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We have been talking about it for a year. I was 300 pounds now 250. She and I were both small when we got married 31 years ago but after third child she could not lose weight. She does not think there is a problem. She says she just does not want to be intimate 

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Have you discussed this situation thoroughly with her? Is it possible she's worried that the "medical condition" might make sex too risky/dangerous for you? What was your weight/build like before the weight loss & now; do you look "frail"? If her rationale isn't obvious, would she be willing to go for  couples counselling sessions with you?


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I am a 50 year old married white male who just lost 50 pounds for medical reasons about a year ago. Since that has happened my wife does not want to have sex. I love my wife and have no intention of leaving her but how do I deal with this sitiation where I have desires and needs for myself and also wanting to pleasure my partner

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