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[SummerIsTooHOT]

😴  1 comment (Friday 3/1/24)

Gosh, it is MARCH.

[1] Time Change! We lose OUR hour "again" Marcy @MarcyW882921 😭

[2] St. Patrick's Day 🍀

[3] and my FAVORITE!!! Spring  🦋🌻

[4] Marcy & Cadee - Name Change Alert  🙄 = when it is "officially" Spring  🙃

SWEET dreams tonight everyone!!!

Thank you SO MUCH for posting TODAY Cadee @Cadee2719  and MC @mc6844  💃💃💃

Try to get some "rest" at your bedtime  TONIGHT  💙💙💙

[MarcyW882921]

There you go with that name change again Nicole @SummerIsTooHOT ! Thanks for the alert! 😜

Marcy

[SummerIsTooHOT]

3 comments (Friday 3/1/24)

ANYONE DID "SELF CARE" THIS WEEK?  🤔

I had to "delay" my planned Foot Soak but doing it TOMORROW  💃💃💃  I treat myself to DIFFERENT scented Epsom Salt at Walmart. Yes, their brand. Lol, it is the ONLY way my Toe Nails will let me "trim" them = warm water "softens" them.

Nicole  🤗🤗🤗

[MarcyW882921]

Cute picture Nicole @SummerIsTooHOT ! I got a haircut this week and did some car maintenance because it needed some TLC too.

Marcy

[SummerIsTooHOT]

1 comment (Saturday 3/2/24)

Aha, getting all CUTE for those Florida Casanovas/lol  😂🤣

On the "serious" side Marcy @MarcyW882921 , GOOD FOR YOU!!!  💙💙💙

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[*** MARCY @MarcyW882921 wrote:

Cute picture Nicole @SummerIsTooHOT ! I got a haircut this week and did some car maintenance because it needed some TLC too.

Marcy ***]

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[MarcyW882921]

Yes Nicole that is a funny one!! 🤣 When the hair starts going out rather than down, it is time. I couldn't get an appointment when I wanted one because we are "in season", then I had to cancel one because I was sick, so I was glad to finally get there this week.

Marcy

[SummerIsTooHOT]

2 comments (Friday 3/1/24)

Oh NO Cadee @Cadee2719 !!!  😱

Hmmm, I wonder IF you are doing TOO MUCH?  💙💙💙

Gosh, please take care and lol, your daughter in law is a trip.  🤣😂 

So GOOD hearing from you.  💃💃💃

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[*** CADEE @Cadee2719 wrote:

Good morning everyone!   Nicole thank you for the pictures of Idaho in the Spring.  Yes, it is a beautiful place to enjoy nature and life.  I have been soooo busy.  Could not get the IV fusion because I woke up with a fever and sore throat.  Could not get my final eye test for the same reason.  I guess I will have to wait until I get to Idaho to do these things.    I meet with my realtor at 11:00 today to choose the buyer for my home; THEN escrow begins.  I have been packing (have about 60 boxes done).  Now that I don't have all those people walking through my home I can really take things off the walls and shelves.  I miss communicating with all my friends here but I have not forgotten you.  I hope that everyone is well.  I got GOOD NEWS yesterday; my husband's grave stone is in and they plan to install it.  That means (hopefully) that I will see it before I leave the state.  My daughter in law still is deciding what to say on my son's stone.  Her problem is that there is not enough room on the stone to talk about herself.  🤣  Be well and know that I think of all of you daily.  ❤️ ***]

[Cadee2719]

Good morning everyone!   Nicole thank you for the pictures of Idaho in the Spring.  Yes, it is a beautiful place to enjoy nature and life.  I have been soooo busy.  Could not get the IV fusion because I woke up with a fever and sore throat.  Could not get my final eye test for the same reason.  I guess I will have to wait until I get to Idaho to do these things.    I meet with my realtor at 11:00 today to choose the buyer for my home; THEN escrow begins.  I have been packing (have about 60 boxes done).  Now that I don't have all those people walking through my home I can really take things off the walls and shelves.  I miss communicating with all my friends here but I have not forgotten you.  I hope that everyone is well.  I got GOOD NEWS yesterday; my husband's grave stone is in and they plan to install it.  That means (hopefully) that I will see it before I leave the state.  My daughter in law still is deciding what to say on my son's stone.  Her problem is that there is not enough room on the stone to talk about herself.  🤣  Be well and know that I think of all of you daily.  ❤️

[MarcyW882921]

Oh no Cadee @Cadee2719! I'm sorry to hear about your fever and sore throat and their interference in trying to wrap up your medical things. I guess you will have to take a pause to rest and get yourself on the mend. Maybe you have stretched yourself thinly, compromised your immune system, and then the people coming through your house brought you some nasty bug!

I hope your buyer choosing went well and I'm wishing you a smooth escrow process!

My fingers are crossed that the grave stone gets completed so you can see it before the move. In The meantime, it is good to see you are retaining your sense of humor RE: your DIL.

Marcy

[SummerIsTooHOT]

1 comment (Thursday 2/29/24)

😴  SWEET dreams tonight everyone!!!

Thank you SO MUCH for posting TODAY Marcy @MarcyW882921  and Layla @layla52   💃💃💃

Try to get some "rest" at your bedtime TONIGHT  💙💙💙

[MarcyW882921]

Thanks! You too Nicole @SummerIsTooHOT .

Marcy

[SummerIsTooHOT]

1 comment (Thursday 2/29/24)

Lol Marcy @MarcyW882921 , the lady who "stopped" by LAST NIGHT said there is NO MAINTENANCE!!!  😂🤣

One guy "quit" and the "other" one on bed rest...  🙄

*** Still leaking ***

AFTER she left LAST NIGHT, I took "pictures" and EMAILED to Mr. Wonderful (NEW Property Manager). He is the one who had FIRED my Old Maintenance Guy!  😤

Girl,....  😎

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[*** MARCY @MarcyW882921 wrote:

So Nicole @SummerIsTooHOT ,

How did that looking work out for you? It seems since water can do so much damage, that it would be in their best interest to actually stop the leak. I hope that happens soon.

Marcy ***]

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[MarcyW882921]

That's horrible Nicole @SummerIsTooHOT ! I'm sorry you are going through this aggravation.

Marcy

[SummerIsTooHOT]

1 comment (Thursday 2/29/24)

@layla52 stop by to CHAT whenever you "feel" up to it ‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌ ‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌💙‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌💙‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌💙

[MarcyW882921]

I read an article today RE: the 8 dimensions of self-care. Some of them you would think of right away, but there are others that may not come to mind so readily. According to the article they are: Emotional, Physical, Intellectual, Environmental, Social, Spiritual, Financial, and yes Occupational. Many of us are retired but the occupational can be volunteering, decluttering, cooking for someone, or simply being of service. It gives us things to think about as we try to take care of ourselves following a loss.

Marcy

[SummerIsTooHOT]

1 comment (Thursday 2/29/24) Chat!

HOW ARE YOU?  🤔

So last night the Property Manager "finally" sends someone to "look" at [NOT FIX] the 2 leaks I have.

Lol, they NEED to "reimburse" me for my stress and purchases (water absorbing snakes, mats, rags, towels).

Nearly 1pm = NO sign of anyone...  🙄🙄🙄

Everyone, FIND YOUR PEACE TODAY  💙💙💙

[MarcyW882921]

So Nicole @SummerIsTooHOT ,

How did that looking work out for you? It seems since water can do so much damage, that it would be in their best interest to actually stop the leak. I hope that happens soon.

Marcy

[SummerIsTooHOT]

1 comment (Wednesday 2/28/24) Chat!

HOW ARE YOU?  🤔

Had to have a Cavity filled TODAY and I know my NEW Dentist HOPES there will NOT be another one again!!! Lol, I had told him I DO NOT like the drill...  🤣😂  And several hours later I was good to go. I guess with OLD AGE comes more NEED to be "drugged" up at the dentist.  🙄  Poor guy, had to do several shots and of course keep an eye on my blood pressure from my "anxiety" - glad that is over  💃💃💃

SOME CAVITY HUMOR!

The dentist told his patient to open wider. “My goodness!” he said. “You’ve got the biggest cavity I’ve seen, the biggest cavity I’ve seen.” “Ok,” said the patient, “but I’m scared enough. Do you need to repeat yourself?” “I didn’t,” said the dentist. “That was the echo.” ~anonymous

*** Now I need to climb back into my bed = was up ALL NIGHT thinking about the "drill"  😱😱😱

Everyone, FIND YOUR PEACE TODAY  💙💙💙

[MarcyW882921]

Oh my Nicole @SummerIsTooHOT.

It sounds like you had a stressful night and day. I'm glad it is over and you survived! Hopefully you will not need to do that again any time soon.

Marcy

[SummerIsTooHOT]

1 comment (Tuesday 2/27/24)

😴  I HOPE everyone gets some "rest" TONIGHT at their "bedtime"...

Thank you SO MUCH MC @mc6844 and Marcy @MarcyW882921 for posting TODAY 💙💙💙

See you guys in the morning  😎

[MarcyW882921]

Nicole @SummerIsTooHOT ,

I got to bed late last night after a rehearsal and was awakened early by a headache wannabe. Fortunately by getting upright, I held it at bay all day. Now I am tired and hope to get the bedtime rest you mentioned.🥱😴

Marcy

[SummerIsTooHOT]

2 comments (Monday 2/26/24)

Cadee @Cadee2719 , looks like Stallone is tired of California like you. But WHY move to Florida? It has the name of being just like California. And YES, he has MONEY but so do the criminals = his neighbor. Lol, he needs to move to IDAHO like you and OTHER Californians have/are doing.  Now the media needs to MOVE ON. For days now he has been hogging/monopolizing the Florida News = BORING!!!  🙄🙄🙄

Nicole  🤗🤗🤗

[Cadee2719]

  A lot of people are moving out of this state.  Yesterday I had Open House and lots of people here.  My realtor told me this morning I have four offers so far with three more to come!!  I am excited.  My son took me to the ocean where we had the best fish EVER and then to the grave sites.  He kept telling me "relax, Mom".  It was a PERFECT day.  😊  Today - blood test,  another person wants to take a second look at the house, tomorrow - eye doctor, Thursday - IV Fusion.  In between that I am packing, packing, packing.  I saw the remark about moving to Idaho and I am not afraid of the four seasons.  Actually I look forward to them. Each season brings a change, new life and something to look forward to.  Beats 115 degrees in the summer, floods, homes sliding down hillsides, homeless everywhere and so much crime that you have to be a prisoner in your home.  A little snow won't hurt me.  I will stay in if really bad and look out the window and enjoy the scenery. ( the joy of being retired)    I am excited.  Looks like I will be there for SPRING 🐞🌷  

[MarcyW882921]

This all sounds good Cadee @Cadee2719 ! I hope your appointment with your eye doctor and the IV infusion went well. You are getting closer to making that move!

Marcy

[SummerIsTooHOT]

1 comment (Monday 2/26/24)

MC @mc6844 , it is the site and AARP continues to IGNORE the complaints as usual = poor customer service  😎

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[*** MC @mc6844 wrote:

➡️*** The site seems to jump around. Could be my browser. Dunno. ***⬅️

My days are like everyone else. Some good, some not so great. That's the way it goes. Gratitude and sunshine help a lot. May you all have a good day today! ***]

[mc6844]

I try to stop by and see how everyone is. The site seems to jump around. Could be my browser. Dunno. My days are like everyone else. Some good, some not so great. That's the way it goes. Gratitude and sunshine help a lot. May you all have a good day today!

[SummerIsTooHOT]

Have a PEACEFUL day!!!

Nicole  🤗🤗🤗

[mc6844]

Thanks Nicole. You too!

[SummerIsTooHOT]

1 comment (Saturday 2/24/24)

HOW HAVE YOU BEEN HONORING YOUR LUV ONES?  🤔

It has been awhile since I have missed my grandma and TODAY, it hit me. But I am LEARNING to "honor" her in the midst of missing her = think of MY TIME with her  💃💃💃

[mc6844]

That is nice, Nicole. She meant a lot to you.