Help for friend who is overwhelmed with taking care of her business
My late 70's friend and her Aspergers husband are sinking deeper into marital and financial trouble. They have 3 houses in far-apart states. She does all the work to take care of the properties, personal finances and all of their stuff. They need to sell at least one of their houses. He can't/won't help her because its too frustrating for him to deal with her lack of organization and ability to finish projects. Plus it is physically painful for him to deal with strangers. She is a very capable person but she no longer has her fastball and the projects are piling up around her. She can't keep up and is falling further behind. The husband has expressed that he can no longer live with the situation. He is contemplating his mortality and all the things had hoped for in his later life. She is overwhelmed with what to do to get her/their lives back on track. They are both hurt and aren't sure what the future holds.
They need an organization that can help them clarify their projects and help them resolve their challenges efficiently. Sell one of the houses, pay back taxes, dispose of the tons of stuff they no longer need, sell their time share, etc. At a time of their lives in which they need to simplify, things are getting much more complex. They can afford to pay an organization to help them simplify things. They have homes in VA, MD and ME. They want to sell the home in VA.