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LoisG977191
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April 12, 2024

Loss of husband of many years

  • April 12, 2024
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My husband passed away--and it seemed sudden but had a disease for which there was no cure. Even though I try to keep busy I often get very tearful. It's been very painful. I'm sure it's been that way for everyone. And I don't know what to expect from writing this except it feels better to share.

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      SummerOnTheWay1
      SummerOnTheWay1
      April 12, 2024

      📎  Hi Lois @LoisG977191 , I am so sorry for your loss and I am ALWAYS here for you!!!

       

      [1] To me, it is a DAILY journey and I have learn't to take 1 step at a time.

       

      [2] Do you have anyone there with you? I don't but texting and calling my only child in Florida helps. I am in Virginia.

       

      [3] We do have a DAILY CHAT THREAD and we would luv to have you join us when and IF you are interested.

       

      Nicole  🤗🤗🤗

       

      [*** LOIS wrote: My husband passed away--and it seemed sudden but had a disease for which there was no cure. Even though I try to keep busy I often get very tearful. It's been very painful. I'm sure it's been that way for everyone. And I don't know what to expect from writing this except it feels better to share. ***]
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      LoisG977191Author
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      April 12, 2024

      Thank you so much!  Appreciate your support. I'm living alone but gave a sweet dog that helps me at times. 

       

        mc6844
        mc6844
        Community Champion ⭐⭐
        April 14, 2024

        Lois, I'm so sorry for your loss. The missing is difficult and painful. I'm glad you're stopping in at the forum. Expressing your grief a little at a time will help to lighten your days. 

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          LoisG977191Author
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          April 19, 2024

          Thank you so much for your support and advice. I'm glad I joined this forum.

            mc6844
            mc6844
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            May 6, 2024

            Lois, this is a good forum. Thoughtful people and kindness. I hope it makes you feel better. We all have days of trying times. There are certain things to deal with whether I had the grief or not.  It's a day at a time. Take care!

              SummerOnTheWay1
              SummerOnTheWay1
              April 18, 2024

              📎  How are YOU doing Lois @LoisG977191 ?

               

              Nicole🤗🤗🤗

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              LoisG977191Author
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              April 19, 2024

              Wow! You guys are the best. I appreciate your concern. I am "okay" for now. Good days and bad days; however, I know this is normal. A memory can trigger a sad response, Thanks for your kind words of support.

                SummerOnTheWay1
                SummerOnTheWay1
                April 26, 2024

                📎  Lois @LoisG977191 , I am thinking of YOU!!!

                 

                Nicole  🤗🤗🤗

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                LoisG977191Author
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                April 26, 2024

                You are so thougtful!

                  SummerOnTheWay1
                  SummerOnTheWay1
                  June 11, 2024

                  📎  Hi Lois @LoisG977191 , how are YOU doing? Nicole  🤗🤗🤗

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                  LoisG977191Author
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                  June 11, 2024

                   

                  Thanks for your kind remarks. I am doing somewhat better, and I keep especially busy with activities. I like your name...Summer is always too hot for me. Like that I live in a cooler climate.

                    SummerOnTheWay1
                    SummerOnTheWay1
                    August 8, 2024

                    📎  Dear Lois @LoisG977191 I am thinking of YOU today  🤗🤗🤗

                      mc6844
                      mc6844
                      Community Champion ⭐⭐
                      August 27, 2024

                      Same here Lois, hope you are feeling better. Take care!

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