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[mc6844]

Awww....sorry you're going through this Nicole. You deserve a nice quiet place to live and rest. 🙏 

[jonibee]

Well the C-Scan results are in Venous Reflux in both legs ..when valves stop working properly and  allows blood to flow backwards(reflux) and pools in the lower part of legs..solution to have radio frequency energy or heat to close the diseased veins and open up  or redirects blood to healthy veins.., minimally  invasive..improvement in about 2 days up to two weeks for normal restoration and normal activity use..Each leg is separated by about a month for this type of OP surgery..The other option is wearing compression stockings every day..I choose the OP surgery...Hopefully it will all go smoothly..

[iLuvAutumn]

[1 comment] Don't forget, an Event TODAY!!!  💃💃💃

As soon as my boy heads out my door, I am going to TRY to get some sleep.

Been up all night  🙄🙄🙄  and Indian's car is still here = means NO WORK today  😭😭😭.

Hopefully they go somewhere while I catch a nap. Exhausted.

See you later.  🤗🤗🤗

[Cadee2719]

  Nicole have you knocked on their door and explained to them the fact that you an HEAR them when they are on the phone and that it is disturbing your sleep?  Do other neighbors complain about them.  If you have a tape recorder, record them and take it to them to let them hear how loud and disruptive they are.  Perhaps check with your local authorities to see what they suggest that you can do to resolve this.  YOU have equal rights as a tenant to be able to sleep at night in the apartment that you rent.  Ask your landlord what he can do to help resolve this.  I hope that you can peacefully resolve this issue.  ❤️

[iLuvAutumn]

[1 comment] Cadee @Cadee2719 , you doing anything with your neighborhood for July 4th?

I seem to remember you posted that they had invited you to join in.

Lol, now with my Senior Moments I could have imagined this.

Not sure IF my daughter will do her SOCIAL STUFF this time with being laid off. She is like Marcy @MarcyW882921 , very social.

Luv you VERY MUCH,

Nicole  🤗🤗🤗

[Cadee2719]

  I was invited to a Block Party.  Got my blood test back and it shows high levels of inflammation in my body.  I guess that is why I have been unable to walk lately and in a lot of pain.  I am not sure about going to the block party unless maybe I just put a chair out to sit in.  I have games for the kids to play and I do plan on baking and cooking for the party.  Now I wonder what my doctor in California will do about extending the medication for me.  My son has been very busy with his new job so I have not seen him lately.  I understand, working for the Air Force is a different process and quite intensive.  I got a new flag to hang outside my home to join in with all the others on the street.  I am wishing all of my friends on this site a HAPPY 4th of July🎆🇺🇲🎇  Be safe.  ❤️

[iLuvAutumn]

[2 comments]  I guess he is spending the day with me TODAY.  🤔  Followed me INSIDE when I returned from Kroger. Now keep in mind, I have to keep my door OPEN or he is rushing out the door as I head to CLOSE IT.  🙄🙄🙄

[MarcyW882921]

I hope no critters come in!

Marcy

[iLuvAutumn]

(4 comments)  👥  OUR Grief & Loss Team!!!

[1]MC @mc6844 

[2]Allen @Therapist4u 

[3]Jonibee @jonibee 

[4]Marcy @MarcyW882921

[5]Cadee @Cadee2719 

[6]Nicole - me.

[Therapist4u]

Hi Nicole @iLuvAutumn

You rang??????????????

You rang?????????????? LOL!!

 LOL!!

Take care!

☮️  🌩🌦~Allen 🌈  ⛵  🌞

[iLuvAutumn]

[2 comments] Allen @Therapist4u , is he from the Addams Family or another show???

Lol   🤣😂

[Therapist4u]

Lurch TRUTHS

LOL!!

[Therapist4u]

He was the butler Lurch, from the Addams Family TV Series 1964–1966

[iLuvAutumn]

CHECK UP TIME!!!  🙃

[she replied]

Any updates on your ROOF Bionic Marcy @MarcyW882921 ? Any Chorus News?  🤗🤗🤗

[MarcyW882921]

Yes Nicole @iLuvAutumn I do have updates. First of all Happy Monday! I hope you are well and off to a good start for the week.

My roof is on and looks great, but of course that is never the end. I have segments of gutter that were cut off to repair fascia damage and they now need to be replaced. I found a reputable company, have gotten a reasonable quote, and have committed to having the job done. I'm just waiting for a date from the company for installation.

My chorus news fits in with 4th of July plans. Tonight I have rehearsal and I will be singing at the Flagler Museum on the 4th for their annual event. It is a beautiful venue, the ceremony is always meaningful and moving, and I am looking forward to it. I don't stay there for fireworks because of traffic, but I can see all of the various community's fireworks on my travels home on I-95. It is a great view!

Marcy

[iLuvAutumn]

[1 comment] NOW I understand the saying that the CAT OWNS THE HUMAN/lol  🤣😂

He certainly OWNED me tonight!!!

Here I was THINKING I finally had him figured out and WE had an understanding about his visits.

Morning went well, he stopped by at his usual 6am ET. Alrightie!!!  👍👍👍

Then the little s.it decides to stop by NEAR to 10pm instead of 8pm. Now keep in mind he had been lounging across the parking on the sidewalk IGNORING my a.s.

Okay, luv you to death but this OLD lady [me] needs to call it a night = his food had been packed up until tomorrow morning.

Anyway, got it back out.

Lol, he is a hot mess.

Wish me luck with passing his TRAINING OF ME. My boy 🐱🤗🐈🤗

[Therapist4u]

[iLuvAutumn]

[1 comment]  Allen @Therapist4u and Jonibee @jonibee , you are BOTH dealing with WAY TOO MANY medical issues my friends.  😭😭😭  WE appreciate updates when you feel up to stopping by to see us.  🤗🤗🤗

[jonibee]

Once I know of what is the matter with the legs (Tuesday is the results of C-Scan) and what I can do and expect relief from the on going pain some sort of relief should be on the way.hopefully. It's hard living day to day as it gets in the way of doing things or if I push myself the next day I pay for it..I try to remain positive and not think of it as it gets in the way...Thank You for your thoughtfulness ...

[iLuvAutumn]

CHECK UP TIME!!!  🙃

[she replied]

Ms. Idaho aka Cadee @Cadee2719 , any updates on your MEDICAL STUFF?  🤗🤗🤗

[Cadee2719]

  Good morning!  Called my rheumatologist's office Friday.  They are STILL waiting on the results of the blood tests taken on 6/21.  They said once they get the results they will schedule a tele-health appointment sometime in August.  I AGAIN explained that the medication I am on runs out July 8th.  This is six pills that I take to help eliminate the pain in my legs making it impossible for me to walk!!  So she moved the tele-health appointment up to July 11.  I will call on Monday to see if the cardiologist here received all the necessary paperwork to set up an appointment for me.  I have always dealt with HIGH blood pressure but now all of a sudden I am dealing with low (very low) systolic pressure.  Now that I am in a place that I love I am falling apart.  😂   I will continue trying to get in to see the doctors.  The diabetes doctor is next on my list.  I am hoping that once I see my new doctors, tests will be taken to help determine all that is happening.  It is always something, isn't it?  Thank You for checking on me.  

[iLuvAutumn]

[2 comments] Aha, glad AARP decided to deliver my emails so I KNOW you are giving me LOTS AND LOTS of kudos NOW. Thanks Allen @Therapist4u .

And how are you doing?  🤗🤗🤗

[Therapist4u]

Hi Nicole @iLuvAutumn

I was about to comment on another email I got from AARP that says: @iLuvAutumn mentioned you in a post! but since this is the most recent one I'll reply here.....

as you know, I’ve been saying that I’m not getting most of my messages in my email, even when someone ‘tags’ me....so...NOW...I’m getting bunches at once...however the image I’m posting here shows that on:

today, Jun 28....I was notified of your tag to me from 06-23-2024...that’s 5 days late...

 what’s up with that 🤔 ...LOL!!🙂

Anyway..I figured I should kudo you & Marcy @MarcyW882921 & MC @mc6844 & Cadee @Cadee2719 as I was reading posts.... a lot of heartfelt stories, info, reflections, viewpoints, etc. that are well written & interesting....

AMIRIGHT? lol!

 I’LL ADD MORE LATER , OK?

FOR NOW...

Stay safe....&...Take care!

☮️  🌩🌦~Allen 🌈  ⛵  🌞

[mc6844]

Take Care!

[iLuvAutumn]

[1 comment] ANY WEEKEND PLANS?  🤔

Me, nope - just try to survive it until Indians ABOVE me return to work on MONDAY!!!  👍👍👍

GRATEFUL my boy now stops by at 6am ET = got him trained = NO more me having to figure out HIS SCHEDULE. Then he stops by at about 8pm ET.  💃💃💃

[jonibee]

A quiet Fourth for me also have a consultation regarding recent C-Scan of legs..I came across a meaningful piece author unknown but worth reading..."When God pushes you to the edge, trust him fully because only two things can happen...Either he will catch you when you fall or he will teach you to fly"..Have a nice Fourth of July ..I probably will watch the celebration of the Fourth on tv at the Esplanade in Boston with the Boston Pops..

[iLuvAutumn]

[she replied] MC @mc6844 ???

Hope you are okay  🤗🤗🤗

[mc6844]

Thank you Nicole. I am ok. I hope you and the others on the forum are ok too. 

[iLuvAutumn]

[1 comment]  Lol, I am TRYING to work on his MEGAMANSION while he keeps TRYING to get Belly Rubs.  🤣😂

MORE storms heading here in Cave Spring, Virginia. Had one LAST NIGHT and need to fix his mansion better....

[mc6844]

Oh that is nice of you Nicole! And very creative.