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LoisG977191
Contributor ⭐⭐
Apr 12, 2024 3:11 PM UTC

Loss of husband of many years

My husband passed away--and it seemed sudden but had a disease for which there was no cure. Even though I try to keep busy I often get very tearful. It's been very painful. I'm sure it's been that way for everyone. And I don't know what to expect from writing this except it feels better to share.

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      SummerOnTheWay1
      SummerOnTheWay1
      Aug 8, 2024 4:02 PM UTC

      📎  Dear Lois @LoisG977191 I am thinking of YOU today  🤗🤗🤗

      👣 Remember to take 1 step at a time!!!
        mc6844
        mc6844
        Community Champion ⭐⭐
        Aug 27, 2024 5:44 AM UTC

        Same here Lois, hope you are feeling better. Take care!

          SummerOnTheWay1
          SummerOnTheWay1
          Jun 11, 2024 10:04 AM UTC

          📎  Hi Lois @LoisG977191 , how are YOU doing? Nicole  🤗🤗🤗

          👣 Remember to take 1 step at a time!!!
          LoisG977191Author
          Contributor ⭐⭐
          Jun 11, 2024 2:22 PM UTC

           

          Thanks for your kind remarks. I am doing somewhat better, and I keep especially busy with activities. I like your name...Summer is always too hot for me. Like that I live in a cooler climate.

            SummerOnTheWay1
            SummerOnTheWay1
            Apr 26, 2024 4:33 PM UTC

            📎  Lois @LoisG977191 , I am thinking of YOU!!!

             

            Nicole  🤗🤗🤗

            👣 Remember to take 1 step at a time!!!
            LoisG977191Author
            Contributor ⭐⭐
            Apr 26, 2024 7:47 PM UTC

            You are so thougtful!

              SummerOnTheWay1
              SummerOnTheWay1
              Apr 18, 2024 3:53 PM UTC

              📎  How are YOU doing Lois @LoisG977191 ?

               

              Nicole🤗🤗🤗

              👣 Remember to take 1 step at a time!!!
              LoisG977191Author
              Contributor ⭐⭐
              Apr 19, 2024 1:57 PM UTC

              Wow! You guys are the best. I appreciate your concern. I am "okay" for now. Good days and bad days; however, I know this is normal. A memory can trigger a sad response, Thanks for your kind words of support.

                mc6844
                mc6844
                Community Champion ⭐⭐
                Apr 14, 2024 12:09 PM UTC

                Lois, I'm so sorry for your loss. The missing is difficult and painful. I'm glad you're stopping in at the forum. Expressing your grief a little at a time will help to lighten your days. 

                  LoisG977191Author
                  Contributor ⭐⭐
                  Apr 19, 2024 1:58 PM UTC

                  Thank you so much for your support and advice. I'm glad I joined this forum.

                    mc6844
                    mc6844
                    Community Champion ⭐⭐
                    May 6, 2024 10:00 PM UTC

                    Lois, this is a good forum. Thoughtful people and kindness. I hope it makes you feel better. We all have days of trying times. There are certain things to deal with whether I had the grief or not.  It's a day at a time. Take care!

                      SummerOnTheWay1
                      SummerOnTheWay1
                      Apr 12, 2024 3:19 PM UTC

                      📎  Hi Lois @LoisG977191 , I am so sorry for your loss and I am ALWAYS here for you!!!

                       

                      [1] To me, it is a DAILY journey and I have learn't to take 1 step at a time.

                       

                      [2] Do you have anyone there with you? I don't but texting and calling my only child in Florida helps. I am in Virginia.

                       

                      [3] We do have a DAILY CHAT THREAD and we would luv to have you join us when and IF you are interested.

                       

                      Nicole  🤗🤗🤗

                       

                      [*** LOIS wrote: My husband passed away--and it seemed sudden but had a disease for which there was no cure. Even though I try to keep busy I often get very tearful. It's been very painful. I'm sure it's been that way for everyone. And I don't know what to expect from writing this except it feels better to share. ***]
                      👣 Remember to take 1 step at a time!!!
                      LoisG977191Author
                      Contributor ⭐⭐
                      Apr 12, 2024 5:53 PM UTC

                      Thank you so much!  Appreciate your support. I'm living alone but gave a sweet dog that helps me at times. 

                       

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