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ChaviB814890rest
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December 31, 2022

🤔 What CHALLENGE(s) Are YOU Facing RIGHT NOW?

  • December 31, 2022
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    ChaviB814890restAuthor
    Community Manager
    January 5, 2023

    3 comments (Thursday 1/5/23) Well the DREADED weekend is getting closer. Thursdays (today) are ALWAYS "sad" for me. It seems everyone where I live are ENJOYING their weekends while I am busy feeling sorry for myself. Luv you all, Nicole 🤗🤎

      BeatleloverKT
      BeatleloverKT
      Community Champion ⭐⭐⭐
      January 5, 2023

      We must find our own joy I guess. I just don’t know where to even begin. It seems impossible most days 

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      LeeS4949
      Community Champion ⭐
      January 5, 2023

      Joy frequently comes from unexpected places. I've seen it happen so often to me and others. I've never believed we can "make"it happen, maybe that's for others to do for us. A small contribution to our lives as we go thru our day perhaps. Its never an exact science, more fate. I dont believe in luck.

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        ChaviB814890restAuthor
        Community Manager
        January 5, 2023

        1 comment (Thursday 1/5/23) @BeatleloverKT , @CarolynS674392 , @LeeS4949 and @jonibee 🤎🤗

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          LeeS4949
          Community Champion ⭐
          January 5, 2023

          Today is a weather day. Ice and freezing rain. I hear the roads are treacherous. Looks like a day to den up with the gang which is ok. I've been busy this week so I could use a house day.

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          ChaviB814890restAuthor
          Community Manager
          January 7, 2023

          8 comments (Saturday 1/7/23) Dreary days always make me sad and overthink missing my loved ones. Today is one, cloudy! Luv you all, Nicole 🤗🤎

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          LeeS4949
          Community Champion ⭐
          January 7, 2023

          It is here too but maybe I'm just used to it. If the sun is out in Maine it's usually noteworthy. Not the best weather in the world but we make it work somehow.

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          ChaviB814890restAuthor
          Community Manager
          January 7, 2023

          2 comments (1/7/23) There is no pleasing me as I don't like much sun = hot, hot flashes./lol 😂🤣

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            ChaviB814890restAuthor
            Community Manager
            January 8, 2023

            1 comment (1/8/23) WE LUV YOU Eileen @EileenP559346 🤎🤗 and sending you health. Hope you feel better soon! Nicole 🤎🤗

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            EileenP559346
            Contributor ⭐⭐
            January 9, 2023

            Thank you.  Appreciate all of you.  Eileen

              BeatleloverKT
              BeatleloverKT
              Community Champion ⭐⭐⭐
              January 9, 2023

              Thinking of you all today. Sun is out today which always makes me feel better. Hope everyone has a blessed day 😎

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                LeeS4949
                Community Champion ⭐
                January 9, 2023

                And you as well  🤗

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                ChaviB814890restAuthor
                Community Manager
                January 9, 2023

                1 comment (1/9/23) SO GOOD to hear from you today @LeeS4949 , @BeatleloverKT and @EileenP559346 . Thinking of you @MarcyW882921 and @jonibee 🤎🤗

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                  LeeS4949
                  Community Champion ⭐
                  January 9, 2023

                  Great to hear from you 😊 Is today Walmart day?

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                  ChaviB814890restAuthor
                  Community Manager
                  January 12, 2023

                  1 comment (THURSDAY 1/12/23) Well, had a very "rough" week but was too full of hate to share. Yes, they say to "forgive" and I have not gotten to that level. And "forget" - never! But just now, it was like LIFE reminded me that I had come too far to let TOXIC folks infiltrate my mind. Take up so much space, you are cold and unfeeling. Nope, toxic person, you had your fun. Stepping away for a few days did help. Missing you MamaMae, Aunt Len and Aunt Edna. Rest in peace my ladies... 🤗🤗🤗🤎🤎🤎  

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                  LeeS4949
                  Community Champion ⭐
                  January 12, 2023

                  I'm so sorry for the week you've had. I sensed something but I didn't want to push or pester you. I know sometimes stepping away is a way to deal with the toxic ones that inevitably slither into our lives, leaning on others is another. You're last posting says it all. They may have effected your week but you didn't let them win. Hugs and smiles.  🤗

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                  CarolynS674392
                  Conversationalist ⭐⭐⭐
                  January 17, 2023

                  Being ignored.  My two sisters-in-law took me out to dinner for my birthday, but they, one especially, wouldn't talk to me when I spoke to her.  I was sitting across from both of them.  I said "Why are you ignoring me?"  and she said it was because she was eating.  Also, they are sisters, so when we get together they talk amongst themselves and don't include me.  Why take me out if you are not going to converse with me?  

                  Then, about a week before, I was at the hair salon and the one doing hair was talking to her client about a Polish market.  I tried to enter the conversation by asking where it was - about three times I tried to talk and they ignored me too.  What is it about me?

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                    CarolynS674392
                    Conversationalist ⭐⭐⭐
                    January 17, 2023

                    This makes me cry.  I feel so sad.

                    BeatleloverKT
                    BeatleloverKT
                    Community Champion ⭐⭐⭐
                    January 23, 2023

                    Thinking of all of you as I continue to put one 

                    foot in front of the other 🙏

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                      ChaviB814890restAuthor
                      Community Manager
                      January 23, 2023

                      1 comment (1/23/23) Good to hear from you today @BeatleloverKT 🤗🤎

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                        LeeS4949
                        Community Champion ⭐
                        January 23, 2023

                        Thank you for the kudo,I'm glad you are back. 😊

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                        EileenP559346
                        Contributor ⭐⭐
                        January 25, 2023

                        So, yesterday was his birthday.  First one without him.  First one of a lifetime without him.  As with Christmas and New Years the day after is worse than the actual day.  I am not sure why it is like that.  Yesterday my heart hurt, but today the tears are flowing more.  I am trying to keep busy but everything just brings me back to him.  The challenges I am facing and will continue to face are many, however I know that he (and God) gives me strength to get through.  I wish all of you the strength to get through the challenges we face....>Eileen

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                          MarcyW882921
                          Community Champion ⭐⭐
                          January 26, 2023

                          Be kind and gentle with yourself. It's what you need right now and with loving care you will continue to put one foot in front of the other.

                           

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