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[SummerIsTooHOT]

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[mc6844]

November has seemed like a long month. I'm sorry you had a rough day Nicole. I have some days like that too. And always grateful when those days are over. Today is a new day!

[SummerIsTooHOT]

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[mc6844]

The sunshine helps me to to sleep at night. Hope it shows up today!

[SummerIsTooHOT]

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[mc6844]

I'm not up for the holidays either but I am better off doing other things. Hope everyone is ok, after all, it's really just another day.

[SummerIsTooHOT]

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[Therapist4u]

Nicole😃

HUMOR is therapeutic... Humor helps reduce the negative effects of feeling unhealthy, out of control, afraid, or helpless....If you don’t consider yourself a funny person, then its suggested to consider being a humor curator. Collect and share things that make you laugh😊

Happy Thanksgiving!

 Thanks My 4evah friend!

Happy Thanksgiving!

Take care!  🍂🍁🍂☮️  ~Allen 🌈🍂🍁🍂

[mc6844]

What do you get when you cross a turkey with a ghost? Ans: A poultrygheist

[Therapist4u]

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[SummerIsTooHOT]

(1 comment) So did you and Denise have Turkey today Allen @Therapist4u 🙄

[Therapist4u]

Denise cooked.....and Katie was there.....

Denise cooked.....and Katie was there.....but she was not impressed.... and Katie left with her cell phone!

 but she was not impressed.... and Katie left with her cell phone! LOL!

[SummerIsTooHOT]

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[mc6844]

I wish you all a peaceful Thanksgiving. It's inspiring to see you all making your way, your efforts and progress. Two steps forward, one back, that's how it goes. Thank you for all your sharing, the ups and downs. We just keep going...

[SummerIsTooHOT]

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[mc6844]

I always hear helpful ideas on this site. I heard some time ago to look beyond the window, and not through it. Also, a dear friend always talked about and planned her future. She said we always have a future somewhere. This is good to remember because the pain of loss seems more intense at holidays. Except that the end of something is the beginning of something new. What is new brings hope!

[MarcyW882921]

These are all great MC @mc6844 ! A couple of darkness ones run through my mind. "There is always darkness before the dawn, and this is to make you stronger." and even better, "There is always darkness before dawn. The light is on its way."

I also heard an old song at a class this morning - "I Will Survive." It has energy, strength, and a strong sense of conviction (even though the circumstance in the song is a bit different ).

Marcy

[mc6844]

Thank you Marcy for your uplifting sharing. I try to keep hopeful going about my day too. There's so many people having tough times these days. And need a hand or a kind word.

[SummerIsTooHOT]

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[Therapist4u]

Me:  I am really bad about REMEMBERING to take my two meds.......well....

Id offer you my Stackable Pill Organizer......if it ever gets here HAHAAAA!

my Stackable Pill Organizer......if it ever gets here HAHAAAA!

 Thanks My 4evah friend!

Happy Thanksgiving Nicole! @SummerIsTooHOT!

Take care!  🍂🍁🍂☮️  ~Allen 🌈 🍂🍁🍂

[SummerIsTooHOT]

1 comment (Saturday 11/18/23)

Hold on, is your KITCHEN FINALLY FINISHED???? 🤔

Me too dear Marcy @MarcyW882921 💙💙💙

Luv you my friend,

Nicole 🤗

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✏@MarcyW882921 wrote:

I wish you were here Nicole @SummerIsTooHOT because I'm cooking and you could have dinner here.🦃🍴🥧

Marcy ✏

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[MarcyW882921]

Yes Nicole @SummerIsTooHOT ! My remodeling is done and my table finally came yesterday. Woo hoo!

Marcy

[jonibee]

I am decorating an outdoor xmas tree in our back yard with Red clip on Cardinals (12) and white velvet bows  in memory of my hubby ..We do have a small indoor Xmas tree with gold pointsetias and white lights ..I try to make the best of a somber situation because I know this is what he would want me to do...I am a sentimentalist and try to remember better times for all  of us. Thanksgiving will be spent with both my daughter here at home and my granddaughter and her partner will stop by if only to say hello and dishes will be set out for those who want to take part in the celebratiion of thanksgiving...I have purchased presents for all ..some funny some useful ones as I like to give gifts...Even though he is not here in body he is here with us in spirit...Wishing you all a peaceful holiday....

[mc6844]

That sounds really nice Jonibee. I'm sure you'll enjoy it and your family and friends will too. Good job!

[SummerIsTooHOT]

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[mc6844]

I hear ya, Nicole. But if people, especially older folks don't feel like eating they should check in with the doc. Might be a digestive thing. Plus not eating brings on its own problems. I've read where snacking is fine and often recommended. If it tastes good people will at least eat and get calories.

For me, all the Thanksgiving food on TV and in stores is too much to look at. It reminds me of the sick who weren't able to eat a thing. 

[SummerIsTooHOT]

1 comment (Friday 11/17/23)

Marcy @MarcyW882921   , tell me about it!!!  🙄🙄🙄

Isn't THIS month the END of Florida Hurricane Season??? 🤔

Lol, as long as NO HURRICANE or flooding arrives, I guess I can handle it! 🤣😂

Glad you got some tennis in.... 💃💃💃

Luv you my friend,

Nicole 🤗

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✏@MarcyW882921 wrote:

Nicole @SummerIsTooHOT . I was busy trying to stay dry for a couple of days. I don't know where that continuous wet weather came from, but I didn't like it. I was glad to see the sun and get out to play some tennis today.🎾

Marcy✏

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[MarcyW882921]

Yes Nicole @SummerIsTooHOT this month does mark the end of hurricane season. The crazy rains and winds this week were like a tropical storm! I looked at the weather summary for those days and there was no mention of a tropical storm just flood and gale warnings.

Marcy

[SummerIsTooHOT]

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[MarcyW882921]

Nicole @SummerIsTooHOT ,

I was reading my horoscope in the paper and the last sentence really hit me.

"Do your best to let sorrow and joy coexist."

It resonated with me and maybe it will for others in the forum. So relevant for the holiday season but also as we live from day to day.

Marcy