired teacher.Interested in developing online friendship.Let's chat and see what we have in common. 

As a caregiver myself for my mother who passed recently, I've faced the daunting personal and financial consequences of extended care.  This experience inspired me to become a Certified Long Term Care Specialist and write a book on this important topic. I'm putting the finishing touches on this new book designed to help families plan ahead for extended care needs. Your input will help us select a title and subtitle that truly resonate with readers like you. The survey takes just a few minutes.  As a thank you, you’ll receive a complimentary digital copy of the book. Plus,10 respondents will be randomly selected to receive a free hard copy, shipped directly to your door and we’ll make a $3 donation to the Alzheimer’s Association on your behalf.  Click or cut and paste the following link to post your opinion: https://forms.gle/M2VeYQv1jzALHbTB7 Thank you, Zach Ottwww.NavigateLTC.com  

My name is Kay.   I live in Pennsylvania near the Poconos,  from Philly suburbs.  Nurse, Realtor, Notary,  Entrepreneur looking for pen pals.  I am God fear woman who loves meeting new people, reading,  art, real estate,  family and my Deen or religion. Please be respectful, down to earth and kind-hearted. 

  “It’s implied “ my daughter-in-law replied. I had just remarked that I had not received a Thank You note for the gift I had brought to a shower a few weeks earlier. I wondered if  it would be implied that I meant to buy a gift if I’d shown up with an empty gift bag! Notes  are not the only acknowledgements that are going away…not even a nod if you open a door or let someone with one avocado  and a candy bar go ahead of you in line at the grocery store. What have your experiences been with what I consider to be common courtesy?I guess I just need to remember my daughter-in-law”s last words on the subject. “Our  generation is just not hung up on formalities” she noted and ended with “By the way You’re  Welcome!”      . 

I am grateful he is safe. I am the only mother he knows....but I still feel so cheated. I'm only 47. I raised my children and I only had a year to myself. The toll it has taken on my life is immense. My relationship I have which was fun and new has now become chores and meals, schedules and freedom restrictions. My son is useless to help. I can't help but resent my son very, very much for laying this on me. I am lonely, my love life is ruined. We now fight in front of the child, this is so very wrong but he is a mean nasty tempered man. Now I'm stuck because I don't have a car (broke down and junked)of my own,  fiance sells cars but will not give me nor sell me one we live 20 miles from anything. I am verbally assaulted daily. moral of the story is, be very very careful whom you trust. Now I'm stuck, homeless without this nightmare relationship and I do have some savings but not much. Any advice? Does anyone have a place I can move into with  my grandchild. I am desperat

For the first time, I'm checking out this forum. Because I am carless and impoverished, I have few friends and I am profoundly lonely. A person who is kind and compassionate is me. I have a great adult daughter whom I hardly see, and I am a talented writer who loves animals. I also love to read.I do not like drama and I do not cause poblems. I simply need a buddy at this time; my roommate is a living, breathing nightmare; he is an alcoholic and gaslighter (I just learned what this means). Much obliged for taking the time to read my post!

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Hello I am new to this online community.Is there a book club?  I am a new author.  My book is coming to Amazon by the end of this month. I would love reviews by the community.Title: "Life After Death" Resilience, Identity, and Revelations During Grief and After Loss This book is about how I death with life's losses: career transitions, relationship loss, and loss of loved ones.I talk about resilience with daily affirmations, travel, spiritual disciplines, and reflections. If you are feeling a loss of identity with retirement, downsizing of corporations, divorce, becoming a single parent, and/or loss of your family of origin. This is a very inexpensive way to learn about reinventing yourself. Potentially starting your own bookclub with this book. There are so many people looking for answers these days.  Learn "to be" not just "doing or keeping busy" Let me know if you are open to reading my book!  That would make my day!Shirley@AksumLiterarySociet

Well hello everyone, my name is Styyla....looking to chat....develop friendships....explore different cultures via this forum and who knows possibly venture into visiting....I'm 68, female...from a very large family (10)....I enjoy all sorts of topics....has anyone tried tried the senior dating sites?!!!!...lol....I'm spiritual, believe you reap what you sow....kindness indeed is a virtue!...hope to hear from you wonderful people...!

Hi, I have 3 cats and a stray who stops by sometimes. I live in Tucson, Arizona, and am a retired teacher. I don't think of myself as a teacher, though, and haven't stepped foot in a classroom since I retired 4 years ago. I like reading and gardening. I majored in Painting and Drawing, but now I'm doing pottery. I enjoy going to art openings and craft festivals. Right now, I'm reading, "The New Tourist" by Paige McClanahan. It discusses the "Hippie Trail", which I caught the tail end of, after Iran put an end to the "Magic Bus". I tried a couple of cruises, but would never again participate in that awful, environment-destroying industry again. If there is anyone out there who can relate to me, I would love to hear from you. Roberta

Hi Everybody,My name is Jodi and I am 73 living in Oregon.  I love to keep active and busy enjoying lots of different things.  Camp, hike, fish, roller skate, ice skate, putt putt golf, darts, junk store shop and resell, write pen pals, picnics, barbecues, paint rocks, gardening and more. If you are looking for a pen pal send me a message and I will answer you hoping it goes thru and you see it!!! 

I'm concerned about the upcoming elections. I am not lobbying for any candidate or party; I'm just concerned what may happen to we elder if chaos breaks out? Any ideas for safety would be appreciated. Thank you in advance; see you on the other side 😉

I don't know how this works so I'll just introduce myself and hopefully find friendships. My name is Delores, I live in Bensalem P. A. I don't know many people here was born and raised in NYC. Trying to break free from being an introvert and mix and mingle and learn how to embrace making it to my sixties. I still work but I want to enjoy the rest of my life as well, live, love, and be happy. But in order to do that I need to get out the house meet new people and do new things any and all suggestions are welcomed. Thanks everyone!

 Iam 70 and left my husband 3 months ago filing for a divorce. I own 51 % of our business married for 15 years. Iam looking for someone who likes to have coffee long distance! Or grab a salad long distance tell me about your day your cats your grand children. Give me encouragement so I can get this divorce over! I use to have girl time with friends they have passed on and now I am alone. How about It? Have Coffee?