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TheresaF849375
Conversationalist ⭐
April 26, 2025

Help with grief

  • April 26, 2025
  • 64 replies
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I lost my husband of 55 years April 2nd.  I’m lost, he was my everything.  We did everything together.

We have two great adult kids, 3 beautiful granddaughters and a 9 month old great grandson.

They have their lives, which is what we always wanted,…

I just need someone to chat with.  Tell them how wonderful he is,…share memories,…

‘Help me maybe get through another day without him…

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    SummerOnTheWay1
    SummerOnTheWay1
    Community Champion ⭐⭐⭐
    April 26, 2025

    Theresa @TheresaF849375 , I am SO SORRY for your loss dear friend!!!  ‌😭‌

     

    I am HERE - talk to me.  ‌💛‌

     

    Luv,

    Nicole  🤗🤗🤗  (Grief Forum)

     

    ➡️[*** THERESA wrote: I lost my husband of 55 years April 2nd.  I’m lost, he was my everything.  We did everything together.

    We have two great adult kids, 3 beautiful granddaughters and a 9 month old great grandson.

    They have their lives, which is what we always wanted,…

    I just need someone to chat with.  Tell them how wonderful he is,…share memories,…

    ‘Help me maybe get through another day without him… ***]

      SummerOnTheWay1
      SummerOnTheWay1
      Community Champion ⭐⭐⭐
      May 5, 2025

      Theresa @TheresaF849375 , are you still taking meds? I hope they are helping!!!

       

      Did you do anything today/tonight?

       

      Hey Dalton  🐕  & Circus  🐈,  I know you are keeping an eye on mom.  

       

      Luv,

      Nicole  🤗🤗🤗  (Grief Forum)

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      TheresaF849375Author
      Conversationalist ⭐
      May 6, 2025

      I’m not sure what I’m doing.  I think I responded to an old chat.  How’d your car appt go??  I hope it wasn’t anything too costly.  
      How was the rest of your day?  Nothing much here.  Was sunny, and warmed up a bit.  Hope you had a good day…and restful evening.  Well, I guess it’s tomorrow….haveva good Tuesday.  💔💔💕💕💕

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        TheresaF849375Author
        Conversationalist ⭐
        April 26, 2025
        • Thank you, it just seems that people will read the postings, but no one really wants to chat.  Thank you tho,…it does mean a lot to me.  💔
          SummerOnTheWay1
          SummerOnTheWay1
          Community Champion ⭐⭐⭐
          April 27, 2025

          You are welcome Theresa @TheresaF849375 !!!  💛

           

          Luv,

          Nicole  🤗🤗🤗  (Grief Forum)

           

          ➡️[*** Theresa wrote: Thank you, it just seems that people will read the postings, but no one really wants to chat.  Thank you tho,…it does mean a lot to me.  💔  ***]
          SummerOnTheWay1
          SummerOnTheWay1
          Community Champion ⭐⭐⭐
          May 1, 2025

          📎  I agree Theresa @TheresaF849375  💛

           

          ➡️[*** Theresa wrote:

          📸  Picture Attached.

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          TheresaF849375Author
          Conversationalist ⭐
          May 10, 2025

          Hi Sweetpea,…rough few days.  Still just so tired.

          how are you and mister doing?? ‘
          I’ll try to sit and catch up.  I’m still here….💔💔🐈🐈‍⬛

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            patricias112317
            Contributor ⭐
            August 16, 2025

            Dear Theresa

            so very sorry for your loss. I have lost my entire immediate family sister, twin, mother is missing person since 1975 and a father who was never that. Unresolved grief has not allowed the hole in my heart to heal. I am hear to listen as the silence of not being able to let these feelings out is deafening!

              mc6844
              mc6844
              Community Champion ⭐⭐
              October 18, 2025

              I'm so sorry for your losses. I'm glad you found this forum. No pressure here. Drop in when you can and leave a bit of grief each time. It helps a lot  And please take good care of yourself Patricia! 

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                WalkingWoman
                Contributor ⭐
                October 24, 2025

                And today at the supermarket as I was leaving, I saw the sign on the door that said, Automatic door, Keep Moving.  Perhaps that is what we are all doing these days, just keep moving.  And why am I buying so much food for one person!  

                This seems really hard...

                I'm looking for a support group to share with, 

                  mc6844
                  mc6844
                  Community Champion ⭐⭐
                  October 30, 2025

                  Walking Woman I'm so sorry for your loss. You're right. It is hard. I also kept buying and cooking the same amount of food. For over a year. I'm not sure if I even realized it. Until my budget spoke to me. lol.  I'm glad you're stopping in at the forum. And leaving a bit of grief each time. I've learned it's a process of life that most of us go through. I have no words to help. You will get ideas and support by reading these posts. Knowing your posts helps others too. You'll get through it there's just no easy way. I get my peace through my faith in Christ. And spiritual beliefs of our choosing. You will be okay!  Take care. 💕

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                    AngleS694104
                    Contributor ⭐⭐
                    May 8, 2026

                    I’m really sorry you’re going through this. You might find a local grief group or even just setting up a daily call/text with one of your kids to share a memory of him - it honestly helps more than people expect.

                      mc6844
                      mc6844
                      Community Champion ⭐⭐
                      June 21, 2026

                      I'm so sorry for the loss of your dear husband. You're in the right place. Stop by when you can. There are good kind people here who understand your grief and who have been and are where you are.  Please take care!

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