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🕯 A Place To Be With OTHERS Who Are Grieving! WE support each other.

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(1 comment) Hey my friend Allen @Therapist4u , I went ahead and removed my comments and kudos from another member's discussion here in the Grief & Loss Forum. You have done nothing wrong at all and your very kind comments touched my insides. You are ALWAYS WELCOME to join any of my discussions. I am heading offline for a bit and see you are online. Didnot want you to think I am ignoring you.

 

Nicole  🤗🤗🤗

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OK THANKS NICOLE....

TTYL

YOUR 4EVAH FRIEND

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(4 comments) Today is another  🥀  Mother's Day and YOU ARE IN MY THOUGHTS Cadee @Cadee2719 .

 

Enjoy your Special Day with your Son here on earth and you already know your other Son is with you ALWAYS.

 

Luv you,

Nicole  🤗🤗🤗

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Happy Mother's Day to all! 💐 I hope you are having a beautiful day celebrating the difficult job you have done so well.

 

Marcy

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(1 comment) Marcy @MarcyW882921 , I have learn't to be careful with wishing folks Happy Mother's Day when I am NOT sure IF they are one. Now IF my VERY OLD BRAIN "remembers"  🙄🙄🙄  I seem to remember you mentioning Stepkids. So HATS OFF TO YOU MOM and hope you were able to spend some time with them.

 

Luv you Ms. Zumba, Ms. Chorus & Ms. Tennis.

 

Nicole  🤗🤗🤗

 


[*** MARCY @MarcyW882921 wrote:

Happy Mother's Day to all! 💐 I hope you are having a beautiful day celebrating the difficult job you have done so well.

 

Marcy ***]


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You did great remembering Nicole @SpringIsSoHappy ! I did not get to spend time with either of them, but I did my housecleaning, went to a park to enjoy walking and nature, and ordered takeout to enjoy a quiet dinner at home.😊

 

Marcy

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  Thank You.  ♥️  Wishing you a Happy Mothers Day.  Luv you.

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(1 comment) How are you guys doing?  🤔

 

So Our Ms. Idaho @Cadee2719 is all settled in and stopped by TODAY!!!  💃💃💃

 

And my Property Manager called me TODAY and I can move whenever I want to = NO 60-day notice!!!  💃💃💃

 

My daughter as far as I know is still Job Hunting since her 4/11/24 Surprise Same Day Mass Layoff at Harris L3 in Florida. I TRY  🙄🙄🙄  not to ASK if she has found anything = wait on her to tell me IF she has.  👍👍👍

 

Everyone, FIND YOUR PEACE TODAY.

 

Nicole  🤗🤗🤗

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  Good morning, Nicole.  Sorry to hear about the problems with your place.  Funny, my son has applied for a new job here and tells me very little.  What is it with these guys?  I, too, try not to ask too many questions, yet he wants to know everything about what I am doing??????  Crazy  I am focusing on unpacking and accomplishing all that needs to be done.  Got my drivers license here, now I have to go and get a new license plate for my car.  Met the previous owner of my home this morning, very sweet.  She brought by some things she took by mistake.  Once I  unpack the other half of my garage, I should be settled.  😂  It keeps me busy.  I have been working so hard and so long that I decided I AM DOING NOTHING TODAY!!!!!!  It is just one of those days.  I keep your daughter in my nightly prayers and KNOW she will get a job that she will love soon.  I also hope that you find a place to live that you will fee "at home" in.  Hang in there.  ❤️  It seems as if we are always dealing with something doesn't it?

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😴  (1 comment) The future belongs to those who believe in the beauty of their dreams.

 

Nicole  🤗🤗🤗

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Hi Nicole!

It has been said that this quote by Eleanor Roosevelt... suggests that those who "have a clear idea of what they want to achieve and a strong belief in their ability to make it happen are the ones who will be most successful in creating the future they desire....& it encapsulates the essence of hope, determination, and the transformative power of dreams.”

Anyway...as always... Take care

☮️  🌄  ~Allen 🌈  🎨

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(1 comment) Thank you SO MUCH Marcy @MarcyW882921 for stopping by.

 

Luv that you are staying busy and well!!!  👍👍👍

 

Lol, I am having one of my feel sorry for myself and worry about my laid off daughter in Florida DAYS.

 

But it has been a PEACEFUL DAY here in Cave Spring-Virginia, about to change as folks head back from work.

 

👣👣👣  As we say all the time - 1 Step At A Time, I "is" Stepping to get out of bed for that Morning Coffee I didnot have. It is about 3pm ET.  🙄🙄🙄

 

ENJOY the rest of your VERY BUSY DAY my dear, you are ALWAYS stopping by when you can.

 

Thanks,

Nicole  🤗🤗🤗

 


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Monday Monday. I played tennis a half hour earlier today because of scheduling and initially I wasn't quite awake. I also made it to water aerobics so I could catch up with a friend I hadn't seen for awhile. The outside temperature was great, but the pool was cool! 🥶 Tonight is my chorus' Friends & Family night so I have to get myself together for that performance. I'm grateful for a beautiful day of life and activity.

 

Wishing you a peaceful and satisfying day!

 

Marcy ***]


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Nicole @SummerIsTooHOT ,

 

I think you had better grab that cup of coffee before people start returning home from work. You might need that little jolt of preparation!

 

Here's something to think about in response to your worry...

 

“If the problem can be solved why worry? If the problem cannot be solved worrying will do you no good.”
Shantideva

 

Think of ways to use your energy to benefit yourself and others. You've got this!

 

Marcy

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(2 comments) How are you guys doing?  🤔

 

Well, an up-all-night - lol, so grateful I get to stay home = no need to be driving with no sleep.

 

Won $1 on one of my $1 Scratch Off Tickets and $3 on the other one. Yes, my $2 splurge every Tuesday when I head to Walmart for groceries.

 

I had NOT seen my friend (Walmart employee) for the LAST two visits. But learning to APPRECIATE the "random" things in my life. Well TODAY she was behind me and we hugged. A dear lady who is a Cancer Survivor. IF I had not decided to CHANGE to the OTHER Self-Checkout, I probably would NOT have ran into her.

 

Lol, was in one of my moods YESTERDAY [TUESDAY] MORNING and didnot want to deal with the staff at my usual Self-Checkout location.

 

My daughter in Florida finally finished working on her resume. Yes, after 5 years, her resume needed updating. Now to hope she finds something soon before her 5 weeks Layoff Severance runs out.

 

Everyone, FIND YOUR PEACE TODAY...

 

Nicole  🤗🤗🤗

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Monday Monday. I played tennis a half hour earlier today because of scheduling and initially I wasn't quite awake. I also made it to water aerobics so I could catch up with a friend I hadn't seen for awhile. The outside temperature was great, but the pool was cool! 🥶 Tonight is my chorus' Friends & Family night so I have to get myself together for that performance. I'm grateful for a beautiful day of life and activity.

 

Wishing you a peaceful and satisfying day!

 

Marcy

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Nicole @SummerIsTooHOT , It sounds like you had a pretty good day. A little profit on the lottery tickets, a chance meeting with your friendly Walmart employee, and a hug! 

 

I did a Zumba class online and took a very good line dancing class through AARP. It's hard not to be happy when you are dancing!

 

A cancelled class for this evening allows me to have dinner with a friend so all is well.

 

Marcy

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(3 comments) SO GOOD to hear from you TODAY MC @mc6844 .

 

Nicole  🤗🤗🤗

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Thank you Nicole. Good to hear from you too, and also to read everyone's shares. I was trying to start a new topic. What Not To Do When Grieving. I found a good article but can't find it again. I've done a lot of what Not to do when grieving. Lol Does everyone have suggestions of what not to do?  Thank you.

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Don't be silent. Express your feelings and needs to people who are in your safe circle.

 

Marcy

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I have one suggestion. Don't ignore that you're in grief. 

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(3 comments) How are you guys doing?  🤔

 

Slept well and still worrying about my daughter being laid off. Fingers crossed she finds something soon.

 

Everyone, FIND YOUR PEACE TODAY.

 

Nicole  🤗🤗🤗

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I'm glad you slept well. It's definitely a challenge not to worry. I don't have any suggestions. Lol. 

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(1 comment) MC @mc6844 , NO matter how OLD they are [my daughter is 37] - we moms do worry. I am sure as an Engineer she will find something soon!  Nicole  🤗🤗🤗

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Of course she will, a smart girl like her Mom! 

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(5 comments) Oh NO MC @mc6844 !!!  😱😱😱

 

I hope you feel better soon!!!

 

Nicole  🤗🤗🤗

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Thank you Nicole. Ok now. So many harsh chemicals in everyday products. Gotta give it more thought I guess.

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(1 comment) MC @mc6844 , did you change detergents?  🤔

 

Nicole  🤗🤗🤗

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Yes. Lol that's one change I can make. Doc says buy only for sensitive skin. Soap and detergents etc.

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Hi Nicole! And all on the site. You've been in my thoughts and good wishes.

I've been recovering from a reaction to laundry detergent. Ugh! I think we get tired when we're already going through things. And need to take better care of ourselves. I hope you are all well and doing what you can each day. Have a blessed day!

 

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So sorry mc @mc6844 that you are dealing with this reaction. I hope you find some products that your body doesn't reject. At least you have found the culprit and we are fortunate that they make so many kinds of products these days to choose from.

 

Marcy

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