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๐ฏ A Place To Be With OTHERS Who Are Grieving! WE support each other.
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๐ฏ A Place To Be With OTHERS Who Are Grieving! WE support each other.
THIS GROUP IS OPEN TO ALL GRIEVERS NO MATTER HOW LONG IT HAS BEEN [years,days].
To participate, click on reply button at bottom of this post. Enter your comment. Click on reply again.
Luv,
Nicole ๐ค๐ค๐ค (Grief Forum)
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๐ฆ Any plans for Thanksgiving THIS YEAR 2024?
[1] Julie @JulieT507376 , I hope you ENJOY yours with your family. I am SO GLAD you and Sadie ๐ will NOT be alone. ๐๐๐
[2] And Ms. Idaho aka Ms. Gourmet Cook aka Cadee @Cadee2719 , I bet you will be cooking up a storm. Lol, you need to send me a Care Package!!! ๐๐คฃ
[3] Me, nope!!! With my only child in Florida and me in Virginia, I am choosing to hopefully enjoy a PEACEFUL day at home. ๐๐๐
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Hi Cadee @Cadee2719 , if you no longer have the email address I had sent the group during my last "had enough" of the bullies - I "is" leaving this site episode/lol ๐๐คฃ I can send it through the AARP PM (private messaging system).
Let me know IF you want me to.
I never got your email address.
Thanks,
Nicole ๐ค๐ค๐ค (Grief Forum)
[*** CADEE wrote: I wish there was a way for you to send me your address. ***]
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NOSEY NICOLE ๐๐๐ wants to know how this appointment went. I HOPE it went well!!!
Cadee @Cadee2719 .
[1] You will be seeing the rheumatologist November 6. Please let me know what happens.
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Went smoothly. He has ordered additional tests. I am now convinced that the pain in my legs is from the sciatic nerve in my lower back. Not sure I want to have surgery to repair a disc at this time. I really need to stop thinking I am the "man of the house" and continue to lift heavy items and do more than an old lady should do! ๐ Thank You for checking on me. What happened with your car? Is your daughter back from Chicago? Today I am making pizzelles an Italian cookie that you make on a griddle, two at a time. My grandson loves them so I plan to ship him a box full. Thank You for all the "winter preparations". I will do as you say. I am excited to see snow, yet fearful. It will be another "lesson" for me to learn and accomplish. I have just put protective covers on my outdoor faucets to prevent them from freezing and had my irrigation system flushed out. (See I am learning ๐) I will begin the baking for Christmas and I am hoping that my brother will come and spend Christmas with me this year. He is slowly recovering and has many doctor visits to attend. If he plans to get the final repairs on his damaged eye, it will require him to come here to do it. My neighbors appreciate all the bake goods I am giving them. I think the husband loves it more than even the kids!! Wishing all my friends on this site Peace & Love and thank them for always being there for me. โค๏ธ
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I attended the event today
finding meaning in loss. I found out some information about grief I wasn't aware. One was looking for the familiar no longer there. Acceptance is what we get from that. I think acceptance is a back and forth type of thing, not easy to attain.
Also, It becomes necessary to recognize how grief impacts our lives. That out own journeys are important too. And not to worry how others perceive us, if something doesn't have to be done today or tomorrow, that's fine.
I think people will definitely hear something that will help in an area they feel stuck. For instance, the moderator said he was certain he saw his deceased wife in the grocery store. He kept looking for her there. I kept buying groceries and cooking for two or more people for a year and a half. Wasn't good for my widow's budget either lol. Doing better with that now thank goodness.
Attending these events is a way to move forward. No worries about transportation and no cost. Most grief events are not.
@Winter2024 wrote:Any UPDATES? ๐ค๐ค๐ค
@MarcyW882921 @mc6844 @Cadee2719 @jonibee @JulieT507376
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NOVEMBER 6, 2024.
Dear Susan @SusanR479241 , TODAY is another November 6th for you. You are in my thoughts TODAY!!! ๐ค๐ค๐ค
[*** SUSAN wrote: Hi all. I just found this group today. My husband of 60 years passed away Nov.6 2022. I can't seem to integrate my new life with the old one. When he died it was an earthquake, the earth split into two halves and I am unable to seam them together. I have a foot on one side of the split and the other foot on the opposite split. It is splitting me apart. A volcano exploded and caused the earthquake and the volcano is still erupting inside of me. I have aftershocks frequently; they are very painful, and I become depressed for days or weeks.I have no one else to tell this to so I appreciate being able to put it out there in print. ***]
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I'm so sorry for your loss Susan. Certainly difficult after such a long time with your loved one. The people on this forum are kind and supportive. It's a place where you can express your grief a little bit at a time, and leave it here. A day at a time, a moment at a time.Take care!
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MC @mc6844 , you are ALWAYS kind & supportive to EVERYONE here!!! ๐ค๐ค๐ค
[*** MC wrote: I'm so sorry for your loss Susan. Certainly difficult after such a long time with your loved one. The people on this forum are kind and supportive. It's a place where you can express your grief a little bit at a time, and leave it here. A day at a time, a moment at a time.Take care! ***]
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๐ Please keep our Lisa @LisaJP6763 in your thoughts for a "speedy" recovery from her Back Surgery!!!
Thanks,
Nicole ๐ค๐ค๐ค (Grief Forum)
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Hello and good wishes to all. I'm so sorry for your losses, new people and ones who have been here. Grief doesn't have a timetable. And bรญrthdays, events etc bring it back full force. At times more intense than when it happened. People tell you to do social things, do something new etc. All good things but doesn't eliminate grief. Ive found caring souls on this forum who understands grievers are where they are. And so it goes. We keep plugging along. I hope you are all well as possible. Take care and so nice to see you! Hi Nicole and Marcy, Cadee, Jonibee, Therapy, Suzanne and all!
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๐ OUR BIRTHDAY CLUB!!!
Anyone else want to be ADDED to the list?
[1] Cadee @Cadee2719 - November 11.
[2] MC @mc6844 - November 24.
[3] Lisa @LisaJP6763 and [4] Jonibee @jonibee - June 7.
[5] Nicole (me ๐) - September 26. And I am still feeling VERY SPECIAL from all the Birthday Posts you guys did for me THIS YEAR 2024. ๐ค๐ค๐ค
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๐ฐ๐ Anyone have any NEWS to share with the group?
ME. Yesterday was a MIXTURE of so many emotions and I am SO GLAD to have my car fixed!!! ๐๐๐
I have to wait for my daughter in Florida to get off from her Temporary Seasonal Job at 12pm today so she can Uber me to mechanic.
So YESTERDAY, nice AAA guy got me started after I had called mechanic to okay bringing car in - driven or towed.
Had to leave car with a NOT what I wanted to hear of MAYBE it would be ready same day or next.
So I had my CRY, wiped my tears and decided to get on the City Bus that runs in front of mechanic. Have NOT riden one since 2018!!! ๐ฑ๐ฑ๐ฑ And WAS NOT HAPPY to do so again. But I had to wait for my daughter's temp job shift to end so she could Uber me back to my Studio Apartment.
Rode bus down to terminal where I bought my 1st OLD PERSON DISCOUNT BUS ID/lol ๐๐คฃ and rode another bus to Kroger.
Bought some groceries, NOT alot as Ubering with groceries is STRESSFUL.
Then my daughter ubered me home about 12pm.
Gosh, SO GLAD everyone was NICE (bus driver,bus station lady in office).
Luv,
Nicole ๐ค๐ค๐ค (Grief Forum)
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๐ Julie @JulieT507376 , I hope you were/are SAFE on the road today/tonight. Yikes, no snow or ice yet for me in Virginia. I ADMIRE you driving on a day/night like this. Please be SAFE my friend.
*** Mark is WITH YOU TODAY and family. I hope you are/were able to find some PEACE today/tonight. ***
Happy Birthday Mark!!!
Luv,
Nicole ๐ค๐ค๐ค (Grief Forum)
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A touching piece I came across..." We little knew that morning that God was going to call your name. In life we loved you dearly., In death we do the same, It broke our hearts to lose you, you did not go alone, for part of us went with you, the day God called you home. You left us peaceful memories, your love is still our guide, and though we cannot see you, you are always at our side. Our family chain is broken and nothing seems the same, but as God calls us one by one, the chain will link again..Author Unknown May you all find peace in reading this piece...
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โโโโโโโ๐ดโโโโโโโ Sweet dreams TONIGHT everyone!!!
I hope WE ALL get some "rest" and waking up to a NEW DAY full of "possibilities" and GOOD THINGS. โโ๐โโโโ๐โโโโ๐โโ
As usual, I am here IF anyone needs me. I am a very good listener and I do care and understand.
See you TOMORROW dear friends.
Luv,
Nicole โโโโโโโ๐คโโโโโโโโโโโโโโ๐คโโโโโโโโโโโโโโ๐คโโโโโโโ (Grief Forum)
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In answer to your question "Do I have any plans on the second anniversary of hubbys passing..I don't as of yet and November is always a tight month as RE taxes and water/sewer bill is due plus annual yard clean up by landscape man so that's where the $$ goes then there's planning for the holidays ..I prefer to remember the days that we had made wonderful memories and yes I will think of how I miss him not only on Nov. 7th but everyday of the year..His picture has a place of honor in the living room and is always by the small Xmas tree to be with us on that Holy Day....I have a miniature little red rocking chair that has a tag attached to it that says "Christmas in Heaven" what do they do ? They come down to earth to spend it with you. So save them a seat, just one empty chair. You may not see thembut they still will be there....It's also an ornament to hang but I choose to place it by his picture...To all of you I wish you Peace...
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Cadee @Cadee2719 .
[1] You will be seeing the rheumatologist November 6. Please let me know what happens.
[2] You will be 81 in a few weeks. When is your birthday? Any plans?
[3] Medical alert system. Did you see Marcy's @MarcyW882921 suggestion?
[4] You are lining up projects to work on while being snowed in (if that even happens). When you can, I would luv UPDATES!!!
Luv,
Nicole ๐ค๐ค๐ค (Grief Forum)
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