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August 23, 2024
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Iam 70 and left my husband 3 months ago filing for a divorce. I own 51 % of our business married for 15 years. Iam looking for someone who likes to have coffee long distance! Or grab a salad long distance tell me about your day your cats your grand children. Give me encouragement so I can get this divorce over! I use to have girl time with friends they have passed on and now I am alone. How about

It? Have Coffee?

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Sea2Summit

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Direct message anytime

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Bea2846

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I am Beatriz,’like to connec with people in my area, Orlando , someone who enjoys concerts, movies and chatinng.

Beatriz Cortes

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BrendaR742471

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I’m new to this site so excuse if I make an error. I’m divorced, Have a King Charles Cavalier spaniel and a cat. Interested in connecting with other animal lovers

SummerOnTheWay1

📎 [Sunday 9/1/24 4:43pm ET] WELCOME to the site Brenda @BrendaR742471 !!! 💃💃💃

I have an indoor/outdoor cat. His humans left him behind when they moved last year 2023. I named him Mr. 🐈 and at the moment he is in my Studio Apt getting his Handsome Sleep in to head out about 10pm tonight. Then returns about 3am scratching up a storm on my Front Door. At age 66 this month, living in Virginia with a daughter in Florida - he has ADDED so much to my life.

Nicole 🙃🙃🙃

[*** BRENDA wrote: I’m new to this site so excuse if I make an error. I’m divorced, Have a King Charles Cavalier spaniel and a cat. Interested in connecting with other animal lovers. ***]

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boboonly1

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I'm just looking over the site today. Probably will not e using it, but do want to know how. sam

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BrendaR742471

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hi Silvana

i’m 76 and divorced in ‘89. The most important suggestion I have is to make sure your finances are ok. Because you own half of your business, I would hire an attorney. My ex and I hired a legal paralegal, which is all we needed. We had no kids and split the house sale proceeds in half. It was an amicable divorce. For one thing, we were both ready to leave, especially me. I flirted with a few possible relationships for some years, but for quite a while now, haven’t wanted one due to the stress it caused me, and it’s been difficult finding someone that’s right for me. I’m so grateful that we had no children. That just compounds the stress. I haven’t connected with my ex since then nor wanted to. Hope this is helpful.

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SilvanaF404878Author

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Thank you for the information. I have an attorney but she seems to be a bit soft and has fallen for my husbands lies so I had to put together a binder with all the information that he had lied to disability and unemployment while working our business! It is very stressful he has hid alot of the money that he stole from the business. Yikes! Went to a meeting and now he wants to move quickly on this divorce which might work in my favor.

SummerOnTheWay1

📎 [Friday 9/6/24 3:36pm ET]

So tell me about Jada 🐈 Brenda @BrendaR742471 - what brand cat food, any toys?

Mr. 🐈 luvs Friskies and NO toys.

Lol, he is determined to stay FERAL and ignored bed and scratching post I had bought him. 🙄🙄🙄

I do dry 5 days and wet 2 with water bowl beside his Feeding Station inside my Studio Apt.

*** They say cats own us/lol 😂🤣

Thanks,

Nicole 🙃🙃🙃

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BrendaR742471

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I feed her a small amount tuna 3 times a day. She throws up with the canned food. Also feed her Friskies kibble every two hours during the day and evening. Can’t give her the kibble twice a day otherwise she may throw it up since she eats so quickly I think. Talk about a pampered cat! She likes one of the scratching posts but will not use the other one. She’s not into toys either but plays with her feather-on-a-string thing. Doesn’t like catnip or boxes unlike many cats. It’s fun watching my dog, Jelly, chase her, which she enjoys. There’s a cat blog that I like called love ‘n hisses and you might enjoy. Robyn and her husband, Fred, take in Mama cats and kittens and then adopt them out. She has a good sense of humor and is informative. They live I. Huntsville, Alabama.

SummerOnTheWay1

📎 [Monday 9/9/24]

Hi Brenda @BrendaR742471 , hope your weekend went well.

Well, things have changed on my end now that he has begun to FINALLY use the OUTDOOR megamansion (plastic container with stray) my neighbor had put on her porch for him.

Now I can shut my door AFTER feeding him at 6:30am ET every morning. I use to let him stay in ALL DAY. Was a pain as he REFUSES to be adopted and COME AND GO all day.

Was okay until we hit 40's THIS WEEK here in Virginia = Fall is kind of here.

So with the CHANGE, I pack up what he has NOT eaten for breakfast and will use for dinner IF he shows up.

Lol, he is DETERMINED to do HIS THING but I am DETERMINED to continue with my routine. He wants ATTENTION on his terms = when I am busy. But IGNORES me when I have time for him./lol 🤣😂

Oh well, got to luv them = bring SO MUCH luv to us. 👍👍👍

So tell me about any hobbies you may have?

Me, luv reading and walking.

Nicole 🙃🙃🙃

[*** BRENDA wrote: I feed her a small amount tuna 3 times a day. She throws up with the canned food. Also feed her Friskies kibble every two hours during the day and evening. Can’t give her the kibble twice a day otherwise she may throw it up since she eats so quickly I think. Talk about a pampered cat! She likes one of the scratching posts but will not use the other one. She’s not into toys either but plays with her feather-on-a-string thing. Doesn’t like catnip or boxes unlike many cats. It’s fun watching my dog, Jelly, chase her, which she enjoys. There’s a cat blog that I like called love ‘n hisses and you might enjoy. Robyn and her husband, Fred, take in Mama cats and kittens and then adopt them out. She has a good sense of humor and is informative. They live I. Huntsville, Alabama. ***]

jimbohretired

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Know the feeling. I lost my wife will be 3 years at Christmas. I continually try to interact with darn near anybody that is willing. Living alone pretty much sucks (at least for me). I have to be able to have friends. I am blessed in that I have a number of casual friends. I am blessed to also have an attentive family I have a daughter in Fountain Hills Az. (about 40 miles from my home) and a son who lives about 1 mile from me. I just got back from a week in Ca.with my Daughters family and am going for a few days back to California with my son - this trip going to the Saturday car get together(think it is called donuts and derelicts) in Huntington Beach and San Diego zoo this trip.

So lemme know if you wish to chat. I live in a Trilogy community in Gilbert Az. ave. age maybe late 60's early 70's (i just turned 79)

Little info about me I kind of am an exercise addict - I bike about 2 hours a day six days a week and the other day I volunteer at my church - just do dooby stuff with a group of 6-8 guys.We Mow -do clean up around church and have coffee and donuts. I also do circuit training MWF. This is as much a social hour as it is exercise. All for now.

Jim

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