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๐ค WE are thinking of YOU! Please Stop By To See Us :)
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WE cry, rejoice, talk, share!
Whatever YOU need, WE are here for YOU.
***YOU are a very SPECIAL person and WE want to hear from YOU***
Grief & Loss Team ๐ค
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Remember, it is okay to take some time off from life to regroup to either heal and/or figure out our NEXT STEPS.
Take your time.
I promise things will FALL IN PLACE as they should IF we allow ourselves to ACCEPT all our victories and/or failures.
YOU GOT THIS!!! โโ๐โโโโ๐โโโโ๐โโ
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THIS MAY HELP YOU!!! Nicole ๐ค๐ค๐ค
@AARPsneed wrote:
I'm so sorry for your loss and to learn you're having a rough time right now but know you are not alone and there are resources available.
[1] The AARP Friendly Voice program has volunteers available Monday through Friday, 9 a.m. โ 5 p.m. ET.
[2] The AARP Virtual Community Center FREE interactive online events and classes designed for learning, self improvement, and fun.
[3] Local AARP events โ Includes local in-person and virtual events. Go to local.aarp.org
[4] Learning Library โ Includes in-person and virtual events. Go to learn.aarp.org
[5] Senior Planet โ For technology, fitness, wellness workshops and more! Go to seniorplanet.org
[6] Movies for Grownups โ Free online movie screenings! Go to aarp.org/FreeMovies
[7] Find articles and resources from experts - Help Guide on Grief & Loss
[8] If you find yourself struggling with Isolation
[8] A great resource on grief -Taking Care of Yourself - Grief, Loss and Healing
[9] Grief Support and Groups
Use the Yellow Pages and call hospitals and hospices near you.
Ask to speak with the Bereavement Coordinator, Social Worker, or Chaplain's Office to get a local grief referral.
Many hospitals and hospices provide grief support to clients for up to one year following a death and offer groups to the general public.
[11] Thank you so much for reaching out for help. Remember there are a community of people here for you. Please take care of yourself.
AARPSneed, AARP Social Response Team
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๐ค DO YOU HAVE A QUESTION AND/OR A TOPIC YOU WOULD LIKE US TO DISCUSS?
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Thanks,
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Call, visit, text, email and so on TODAY the folks you CARE ABOUT.
Why?
Tomorrow is NOT PROMISED...
Luv you,
Nicole โ๐คโโ๐คโโ๐คโ
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YOU ARE SPECIAL!!!
NEVER compare yourself to OTHERS. ๐๐๐
[1] Some of us are Group Folks. Support Groups and OTHER Group Activities have ADDED meaning to lives.
[2] Some are NOT. I fall into this group. Alone Time & One-On-One Interactions = groups stress me out. Maybe that will change, who knows.
[3] Just travel YOUR PATH YOUR WAY.
[4] There will be "suggestions" on this site and WE have to use what WORKS FOR US. And ignore the rest. Nothing wrong with that!!! ๐๐๐
[5] YOU ARE DOING GREAT & I am honored to have you visit and post. ๐๐๐
Luv You,
Nicole ๐ค๐ค๐ค
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In my humble opinion, WE WILL ALWAYS miss our luv ones until the day WE JOIN THEM.
So NEVER feel guilty for this and take 1 Step At A Time โ๐ฃโโ๐ฃโโ๐ฃโ when you FEEL like your INSIDES are hurting and those TEARS have arrived.
There is NO SECRET out there to CANCEL this, but IF we can APPRECIATE the times we are able to MOVE FORWARD - soon we will do so IN SPITE of the tears and heartache I promise.
Luv you all,
Nicole โ๐คโโ๐คโโ๐คโ
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โป๏ธ (1 comment) IT IS A SUBJECT I AND MY DAUGHTER USE TO AVOID UNTIL SHE LOST HER FATHER. NOW SHE UNDERSTANDS WHY I HAD TOLD HER WHERE EVERYTHING IS FOR WHEN I PASS. WHAT DO YOU HAVE SET UP SO FAR FOR YOURSELF? ๐ค ANY TIPS TO SHARE? ๐ค
Me - I set up an area on my bookshelf for ALL legal documents. I am working on the cremation end of things. MY TIP: Try NOT to dwell on your passing as we ALL will one day. Just TRY to remember the ones we leave behind will be GRIEVING. Anything we can do while still ALIVE to make things easier shows we LUV them!!! ๐๐๐
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โป๏ธ (1 comment) REMEMBER THE SAYING AND PRAYER ABOUT STUFF AND PEOPLE WE HAVE NO CONTROL OVER? HOW ARE YOU DEALING WITH THESE SITUATIONS RIGHT NOW? THANKS, NICOLE ๐ค๐ค๐ค
Me - my right now have NO CONTROL OVER are my Neighbors From H.ll Above Me. I won't lie and say I like them. I don't!!! ๐ฑ๐ฑ๐ฑ It has been H.LL with all 3 sets of neighbors above me since moving in 2018. Luv my Cute Studio Apt in the Virginia hills but NO MORE neighbors next to me when I move. Until then, MY MUSIC keeps me SANE.
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๐ 1 comment (โป๏ธ) Remember, listening to someone costs zero and you have made that person feel wanted and cared for.
YES, we all receive the stuff that cost money (money, giftcards, flowers, condolence cards/notes) BUT I know how much being listened to has WARMED my insides!!!
So think of someone TODAY who may be NEEDING your ear...
Thanks,
Nicole ๐ค๐ค๐ค
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https://www.signalsaz.com/articles/how-to-deal-with-loneliness-in-retirement/
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โป๏ธ (1 comment) HOW ARE YOU HANDLING THE HOLIDAYS AND DAYS LIKE MOTHER'S AND FATHER'S DAYS - BIRTHDAYS - ANNIVERSARIES AND SO ON? ๐ค
Me, I have never been a Group Person and as soon as I turned 18, started to "skip" the gatherings. I luv the one-on-one interactions. As far as Father's Day, he was never the father my daughter deserved [drug and crime issues], so she never did the day. Every day is Mother's Day for me = she makes sure I am okay every day. She is the opposite of me and while she avoids family ๐, she has had Extended Family & Friends all her life. So she spends the holidays with them. ๐
Thanks,
Nicole ๐ค๐ค๐ค
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โป๏ธ (2 comments) In my opinion, Living In The Moment helps to keep us SANE - HOPEFUL & PEACEFUL!!! What are YOUR THOUGHTS on this? Thanks, Nicole ๐ค๐ค๐ค
Me - it is taking my all to NOT get angry and mourne the "possible" loss of a dear friend. One I didnot go looking for and who has RENEWED my HOPE of meeting HEALTHY HUMANS in my journey. I had told you guys about Dalinda, a Walmart Employee. Her cancer is back ๐ญ๐ญ๐ญ But you would NEVER know. I pry stuff out of her when she says she is okay. Then it is like the water has been released and she hugs me and tells me WHAT IS REALLY GOING ON. Lol, my Weekly Term = hmmm, now tell me what is really going on AFTER her 1st response to my Weekly How Are You Doing Question of I am OK. I am FINALLY learning that life brings us WHAT WE NEED and forever long it lasts, we NEED TO ENJOY IT. ๐
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Nicole, how lovely is your care for Dalinda, and her for you. It reminds me that everyone we meet has challenges and problems. I'm sure Dalinda is always happy to see you. I'm not sure everyone is always happy to see me lol. Except I keep going. I'm glad you're getting out and about. And it's nice you girls have these meet-ups. Those moments are important.
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Nicole @SummerIsTooHOT ,
You are in Dalinda's life at a time when she really needs someone. You are to be commended for being there, for recognizing her needs, and allowing her to be heard! Maybe she is in your life to show you there are good, caring, appreciative people and The importance of making the best of every moment we have in life.
Marcy
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โป๏ธ (4 comments) Some of us are already VERY ACTIVE in our NEW lives, while others NEED to get back into the groove. Hmmm, which are YOU? And IF you feel up to it, tell us what has been going on in YOUR LIFE!!! Thanks, Nicole ๐ค๐ค๐ค
Me - lol, lazy and lazy!!! But finally feeling an "interest" to dig up my Old Hobbies. Now to actually do this. ๐๐๐
I do miss my walks in nature but as I AGE just cannot deal with the I OWN NATURE mentality of some youngsters. Gosh, I return MORE STRESSED than when I left. So I have to find someplace safe and not taken over by humans. Wish me luck!!! ๐
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I made it back on the site! Yeah I have made the move. Sold my house in California and have moved to my new home in Idaho. Was it hard.....you bet. Packing up a house I lived in for 46 years and moving to a new state at the age of 80 was not a simple task. It was all worth it. I feel safe, I am in a community of kind and helpful people, love my new home, am able to go any where I want and not be afraid. I did not know a place such as this existed. I am sad that my beautiful neighborhood in California became a haven for the homeless, crime and fear. It was not an easy task but I did it and I do not regret it. We each must do what is right for ourselves to live our lives as we choose. It took me a year and a half to complete this process but I DID IT!
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I am so proud of you Cadee @Cadee2719 ! I can't imagine how hard this moving process has been for you on top of your grief. You made the hard decisions, did the work, and it sounds like the benefits are now paying off for you. Enjoy your new home in a warm and safe community! You certainly deserve it my friend.
Marcy