Finding respite from care giving

Hi Fred, I went through this same thing when I was caring for my mom. What helped me the most was looking into respite care services in chicago that were available through some of the home care agencies here. A lot of them offer just a few hours at a time or even overnight stays if you need something longer, so it's flexible depending on what you can afford and how much time you actually need off. I'd also second what others said about the Area Agency on Aging, they can usually point you toward programs based on your specific situation and budget. It took me a while to actually ask for help but once I did it made a huge difference.

Have you tried contacting your local Area Agency On Aging?  

Hello, only way I was able to get a break is thru family helping me. 

You're not alone, breaks are essential. Check out adult day care, a few hours of in-home, or find local respite programs, there are many that are inexpensive. A short break goes a long way.