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SummerOnTheWay1

📎 Good Morning Suzanne @SuzanneS949035 !!!

How are you TODAY?

I am here IF and when you need me!!!

I hope you slept last night.

I am thinking of YOU.

Luv,

Nicole 🤗🤗🤗 (Grief Forum)

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SuzanneS949035

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Hello Nicole,

I'm hanging in there one day at a time. His adult kids came this past weekend to get some of his things I thought they should have of his.

I'm still dragging my tail not moving forward with any routine, just trying to cover all bases and figure out if I can afford to keep my house.

I'm ok until someone asks about him, then it comes rushing back like it just happened.

HOping the woulduve, coulduve, shoulduve stuff moves on so I can stop tormenting myself and second guessing what I could have done different to help him.

I'm trying.....

I hope you're doing well.

Suzanne

SummerOnTheWay1

📎@mc6844 @MarcyW882921 @Cadee2719 @jonibee check your AARP PMs. I just sent you guys a "heads up". Been a peaceful 6 months here in the Grief Forum since the last drama this year's Mother's Day 2024. I am hoping with the visit today, we donot have a repeat performance. Missing poor and dear Allen @Therapist4u . Hope he is okay and will stop by again. Sad when certain folks feel a need to drive folks away. Lol, same person had driven me away last year Father's Day 2023. Luv you ALL, Nicole 🤗🤗🤗 (Grief Forum)

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Cadee2719

Community Champion ⭐

Sad that some people feel it is necessary to critique others, especially those working hard to find peace and love for those going through a very difficult time in their lives. I admire the people on this site for being strong and wanting to help others on this journey. We share our lives with each other because we care about each other and understand the highs and lows we experience. We do not criticize each other because WE are OUR harshest critics. This site has provided me with helpful information, smiles, laughter and a sense of connection with those that truly understand. Nicole, Thank You for all that you do and the commitment that you have for being here for us. ❤️

SummerOnTheWay1

📎 Cadee @Cadee2719 , thank you SO MUCH for "supporting" the grievers who stop by. This Grief Forum is suppose to be a place EVERYONE can be themselves. WE have lost so many people due to the drama and jealously. Allen @Therapist4u is the latest. I miss his HUMOR in spite of the HELL he is going through. AARP owns this Grief Forum!!! 👍👍👍

Luv,

Nicole 🤗🤗🤗 (Grief Forum)

[*** CADEE wrote: Sad that some people feel it is necessary to critique others, especially those working hard to find peace and love for those going through a very difficult time in their lives. I admire the people on this site for being strong and wanting to help others on this journey. We share our lives with each other because we care about each other and understand the highs and lows we experience. We do not criticize each other because WE are OUR harshest critics. This site has provided me with helpful information, smiles, laughter and a sense of connection with those that truly understand. Nicole, Thank You for all that you do and the commitment that you have for being here for us. ❤️ ***]

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Cadee2719

Community Champion ⭐

Morning Nicole. Yes, I got my ultrasounds scheduled for 11/26. Being that it is taking place in the center of town, my son is taking me. Downtown is filled with one way streets and quite busy so I AVOID it at all costs. Finding someone to refill my diabetes medication has been a challenge. The doctor in California has retired and the doctor I saw here cannot do it. They are suggesting I go to the ER and have them fill it???? Moving to a new area and arranging for new doctors has taken 6 months to do and has been a CHALLENGE. I am hoping that the family doctor I have an appointment with in December can help me resolve all these problems. The holidays are coming and it is hard. This will be my first Thanksgiving and Christmas in my new home; a big adjustment for me. I miss my husband, son and brother more than ever. November 25 my husband & I would have celebrated our 63 wedding anniversary. I moved to a state that my son was planning on moving to and now I am here without him. Funny how LIFE has a different plan for me.

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MarcyW882921

Community Champion ⭐⭐

Cadee,

I hope your ultrasound appointment goes well tomorrow and I'm glad your son is taking you. I'm so sorry that finding continuity for your medical care has been so challenging! I admire your perseverance and hope that it will yield some positive results for you very soon.

I know moving can be stressful even without having to deal with doctors. I remember feeling pretty alone when we moved south. I don't know if you are interested, but Grief Works does webinars periodically and they are doing one on December 2nd about navigating The holiday season. You can find it at illume apps.com in the Community Live tab. Maybe it would be helpful as you are trying to get through the holidays in your new home.

Sending hugs,

Marcy

mc6844

Community Champion ⭐⭐

It's a good time of year not to take anything on, or lose ourselves in what could become exhausting. Being older prevents me from that lol. And of course it does nothing to alleviate the pain of loss. So what activities help everyone on the forum refresh our minds and keep our spirits calm? Watching movies is good. No heavy topics. I like Westerns. Why? The scenery is beautiful and calming. Comedies are good. Paul Blatt Mall Cop 2 has some very funny scenes. There are many interesting series too. Of course it takes time to be able to sit still. That is ok too. I hope everyone finds something to help them refresh minds and spirits.

SummerOnTheWay1

1 step at a time! 👣

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mr6784

Contributor ⭐

Glad to discover this forum as I am almost only 3rd month since my oldest brother Bob 88,died September 15. I was numb for 2 months which surprised me as usually cried a lot in grief. As a priest I felt blessed to lead the celebration of his life at the funeral home. Grateful to his pastor for liturgy.And I did the service at the cemetery, with family we sang in holy circle send him off and again no tears.
I feel somewhat misplaced with my grief the funeral was 3 hrs from where I live and only one friend present. My brother was mentor, supportive and strong encourager . He too was a priest 38 yrs.

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MkK700720

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Haven't stopped by in a while. But I do think of all of you. I was very grateful to find this forum at the time of loss. And wish to share my condolences for others suffering loss. Please stop by and let everyone know how you are. Peace and love!

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KarlaH578935

Contributor ⭐

I lost my husband Jim on Feb. 2, 2024 after a three year battle with lung cancer. I was offered help through grief therapy groups but I was not ready to talk to others about it. I think I was worried about hearing so many sad stories . I am thankful there is this forum for me because unfortunately the program I was offered after his death had a one year expiration date on it. I don't understand that. Everyone grieves differently and there shouldn't be a time line for when you need to be ready to seek out others. I miss him and nights are still the hardest for me. I have wonderful kids and grandkids that are there for me and a wonderful support system in friends and my church, but there are still times I feel so alone.

Karla

SummerOnTheWay1

📎 Karla @KarlaH578935 , how are you doing?

Luv,

Nicole 🤗🤗🤗 (Grief Forum)

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KarlaH578935

Contributor ⭐

I am doing okay right now. Never quite sure what kind of day it is going to be. Yesterday I felt drained and just wanted to sleep, but today I have more energy and I'm actually digging into the Psalms a little. I had bible study and lunch with friends of Wednesday and felt good after. Starting to notice a bit of a pattern, in that, days after I have seen friends always seem to be a little harder. I guess I need to find a balance between activity and quiet.

Karla

SummerOnTheWay1

📎 Dear Marcy @MarcyW882921 , you are in my thoughts "busy" lady!!!

I am here if you need me.

Luv,

Nicole ‌🤗‌‌🤗‌‌🤗‌ (Grief Forum)

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MarcyW882921

Community Champion ⭐⭐

Thanks Nicole @SummerOnTheWay1 ! I'm stopping by to say hi. I was busy with chorus activities the last few days. I have had visits in my dreams lately, and more angel numbers appearing. It is all good.

Marcy

SummerOnTheWay1

📎 Try to WELCOME EACH DAY for what it is.

I feel we will ALWAYS have days/nights of darkness BUT as the saying goes = we will survive and be stronger.

Luv,

Nicole ‌🤗‌‌🤗‌‌🤗‌ (Grief Forum)

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MarcyW882921

Community Champion ⭐⭐

Yes, and the dawn will come.

Marcy

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