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November 26, 2024

Conversation Topics For Holiday Get Togethers - Respectful and Civil Discussion

  • November 26, 2024
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  2024 Holiday get togethers will be interesting this year!  Many conversations may start with family talking around things that concern them but they can easily escalate to hateful commentary.  This can happen even when someone mentions the high cost of the meal or the cost to fill the gas tank for travel.

 

  How do we avoid the 'triggers' of a conversation?  "Nice Day" or "Have a blessed day." can be mistaken by someone just looking to irritate another.

 

  Topic suggestions?

 

 

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    SummerOnTheWay1
    Community Champion ⭐⭐⭐
    November 26, 2024

    📎  Hey @GAKKIEZ , not much going on here but LUV your topic my friend!!!  👍👍👍

     

    Lol, I AVOID the "drama" = do not attend. That is my solution.  😉

    GAKKIEZAuthor
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    November 26, 2024

      @SummerOnTheWay1 sad, but I'm afraid too many others may feel this way and miss out on an opportunity.  

     

      

    GAKKIEZAuthor
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    November 26, 2024

      Would an acceptable conversation topic be about Sports?  Maybe a local team or a sport (pickleball, etc.)?

     

    papawofboo
    Community Champion ⭐
    November 28, 2024

    Want to be careful when talking about college football, down here in the south.

    Papaw of Boo
    GAKKIEZAuthor
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    November 27, 2024

      Is it considered "safe" to discuss -  Who's missing from the holiday gathering?

     

     

    GailL1
    Community Champion ⭐⭐⭐
    November 27, 2024

    @GAKKIEZ wrote:

      Is it considered "safe" to discuss -  Who's missing from the holiday gathering?

     

     


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    Unless the reply is “the ones that voted for XXXXX”   OR the ones that voted against. XXXXXX.

     

    Division doesn’t stop for Turkeys.

    IT‘S ALWAYS SOMETHING . . . . .. . . . Roseanne Roseannadanna
    GAKKIEZAuthor
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    November 28, 2024

      @GailL1  You're right, that could also include identifying those that weren't invited or said they weren't attending.  

     

      I was 'being nice' in thinking of those that were missing for other reasons.

     

    SummerOnTheWay1
    Community Champion ⭐⭐⭐
    November 27, 2024

    📎  HAPPY Thanksgiving @GAKKIEZ  🤗🤗🤗

     

    Glad you are back. Thought you had left/lol  😂🤣

    GAKKIEZAuthor
    Conversationalist ⭐⭐⭐
    November 28, 2024

      @SummerOnTheWay1  Happy Thanksgiving.

     

      I'm a tougher old bird than that.   

     

     

    GAKKIEZAuthor
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    November 28, 2024

      Can we talk or suggest -  Favorite, best, worst Holiday movie?

       

      That always makes me think about the age of the movie.  Some favorite 'holiday' movies are generationally inspired.

     

    WebWiseWoman
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    November 28, 2024
    GailL1
    Community Champion ⭐⭐⭐
    November 28, 2024

    @WebWiseWoman 

    Great story of an accidental meet and how the relationship has grown - very touching. 

    IT‘S ALWAYS SOMETHING . . . . .. . . . Roseanne Roseannadanna
    GAKKIEZAuthor
    Conversationalist ⭐⭐⭐
    November 28, 2024

      SUGGESTION:

     

       Weather?  Do you prefer hot or cold?  Do you have more issues if it's raining or snowing?

     

    GAKKIEZAuthor
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    November 30, 2024

      I prefer cold weather and I don't mind if it's snowing (if I don't have to drive in it).  I just don't have the patience to drive in bad weather.