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Not sure what to expect: 94 yr old mom living alone needing care for first time ever

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It looks and sounds like you have your work cut out for you regarding your Mom...i would make a list of her needs and sit down with her and tell her that unless she agrees to some live in help your hands will be tied as far as helping her ..Tell her about what Kaiser is saying and let her know that you are letting her make the choice as to whether or not she is to remain in the home situation. Point out the things that are important to her and state that you can't take the time off from your  business so the next best thing is to have outside help with personal needs, cooking, house cleaning as she can't do these thngs safely with out the risk of falling, cooking hazards..She will be able to be independent with those extra hands helping her. Otherwise she may end up in rehab due to injuries and you will not be able to have control over it..She seems competent enough if she handles her affairs..But she does need to be told of the pros and cons so she can make the choice  as it is her welfare that is at stake..She needs to undrstand that because of her age she is at risk and you want her around for as long as possible..There is no simple remedy here..Good Luck with trying to make her see what's best...There must be a compromise and a workable plan as to what is the right decison ..Perhaps one of those emergency necklace where if you fall you press the button might be helpful..Make sure all scatter rugs and things are in order so she doesn't hurt herself..She must need help in bathing and general care of things like clothes washing ..Make a list of what is needed to make her comfortable with living at home safely..There are agencies that can assess her needs and probably point you in the right direction ..Change is hard at any age...

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