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[jonibee]

Just an update on the hands (Carpal Tunnel)..Went to Ortho doctor who did xrays and found I have moderate carpal tunnel and issued braces to be worn at night as they are long. I have to put a square covering as the fabric and metal inner piece bothers the hands but I will use them as directed ..Go back for appt. if pain is still prevalent in Nov.Then it will be Cortisone shots followed by surgery if they don't work...I sold my car after having the brakes go while enroute to my home from bank..a very scary feeling.  At 81 not desirable .I haven't been driving much at all since my husband passed which is just about a year. Daughters/Son have been taking turns driving me to appts/grocery shopping ..I am a homebody at heart and have enough things to keep me busy...Actually I had no complaints about the Buick had it for 17 years and it just started to have problems which meant repairs at a high cost...Sometimes I order groceries from a local market which delivers for a small fee & tip to the driver who delivers right to the door..Because knitting is out of the question I'm thinking of other hobbies to do to keep my mind and senses busy and actove..So that's it in a nut shell for me..Thank you for your concern...

[SummerIsTooHOT]

(1 comment/10-10-23) 

@MarcyW882921 🤗

Thinking of you today Marcy!

[MarcyW882921]

Thanks Nicole @SummerIsTooHOT. It was a busy day. I played tennis this morning and had two chorus performances this afternoon.🎶

Marcy

[SummerIsTooHOT]

(1 comment/10-8-23)

💤😴  SWEET DREAMS!

Starting to get dark here in Melbourne, Florida. Time changes soon NEXT month (November), we get an EXTRA hour of SLEEP that day. 😎

I hope we ALL have a "restful" night TONIGHT! 🙃

See you tomorrow. So GLAD my neighbors return to school and jobs TOMORROW = my PEACEFUL retirement returns...  💃💃💃

Nicole 🤗

[MarcyW882921]

I don't know about you Nicole @SummerIsTooHOT, but I am ready for my hour back!

Marcy

[SummerIsTooHOT]

(1 comment/10-8-23)

DREAMS DISCUSSION (if anyone interested 😎)

A few of us had mentioned this topic and I was wondering IF anyone has had theirs interpreted? 🤔

Me, nope - but now have an interest as last night, another night of being in my dream.

But this time, I am rested for today's whatever. GRATEFUL! 💃💃💃

Gosh, the recent Dream Night wore my a.s out and I felt like I could sleep for years.

MC @mc6844 had mentioned STRESS AND GRIEVING affecting our dreams. Yikes! 😱

Anyway, thought I would bring this up....

Thanks,

Nicole 🤗

[MarcyW882921]

My husband was a psychologist and loved doing dream interpretation. He has done mine for all of the years we were together and most of the time he laughed at them. Sometimes he would tell me what was so funny, but not always.

Marcy

[CarolD435501]

I am maybe a little better, and then I am NOT..I am getting out a little more. had dinner out tonight with Monroe,'s Niece....at first I thought no...and then   Yes...go....it will be good for me...I went.  and really enjoyed it....and the company...got to talk about my lost, and after getting back home..I realized it did help me....How long we I grieve, and others do...I have no idea ..but I will keep trying...to get through, but never forget.....LOVE you all, that are having to go through this....

[MarcyW882921]

Carol @CarolD435501, I'm so glad you decided to go out for dinner and that you enjoyed it! We have a lot of time to be home alone, so it's good to get out with people when the opportunity presents itself. Hang in there and it's good to hear from you!

Marcy

[SummerIsTooHOT]

👣  1 Step At A Time!

[mc6844]

Yes, Nicole, those annoying house things like tackling closets, getting rid of gadgets etc that don't work anymore. Generally, just keeping up with things.

One of my favorite activities is dropping in to see how everyone is here on the forum. I'm sorry for all your losses and applaud your efforts to overcome challenges on your own. And to care how others are doing during your own challenging times. Remember you're not alone. Your guardian angels are near. And have come to your assistance many times already, if you think about it. 

[jonibee]

Just  checkng in I'm dealing with Carpal Tunnel syndrone in both hands so I limit what I am doing down to the minimal..Moderate state and am following instructions as to how to deal with it via Orthopedic doctor/surgeon. Hopefully it will subside to the point I can participate in things that I love doing such as knitting and holding a book to read. Yes I too have dreams for the most part good some sad..Each dream usually is what we are going through or have on our mind..I try to figure out the reason behind them ..I believe this is part of the healing process also..I do read the posts even though I'm not always an active participant...

[mc6844]

I hope you feel better! That is so painful to have in both hands. I've found some relief in natural joint supplements and herbs and spices. It can be a worry, dealing with these things on our own. But you seem to be doing very well, probably a lot better than you think. Your insight is always encouraging!

[SummerIsTooHOT]

👣  1 Step At A Time!

[mc6844]

I'm sorry for the loss of your Dad, Nicole. I'm sure that wasn't easy for you or your Mom.

[mc6844]

Hmm....I know kids who aren't allowed anything but carrotts and celery etc. Which is good food. Except how do they manage food when they're on their own? Chocolate with cocoa, I think 70%, is good for people. And we don't want kids eating high carb etc when they go through tough things in life. 

[SummerIsTooHOT]

👣  1 Step At A Time!

[mc6844]

Glad you had a fun event Nicole! Sometimes I pay attention to dreams. They do seem to interfere with rest. They're more vivid during times of stress, and grief. Take care!

[SummerIsTooHOT]

👣  1 Step At A Time!

[Therapist4u]

HAPPY DANCE!!!

HAPPY DANCE!!!

For Nicole and Carol 🙂

[CarolD435501]

I am trying to get out of the darkness I am in  and go to the light.....I know all of us have strange feelings....I will keep trying.....to all    keep trying...getting  through it but not over it.....  

[mc6844]

Carol, thank you for posting. I'm reminded that the light has brightness and warmth, just like the future!

[SummerIsTooHOT]

(1 comment/10-5-23)

Cadee @Cadee2719 🤗🤗🤗

[Cadee2719]

Hi Nicole.  Luv You too.  I have been so busy with doctor visits.  I have another one today and one tomorrow.  Seems like I may have an autoimmune disease (unidentified as of now). I am going to an immunologist for more tests.  Always something isn't it?   Seems like it was a good idea to finally take care of "me" after many, many years of taking care of my husband.  As you say so often:  One Step At A Time   

[SummerIsTooHOT]

👣  1 Step At A Time!

[mc6844]

Glad you had a safe trip to the store. I try to go during non-busy times. But I go when I have the energy. I know that people are impatient when we're slow. Whether on the road or in the grocery. Home delivery is a good option for the heavier items. Take care!

[MarcyW882921]

Nicole @SummerIsTooHOT, I'm glad you went on a day other than a Friday and it went well! 🙂

[SummerIsTooHOT]

👣  1 Step At A Time!

[mc6844]

Food prices have increased $1 to $5 on usual food items I buy. I don't know how families these days cope with increasing food prices.

[mc6844]

I forgot to mention stir-fry. Easy and quick. Cube up protein and keep in freezer to throw in stir-fry. Processed food is not good for elder health. Better to stave off health challenges.