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[Cadee2719]

  Is this site down AGAIN?  Does AARP want to eliminate this site and the people on it?  I don't understand what the problem is and why it happens over and over again.  It would be sad to eliminate a site that has HELPED a lot of people and is viewed by so many.  

[SummerIsTooHOT]

😴  Sweet Dreams Everyone  🤗🤗🤗

[Cadee2719]

  Nicole, just checking to make sure you are ok.  Be safe.  

[Cadee2719]

  I am hoping that all of my friends in Florida ARE NOT being affected by the heavy rains.  Be Safe.  I am adjusting to my new weather patterns:  Today it will be 80 and this weekend a cold front from Alaska is moving in!!!  I have learned, wait five minutes and the weather will change.  😀   I love it.

[MarcyW882921]

We got a lot of rain here last week that we desperately needed. Fortunately in my area it didn't cause any flooding. Happy Monday!

Marcy

[Cadee2719]

  Glad to hear you are ok.  Be safe    Hope Nicole is ok and others living in Florida.

[Therapist4u]

Hi Marcy! @MarcyW882921

We also got a lot of rain here last week that we desperately needed....and it didn't cause any flooding.

Also hope Nicole is OK

Happy Tuesday!

As always, ...Stay safe....&...Take care!

~Allen

[SummerIsTooHOT]

📸  Picture Attached  📸  Guys, I broke down TODAY at Walmart and bought Mr. No Name a Cat Feeder and Cat Food. I am now a Cat Mom.

Nicole  😱

[SummerIsTooHOT]

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[1] Stop by to chat when you feel up to it. WE share OUR good  💃💃💃  and/or bad news.  😭😭😭

[2] NO rules or judgement here.

[3] We support EVERYONE who stops by.

[4] Nicole stops by EVERY DAY to wish everyone Good Morning, Goodnight and to share whatever is going on in her life EACH DAY. YOU are ALWAYS welcome to do the same.  👍👍👍

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[SummerIsTooHOT]

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[SummerIsTooHOT]

👋  Good Morning Everyone!!!

How are you guys doing?  🤔

57 degrees here in Cave Spring, Virginia and my Walmart Grocery Run Day.

Everyone, FIND YOUR PEACE TODAY.

Luv you ALL,

Nicole  🤗🤗🤗

[SummerIsTooHOT]

😴  Sweet Dreams Everyone  🤗🤗🤗

[SummerIsTooHOT]

I HOPE so Marcy @MarcyW882921 as they are saying FLORIDA is in for a rough Hurricane Season this year!!!  😱😱😱

Be Safe,

Nicole  🤗🤗🤗

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[*** MARCY @MarcyW882921 wrote:

Actually @SummerIsTooHOT , my roof tiles were delivered last week. I'm told they will be put in place in the next couple of weeks. I'm hoping that timeline is correct!

Marcy ***]

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[SummerIsTooHOT]

SO GOOD to hear from you Marcy @MarcyW882921  💃💃💃

Luv you,

Nicole  🤗🤗🤗

[SummerIsTooHOT]

👋  Good Morning Everyone!!!

How are you guys doing?  🤔

Well, it is my 8am appointment today for my Oil Change.

Hate doing an EARLY appointment but with age have learn't it is best for two reasons.

[1] I get my car back TODAY/lol. Never fails, someone does NOT show up for work or they find something that needs to be FIXED.  🙄🙄🙄

So NOT leaving the other OLD LADY (2006 Hyundai Elantra) overnight when I can help it.

[2] I am back home BEFORE the "road rage" begins. Is it just me, but it seems I got the SUPER SIZE HOT RODS on my "bumper" when I am minding my own biz in the SLOW LANE. Hmmm, how about moving over into the other lane and passing me???  😤😤😤

I HOPE our MIA's are okay...

Luv you ALL,

Nicole  👵

[SummerIsTooHOT]

Angel @coolslick , I know you had mentioned having a very hard time with this site and the only way you stop by is when you receive an AARP EMAIL with a LINK.

So I am HOPING you will stop when you can to see us AGAIN.

Sometimes we get an AARP EMAIL and sometimes we don't.

Anyway, heading to PM you the LINK to this area where we chat EVERY DAY.

We would luv to have you join us. As usual NO PRESSURE to do this.

Missing you,

Nicole  🤗🤗🤗

[SummerIsTooHOT]

😴  Sweet Dreams Everyone  🤗🤗🤗

[SummerIsTooHOT]

Marcy @MarcyW882921 , how long should I wait before I send a Search Party to locate you/lol.

On the serious side, I know you stay busy.

Hope you are well  🤗🤗🤗

[MarcyW882921]

Ha Ha Nicole @SummerIsTooHOT ! I am still here. I had an incredibly busy and wonderful weekend. Tonight I have my regular chorus rehearsal and tomorrow night I have rehearsal for a community chorus that I have joined just for an event later this month. The event is Make Music Day and it happens around the world on June 21st. This is Palm Beach County's first year to participate.

Marcy

[SummerIsTooHOT]

SO GOOD to hear from you Cadee @Cadee2719  💃💃💃

Lol, I am giving my daughter another 15 minutes before I call today. She said the last time I was blessed with an answer  🙄🙄🙄  that she has gotten responses. I just wish she would move to another state. Florida is NOT the place to be.

CONGRATS on your son getting a job!!!  💃💃💃

That is AWESOME with your medical stuff!!!

Luv you,

Nicole 🤗🤗🤗

[SummerIsTooHOT]

👋  Good Morning Everyone!!!

How are you guys doing?  🤔

61 degrees here in Cave Spring, Virginia.

8am appointment TOMORROW to get my Summer Oil Change done. Yes, now do two each year since retiring = less driving. Next one will be in December with State Inspection.

Everyone, FIND YOUR PEACE TODAY.

Luv you ALL,

Nicole  🤗🤗🤗

[SummerIsTooHOT]

Allen @Therapist4u , thank you for the CUTE "furbaby" picture  🤗🤗🤗

[SummerIsTooHOT]

😴  Sweet Dreams everyone  🤗🤗🤗

[SummerIsTooHOT]

(1 comment) GROUP UPDATE TIME  👍👍👍

[1] Marcy @MarcyW882921 , anything to share with us? Maybe about your roof  🙄 and/or chorus and so on. NO pressure as usual, just me being my usual nosey self.

[2] Cadee @Cadee2719 , you are ON FIRE and SO GLAD you are now Ms. Idaho!!!  💃💃💃  Please, when you can - continue to share your adventures with us. They bring a smile to my face. Gosh, those medical folks need to get you set up like yesterday.

[3] Allen @Therapist4u , sending LOTS AND LOTS of luv your way. Being in pain is no fun especially as we age.

[4] MC @mc6844 and Jonibee @jonibee , please stop by when you can. I totally LUV hearing from you BOTH.

Nicole  🤗🤗🤗

[MarcyW882921]

Actually @SummerIsTooHOT , my roof tiles were delivered last week. I'm told they will be put in place in the next couple of weeks. I'm hoping that timeline is correct!

Marcy

[Cadee2719]

 Morning Nicole.  FINALLY got an appointment with a rheumatologist; November 6th!  Now I will attempt to get an appointment with a cardiologist and a family doctor.  How is your daughter doing?  I am getting close to completing my house.  I have about four boxes of "stuff" I should have never brought with me, so I am taking them to a boy's charity here.  My son completed clearance and got the job he wanted.  He seems to be settling in here.  My grandson promised to come and stay with me for Thanksgiving.  I have made several new friends here, but must admit there are days that I still cry and miss my son and husband.  I hope I will learn to cope better, but I wonder if I will.  One thing I love about Idaho is that it could be 10 o'clock and still daylight out!!!!  It amazes me.  I often discover that it is 8 or 9 o'clock and I have not eaten dinner yet.  My son asked me:  "Mom how do you feel being out at a store at 8 at night?" and I said I feel safe.  The only person that approaches me here is one asking "Mam, do you want this cart" or "Can I help you put those bags in your car."  As I said, I think I died and went to heaven. I wish the same for both you and Allen.

[MarcyW882921]

Well Cadee @Cadee2719 , I'm sorry your appointment with the rheumatologist is so far in the future, but it seems that is the case with specialist appointments these days. That is great that you made the decision to donate boxes of stuff you discovered that you didn't need. Someone will make use of them and you won't have to worry about unpacking them or deciding where the stuff could possibly fit! More good news about your son finding a job. It's also great that you are surrounded by new friends and polite people who are willing to help. I hope your new surroundings will bring you joy and help to reduce the number of tearful days.

Marcy

[SummerIsTooHOT]

Hi Benjamin @BenjaminM550041 , I am thinking about YOU!!!

Nicole  🤗🤗🤗

[SummerIsTooHOT]

(Saturday 6/8/24 8:36am ET)

Okay guys, I "is" back and ALL my replies are at the TOP of this forum.

Lol, makes it EASY to find them = NOT lost in the AARP "black hole" below.

Nicole  🤗🤗🤗