🥳💃 Tell Us About YOUR GOOD days! And YES, we will have a FEW SOME weeks.

[Anonymous]

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(1) Read OTHER members' GOOD days, celebrate with them (leave a comment). 🥳💃

(2) WE need to CELEBRATE our GOOD days so WE get more! 💃🥳

(3) WE want to hear from U! 🙃

Grief & Loss Team 🤗🤎

[MarcyW882921]

I'm so glad! 🙂

Marcy

[Anonymous]

1 comment (WEDNESDAY 3/1/23)

When I first moved into my cute Studio Apartment in 2018, I use to DREAD the arrival of ALL 4 school busses at the entrance of the complex where I am. 🙄 Between the "beep, beep and beep" as they backed up, loud kids and me not being able to sleep at nights - I was one CRANKY old lady. 😱 TODAY as I had my one window open on this "early" Spring day (63° and sunny), the "beep, beep and kids chattering" was a REMINDER that life is so good. Yes folks, I "think" the SHOCK of losing my neighbor and friend in his 70's to cancer "suddenly" is beginning to thaw. I still miss my dear sweet John, a veteran and an awesome person. Lol, I now "smile" when the 1st Bus arrives in the morning = time to get up and "wave" at the little darlings as they head to school. 😉 How are you TODAY?

Luv you ALL, Nicole 🤎🤗

[MarcyW882921]

Yes it's true kids chattering is a reminder of life that is going on with or without us. It is also a positive thing that the kids are going to school, talking to one another, and may even be enthusiastic. I love that you are giving the kids a smile and a wave as they head off to school. You may be the only person who is starting their day off in a positive way...we just don't know.

I'm sorry about the loss of your neighbor and missing him is what a friend who loved him does. 

All in your own time Nicole. Thanks for sharing with us today!

[MarcyW882921]

Yesterday I had an appointment to deal with financial issues associated with my loss. These kinds of appointments have always been stressful for me, so I put time in my schedule to go to a local garden/museum when I finished. It worked out perfectly. I was recognized by an employee, a volunteer stopped to talk with me, strangers said hello, and I was in a beautiful, peaceful environment. The awareness of things I know cause stress gives me an opportunity to try an find a counter balance or to attempt to alter my response.

[MarcyW882921]

When you are trying to deal with your grief, things that seem small to other people are huge to us! I'm so happy that you had a smooth trip on the way to Walmart and while you shopped! It's terrific to have something to put in the "grateful for" column. 🙂