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I joined a widow/widowers group but most of them are 20 years older than I am. They have dances, but do they play 80s music? I was told probably not. I just don't fit in anywhere. I do have friends who are in their 70s and 80s, but for dating, I'd like them to be in their 50s or 60s. I do NOT want to meet anyone online here or anything, just looking for suggestions.
My sister warned me against online dating. She said just meet people naturally. I go to church, but the men are married or too old. Church is where I met my late husband 32 years ago. But he was truly special. Where do you go to meet people who are in their 50s?
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I understand my lady. I had to find myself and what I really enjoy and love besides my family. And started looking for the things I wanted to do and places I wanted to see. And one thing I really like is comedy shows and I love places were they play jazz music. And there be folks of all different ages and backgrounds that is how I started meeting people. Not trying to bore you just saying stay encouraged.
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Gotta say @CarolynS674392 ...Sounds like you just need to get out of your own head.
What was your best subject in elementary school...maybe a local school is looking for volunteers to help kids having a hard time.
Is there an animal shelter where you can volunteer? Sometimes it's as simple as just talking to and petting an animal that appreciates a little company.
Try some local churches...I've volunteered at churches I do and don't attend...sometimes it helps to just be part of Something.
...of course, none of these is a substitute for seeking professional help if you decide that would be best.
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You're right, of course. I take care of my elderly dog - I take very good care of him - lots of people tell me so. I was in the local senior spelling bee because I like words. I met a few people there. I've done volunteer work in the past at different times. But I guess there's something in me that just wants to have fun, be a little wild. It's a new thing for me. And going to the fish fry with my parents was a little depressing. But I'm glad we did because it really cheered up my mom and that's very important right now. Thank you, Eric.
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