Hi, Terri. No, you're not stupid, and you posted a valid concern. I, too, posted an "Introduction" message when I first joined the Community. I guess I expected a warm welcome, banner and all, but did not get that. Crickets was all I got. For those of us who were/are thinking that this might be some sort of dating app and/or a forum by which to put ourselves out there as "available", it isn't. I've changed my viewpoint since, and only visit whenever I want to read about other people's perspective on a variety of topics.