Friends & Family

Hello AARP Online Community I received this message from AARP Connect to Affect and thought I would share. https://connect2affect.org/why-friends-are-important/ I spent a lot of time working and raising families and not much time making friends. They mentioned three types of friends. I've got a lot of catching up to do! What kind of friends are you looking for? FRIENDS WHO GIVE YOU EMOTIONAL SUPPORTWhen you’re feeling down or going through a hard time, talking things over with a supportive friend can make a real difference to your mental health. What does emotional support feel like? Your friend makes you feel heard and acknowledges your point of view. Often referred to as a good listener, someone to lean on, or a sounding board, friends who express empathy are invaluable to our emotional well-being.FRIENDS WHO GIVE YOU HELPFUL ADVICEHaving a buddy you can talk to when making a big decision or need some practical pointers on say, using video chat, can help you stay

Never Again! What's On Your Unbucket List? These are the things I swear I will never do again. By Ann Brenoff, AARP Experience Counts. Published May 16, 2024. *** USE LINK AT BOTTOM OF THIS POST TO READ THIS ARTICLE *** [1] Then enter Email Address you used to sign in to use This Site.   [2] Then enter the password you use.   [3] Lastly, there are 3 LETTERS that will "pop up" as their SECURITY CHECK. Enter those.   [4] Then click log in. https://www.aarp.org/experience-counts/unbucket-list/

FROM ARTICLE - SEE ARTICLE FOR MORE. Mother’s Day as a Grownup Isn’t Always Easy! From growing apart to caregiving to guilt, our moms aren’t always easy to love as we get older. Here’s how to deal with Mother’s Day By Robin L. Flanigan, AARP. Published May 08, 2024. It’s almost Mother’s Day, that time of year when greeting card companies and commercials extol mothers and daughters, who lovingly show gratitude and share special, happy memories. But if your relationship with your mom is more difficult than doting — whether that’s because you’ve always been at odds, you’ve grown apart as you’ve gotten older, or personality changes, cognitive decline or caregiving issues have come into play — it can be a tough time to figure out how to recognize the day. *** USE LINK AT BOTTOM OF THIS POST TO READ THIS ARTICLE *** [1] Then enter Email Address you used to sign in to use This Site.   [2] Then enter the password you use.   [3] Lastly, there ar

This drama has grabbed my heart and mind. Anyone with elder parents or who are (like me) elder, should watch this and learn... Please, to our Children and Grandchildren know, we "children of the 60s" and "children of the 70s" experienced more negative and positive events than any generation before us in the US and many other countries. If you watch this with open heart and mind, you'll understand us, and also why we're so proud of all of you for surviving us... For $5 monthly donation this 3-part drama is available to anyone; go to your local PBS channel site. This drama is excellent and worthy of everyone joining PBS with donation!

They ADD so much to OUR lives!!! Nicole  👵

FROM THE ARTICLE - SEE ARTICLE FOR MORE! 5 Car Safety Systems Older Drivers Should Not Skip. Older drivers are among the safer drivers. But car safety tech can still help you stay injury-free. By John R. Quain, AARP. Published May 02, 2024. With more older drivers on the road than ever before, experts were concerned there would be more accidents. But the truth ended up being much different. Older drivers are actually some of the safer drivers, according to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention.  “With aging boomers, we were worried that crashes and fatalities would increase, but we didn’t see that happen,” says Aimee Cox, research associate at the nonprofit Insurance Institute for Highway Safety. *** USE LINK AT BOTTOM OF THIS POST TO READ THIS ARTICLE *** [1] Then enter Email Address you used to sign in to use This Site.   [2] Then enter the password you use.   [3] Lastly, there are 3 LETTERS that will "pop up" as their S

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ANY COMMENTS?  🤔  THIS IS AWESOME THEY MAKE TIME FOR EACH OTHER IN THESE "SUPER BUSY" TIMES!  👵 Parallel Journeys: How to Make a Friendship Last Five Decades. From bachelor days to life as grandparents, two Navy men have been brothers throughout. By Alexandra Frost, AARP Experience Counts. Published April 04, 2024. In the summer of 1977, midshipmen Glenn McIntyre, who was in the ROTC program at Miami University of Ohio, and Edward Johnson, studying at Virginia Military Institute, were mistaken for each other. The lookalikes were going through a summer of military experiences, including visiting air and submarine bases from Texas to California, to learn about service options. They became fast friends and swapped rugby shirts. *** USE LINK AT BOTTOM OF THIS POST TO READ THIS ARTICLE *** [1] Then enter Email Address you used to sign in to use This Site.   [2] Then enter the password you use.   [3] Lastly, there are 3 LETTE

HAVE YOU SEEN ONE OR PLAN TO?  🤔  I HAVE NOT AND NEED TO!  👵 FROM THE ARTICLE - SEE ARTICLE FOR MORE. Can Watching a Solar Eclipse Really Make You Go Blind? How to safely view and photograph this astronomical phenomenon By Elizabeth Agnvall, AARP. Published March 26, 2024.  *** USE LINK AT BOTTOM OF THIS POST TO READ THIS ARTICLE ***   [1] Then enter Email Address you used to sign in to use This Site.   [2] Then enter the password you use.   [3] Lastly, there are 3 LETTERS that will "pop up" as their SECURITY CHECK. Enter those.   [4] Then click log in. https://www.aarp.org/health/healthy-living/info-2024/solar-eclipse-eye-damage.html

I remember as a child (lol, many years ago) checking my parents MAILBOX to see IF my Grandmother had written me. She is long gone, but I will ALWAYS treasure those letters. Now, you could NOT pay me to put anything in a MAILBOX. Between dishonest post office employees and the ever INCREASING postage rates = nope!!! Any opinions out there?  🤔 Take care,Nicole  👵  (Friends & Family Forum)

ANY COMMENTS?  🤔  IT HAS BEEN YEARS SINCE I ATE ONE!  👵 Take advantage of these savory savings on Thursday, April 4. By Jennifer Ortiz, AARP. Published April 03, 2024. Mexican restaurant chains are offering burrito bargains to celebrate National Burrito Day. Whether you enjoy chicken, steak or vegetarian options wrapped in a tortilla, there’s a deal for you on Thursday, April 4. Here’s where you can save without skimping on the flavor.   *** USE LINK AT BOTTOM OF THIS POST TO READ THIS ARTICLE *** [1] Then enter Email Address you used to sign in to use This Site.   [2] Then enter the password you use.   [3] Lastly, there are 3 LETTERS that will "pop up" as their SECURITY CHECK. Enter those.   [4] Then click log in.   https://www.aarp.org/home-family/friends-family/info-2024/national-burrito-day-deals.html

The 4th annual Homewood-Flossmoor Juneteenth Festival organized by You Matter 2 is a celebration of African American culture as expressed through food, music, dance, and arts. Our mission is to provide an environment that celebrates and showcases the uniqueness, power, and endurance of African Americans. In the spirit of community service and civic engagement, we invite you to participate in a volunteering event dedicated to supporting and uplifting our community on Juneteenth. This is a unique opportunity to make a positive impact, learn more about the history and significance of Juneteenth, and engage with the community in a meaningful way.Details of the Volunteering Opportunity:Date: June 15th, 2024Time: Multiple shifts between 7:00 AM - 6:30 PM Location: Homewood-Flossmoor High school - 999 Kedzie Avenue Flossmoor, IL 60422Activities:  Activity Booth Sales, Beverage Station sales, Beverage station refill, Entrance team, Lost & Found/ Stage Hands, Registration, Ru

ANY COMMENTS?  🤔  I DO NOT PAY FOR ANYTHING = USE FREE PBS APP, PRIME'S FREE VERSION [FREEVEE ON THEIR APP].  👵 FROM THE ARTICLE - SEE ARTICLE FOR MORE! *** Includes prices too ***  Spring Clean Your TV Streaming Services in Just 3 Steps. Save money and enjoy more shows and movies with this easy guide. By Tracey Minkin, AARP. Published March 26, 2024. *** USE LINK AT BOTTOM OF THIS POST TO READ THIS ARTICLE *** [1] Then enter Email Address you used to sign in to use This Site.   [2] Then enter the password you use.   [3] Lastly, there are 3 LETTERS that will "pop up" as their SECURITY CHECK. Enter those.   [4] Then click log in.   https://www.aarp.org/entertainment/television/info-2024/tv-streaming-services-cleanup.html

ANY MILITARY OUT THERE?  🤔  THANK YOU FOR YOUR SERVICE!!!  👵 Veterans Return to Vietnam, Carrying the Spirits of Their Fellow Servicemen.  Nearly 400 miles biked across the Central Highlands during 11 days in March. By Aaron Kassraie, AARP. Published March 21, 2024. *** USE LINK AT BOTTOM OF THIS POST TO READ THIS ARTICLE *** [1] Then enter Email Address you used to sign in to use This Site. [2] Then enter the password you use. [3] Lastly, there are 3 LETTERS that will "pop up" as their SECURITY CHECK. Enter those. [4] Then click log in.    https://www.aarp.org/home-family/voices/veterans/info-2024/returning-to-vietnam.html

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 3-11-2024 Hello to my AARP Community, Hope you anticipates the Eyes of Spring. Missed another Snowy Winter! We onlyhad Conversational Snow. I miss the seasons of winter. Not ice but enjoy snow.Let me tell you about six (6) years ago when I made a Reservation on Southwest Airlines to go to my Sister’s Funeral. Her children decided not to have the Funeral,but a Cremation. I immediately called ( less than 10 min.) to cancel. The Fee wasalready taken from my Credit Card. I have tried to contact everyone from Southwest and my Credit Card. I contacted the COO and COE from both. I have had two (2) Attorneys to contact both of the Companies heads. No results. By the Way, I repaid the Credit Card since I have been a Customer for years. No results!Got a letter from Southwest explaining that they sent my Refund back to theCredit Card. Therefore, the Credit Card was paid TWICE! What is a RetiredPerson to do? Now I have to pay another Lawyer and Court Fees. I would ra

FROM THE ARTICLE: Learn more about AARP Foundation’s work to help older adults apply for SNAP benefits. Read more stories about how our programs have helped people find hope, and about the volunteers who give so much of themselves to help others. https://www.aarp.org/aarp-foundation/our-work/food-security/tom-mcspedden-snap-story.html

ANY COMMENTS?  🤔 FROM THE ARTICLE. 6 Bargains to Look for at the Dollar Store​. Stocking up on these products at Dollar General, Dollar Tree or Family Dollar can save you money. By Donna Fuscaldo, AARP. Published March 08, 2024. Dollar stores may have gotten a bum rap in years past, but with inflation still elevated, they’re attracting many frugal shoppers looking to get a lot of bang for their buck. https://www.aarp.org/money/budgeting-saving/info-2024/dollar-store-bargains.html

WHAT ARE YOUR LESSONS FOR YOUR YOUNGER SELF?  🤗  LOL, I HAVE LOTS BUT A DECISION I WOULD NOT REPEAT NOW WOULD BE TO MARRY MY EX = AGE 21 & NAIVE!  😎 Hard-won wisdom I wish I had gained in my 20s. By Lisa Beach. Published March 07, 2024. https://www.aarp.org/home-family/friends-family/info-2024/younger-self-life-lessons.html

ANYONE USED THEM? WHERE DO YOU DO YOUR ONLINE SHOPPING?  🤔  I DONOT "TRUST" ONLINE ANYTHING AND ONLY WHEN I CANNOT FIND AN ITEM I "NEED" DO I DO IT. SO FAR, AMAZON - WALMART - HOME DEPOT - LEE'S JEANS.  😎 FROM THE ARTICLE - SEE ARTICLE FOR MORE. Both low-cost retailers ship from China, but there are differences. By Beth Braverman, AARP. Published March 08, 2024. Is it safe to shop at these companies? Both sites claim to follow security best practices with customer information at checkout. But the U.S.-China Economic and Security Review Commission has raised concerns about data risks associated with the sites. If you’re worried but still want to shop with them, one way to protect yourself is to opt not to save your financial information on the site and to use a disposable virtual credit card to pay for your purchase. Available through most credit card issuers, disposable virtual cards are single-use numbers that are different from the ones

Soul-mates for 55 Years For two weeks now, I have had discomfort wearing shoes: I developed a massive, gooey blister firmly attached to my big left toe until an urgent care doctor painstakingly removed the uninvited protuberance.Now I take my daily walks on the 12th floor rug espanse where I can safely wear sandals or slipper socks. I have not seen anyone during my random half-hour jaunts across the corridor, but I rarely get bored because when I walk unhindered, I fondly think of all of the medicating and bandaging that my wife has lovingly done to my distraught toe, never mind the anticoagulant drug that she faithfully injects into my pockets of fatty lower-torso tissue day and night.I am grateful and feel blessed because of my wife’s devotion to my care. She always accompanies me when I go to the myriad doctor appointments scheduled throughout the year. My wife is my advocate; the doctors are well aware of her well-versed and documented concerns. When my wife has visited some o

By Dave Basner. Mar 1, 2024. IN MY OPINION - TIME FOR THEM TO REMOVE THEIR BLUE MAILBOXES AND EMPLOY MORE "COUNTER" HELP INSIDE POST OFFICES.  😎  ANY OPINIONS?  🤔 https://kfiam640.iheart.com/content/2024-03-01-usps-warns-not-to-use-their-blue-mailboxes/

Some days, I rather "deal" with animals (NO humans) = THEY ARE ALWAYS uncomplicated and full of LUV!!! Nicole  👵

HOW ARE YOU REDUCING YOUR COSTS?  🤔  ME - MAINTENANCE AND LOW MILEAGE INSURANCE!  😎 Car costs are going through the sunroof. But there are ways to save. By Margie Zable Fisher. Published December 29, 2023. https://www.aarp.org/auto/trends-technology/reduce-car-expenses/

DO YOU LIKE REALITY SHOWS? DO YOU HAVE A FAVORITE? 🤔  I USE TO, BUT NO SINCE RETIRING! 😎 The 12 Best Reality TV Shows for Grownups, Ranked! From guilty ‘Real Housewives’ pleasures to feel-good ‘British Baking Show’ sweets, we’ve got your ultimate TV reality checklist. Binge away ­— we won’t judge. By Tracey Minkin. Published February 21, 2024. https://www.aarp.org/entertainment/television/info-2024/best-reality-tv-shows/