I really appreciate your insights and encouragement!  Thank you.

I find it hard to overcome my own self talk "I can't remember names."  Kind of like "I can't do math."   

I am trying to lock in a specific time each day for a call, coffee date, or hobby.  When it's on my calendar it becomes a non-negotiable habit.  

Very good idea --- my local library has interesting (and free) events this summer --- stumbled upon this and wish I knew sooner.

I am giving thought to which points redemption option I might choose that will lead to more social connection... like a restaurant gift card so I can meet up with a new friend.  Everything is so expensive these days... every little bit helps.