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๐Ÿค—๐ŸคŽ WE are thinking of YOU! Please Stop By To See Us :)

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WE cry, rejoice, talk, share!

 

Whatever YOU need, WE are here for YOU.

 

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(4 comments) Dear Carol, WE are here IF you need us!

 

So sorry for your loss!!! ๐Ÿ˜ญ

Grief & Loss Team ๐ŸคŽ๐Ÿค—

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It is so hard,,,,,lost my husband of 32 years April 15th 2023....some days I seem to go forward,,,and then I fall back more days then I gained.....How long do I have to feel this,,,,no one knows,,,,but talking the others may help.../.

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Carol, I'm so sorry for your loss. It's so recent. The people in this group will help you. The group focus on loss is different and specific to need, as opposed to other self-help groups. What you're probably feeling now is a struggle to gain footing in your changing world. It's a process. A feeling of starting all over like the first day in a new class. Or going to camp for the first time as a kid. Everything, however, is temporary in life. Easy to forget when we've lived in places for long lengths of time. Please keep sharing. Expressing your feelings will help you to feel better and move forward a little at a time. Take care!

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I'm so sorry for the loss of your husband! This is a club none of us wanted to join but here we are members anyway. Unfortunately there is no time line for what you are feeling. Be gentle with yourself. This is definitely more like a marathon journey than a sprint. Praise yourself on the days you are moving forward.  On the days you feel you are falling back, allow yourself to grieve and respond as a human being who lost the love of her life .

 

We are here for you!

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@CarolD435501 I am so sorry for your loss.

I lost my husband in 2018 and you are exactly where I was in the beginning. Some days you move forward, some you move back. In the beginning itโ€™s a lot of moving back. Your loss is so current. You must not be hard on yourself. It is a process and everyone goes thru it differently. I have more good days than bad now but every now and then something will trigger an absolute meltdown. Please look on the thread about books. Thereโ€™s a post by me about a book that may help you. And remember we are here for you. We are all in this together so keep posting how youโ€™re doing ๐Ÿ’œ

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(1 comment) Sweet Dreams! ๐Ÿค—๐ŸคŽ

 

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Ahhh how sweet is that? He grabbed his blanky and settled in for the night!

May we all find a source of comfort that helps us to feel safe and cozy for a good night's sleep.

 

Marcy

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(1 comment) It's Friday and a day I "try" to stay off the road. Lol, between the folks "rushing" around on payday or heading out of town - me and my Old Lady (2006 Hyundai Elantra) best NOT be out there. Hope EVERYONE is okay, Nicole ๐ŸคŽ๐Ÿค—

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Doing well and I'm glad you weren't out on the roads on crazy day!

 

Marcy

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(1 comment) Well it is that time again - Trash and Mailbox Night! And Walh.ll TOMORROW ๐Ÿ˜ญ๐Ÿ˜ญ

 

Anyone want go instead of me?/lol ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿ˜‚

 

Nicole ๐Ÿ™ƒ

 

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THIS is funny.  YOU are funny.  ๐Ÿ˜€

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(3 comments) What an AWESOME team WE have!!! ๐Ÿฅณ๐Ÿ’ƒ

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I thought of you last night Nicole as I was picking up my curbside order from Walmart. ๐Ÿ™‚ I hope your holiday goes smoothly!

 

Marcy

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(1 comment) Lol, YES - I was NOT at Walmart!! ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿฅณ

 

Glad you mentioned "curbside pickup" Marcy @MarcyW882921 . There was this "tiny" furbaby ๐Ÿ• strutting by me at my LAST Walmart trip. She/he had on "clothes" that said "curbside service"....

 

I chuckled and had hoped I would get a "minute" to doggie chat. Lol, oh NO, kept on moving.

 

The couple said thank you to my comment about the ADORABLE outfit.

 

Hmmm, I see a Walmart MASCOT....$$$$ ๐Ÿ˜‰

 

Nicole ๐ŸคŽ๐Ÿค—

 


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I thought of you last night Nicole as I was picking up my curbside order from Walmart. ๐Ÿ™‚ I hope your holiday goes smoothly!

 

Marcyโ—€๏ธ 

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I love this!! It made me smile. ๐Ÿ™‚

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(1 comment) So GOOD hearing from you @mc6844 TODAY!!!! ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿฅณ

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@Anonymous wrote:

So GOOD hearing from you @mc6844 TODAY!!!! ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿฅณ


I hope everyone on this grief thread has an easy day. Take care!

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(3 comments) So GOOD to hear from you TODAY Marcy @MarcyW882921 ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿฅณ

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Thanks. It's good to know somebody is out there.

 

Marcy

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Have a good day Marcy!

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I agree Marcy! I hope you all are taking good care of yourselves.

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(3 comments) Just "watched" this YouTube video and it was just what I needed! Maybe it will "touch" someone's INSIDES today. Nicole ๐Ÿค—๐ŸคŽ

 

For those waiting for life to happen - YouTube

 

๐Ÿ‘‰Link to video. ๐Ÿ‘ˆ 

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I watched the UTube and it certainly gave me something to think about.  Thank You  I get up and can't wait to come to this site to hear from my friends, Nicole, Mc6844, Marcy, & BeatleloverKT and others.    Nicole, you make me laugh, cry and THINK.   It is nice to have people that you trust to talk to.  Love you all!

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Yes we are faced with all of those questions aren't we? Who am I? What am I going to do with my life? Are we going to become passive observers or will we "seize the day?"

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Thinking about new things is hopeful! Thanks for the reminder!

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3 comments (5/25/23) I am so glad OUR @Cadee2719 stopped in as I had been feeling I too was feeling sorry for myself.

 

And "mean" humans on this site didnot help this week.

 

Lol, the side of me I try NOT to show did. Grateful AARP didnot ban me. Now that I told this individual exactly what I felt, hopefully he will stay out of my space. I hate drama.

 

Anyway guys, made it back in one piece and heading to go hopefully get some zzz's to deal with Walmart tomorrow.

 

Nicole ๐ŸคŽ๐Ÿค—

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Perhaps now that you expressed your feelings, it's possible to "Let It Go" as the song says. 

 

Hoping that you got some sleep and were able to safely make your WalMart run today. Maybe your area is more calm, but Fridays are very bad days around here to go anywhere!

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Hoping for some peace for you now. We can

all use some peace in our lives! ๐Ÿ’œโ˜ฎ๏ธ

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Have a good day Beatle!

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(1 comment) ๐Ÿ˜ฑ OUR Marcy @MarcyW882921 is here!!!!

 

Party Time, WE have missed you....๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿฅณ

 

Nicole ๐ŸคŽ๐Ÿค—

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