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Re: My elderly mother's neighbor and finances--is this ok?

Thanks. I just needed help with this specific question regarding a neighbor and boundaries.  I read A Bittersweet Season after my stepdad died and have taken care of everything you've mentioned, and then some, but thank you.  
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Re: My elderly mother's neighbor and finances--is this ok?

Thank you, I am so glad I asked. This made me realize something when you said "deed"--as part of estate planning last year, my mom's lawyer encouraged us to set up an irrevocable trust for the house, with my sister and I as trustees. My mom deeded th...
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My elderly mother's neighbor and finances--is this ok?

Hi there, My mom is recently widowed and lives alone. She's 75 and has Parkinson's and mild cognitive impairment. She lives next door to a former co-worker, Pam, who has become a friend. Pam is 15 years younger. Mom is fairly independent (drives, sho...
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Re: My elderly mother's neighbor and finances--is this ok?

Thanks. I just needed help with this specific question regarding a neighbor and boundaries.  I read A Bittersweet Season after my stepdad died and have taken care of everything you've mentioned, and then some, but thank you.  
JamieE244040 01-13-2020 05:16 PM
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Re: My elderly mother's neighbor and finances--is this ok?

Thank you, I am so glad I asked. This made me realize something when you said "deed"--as part of estate planning last year, my mom's lawyer encouraged us to set up an irrevocable trust for the house, with my sister and I as trustees. My mom deeded th...
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My elderly mother's neighbor and finances--is this ok?

Hi there, My mom is recently widowed and lives alone. She's 75 and has Parkinson's and mild cognitive impairment. She lives next door to a former co-worker, Pam, who has become a friend. Pam is 15 years younger. Mom is fairly independent (drives, sho...
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Re: My elderly mother's neighbor and finances--is this ok?

Thanks. I just needed help with this specific question regarding a neighbor and boundaries.  I read A Bittersweet Season after my stepdad died and have taken care of everything you've mentioned, and then some, but thank you.  
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Re: My elderly mother's neighbor and finances--is this ok?

Thank you, I am so glad I asked. This made me realize something when you said "deed"--as part of estate planning last year, my mom's lawyer encouraged us to set up an irrevocable trust for the house, with my sister and I as trustees. My mom deeded th...
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My elderly mother's neighbor and finances--is this ok?

Hi there, My mom is recently widowed and lives alone. She's 75 and has Parkinson's and mild cognitive impairment. She lives next door to a former co-worker, Pam, who has become a friend. Pam is 15 years younger. Mom is fairly independent (drives, sho...
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