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A native Montanan and graduate of the University of Montana, Tom’s career in corporate IT and as the owner of a consulting practice took him across America and internationally. His consulting clients included HP, IBM, Microsoft, state and local governments and start-ups. With his wife’s diagnosis of terminal brain cancer, Tom retired and pivoted to writing. His first book, "Lucy’s Biggest Fish to Fry, "was an acclaimed memoir that followed Lucy’s journey with brain cancer. After her death, he unexpectedly found himself in a singles world he never imagined. Shifting gears, he decided to write "The Accidental Player" which is a fictional account of a widower navigating the fine line between hope and despair as he grieves, deals with loss and toys with a second chance at happiness. His current project is a collaboration on a screenplay adaptation of The Accidental Player. Tom has two adult children. He and his loving partner split time between Montana, Colorado, and Arizona.
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Author of two books. The first is a memoir about being a caregiver during my spouse's battle with cancer.-called "Lucy's Biggest Fish To Fry." The second book ("The Accidental Player") is a fictional account of a widower going off the rails as he stumbles into a singles world he never expected...the book is interspersed with humor and based on true events.

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  Howdy. I like Saturday Night Widows by Becky Aikman. The Grieving Brain which you noted is very good. Lately, I've been following Nora McInerny https://noraborealis.com/ and liked her book No Happy Endings.  It's been 14 years for me and with the h...
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 Sorry for your loss. Readers of my memoir, "Lucy's Biggest Fish to Fry" found it helpful to know that their caregiver role was the start of their grieving process and that they weren't alone. My second book, "The Accidental Player" explores life and...
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 Howdy - I'm new as a member. Love the Book Lists and would like to get my memoir about caregiving and my wife's battle with terminal brain cancer called "Lucy's Biggest To Fry" along with my debut fiction novel called "The Accidental Player" listed....
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  Howdy. I like Saturday Night Widows by Becky Aikman. The Grieving Brain which you noted is very good. Lately, I've been following Nora McInerny https://noraborealis.com/ and liked her book No Happy Endings.  It's been 14 years for me and with the h...
2bigsky1 04-10-2025 08:40 AM
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 Sorry for your loss. Readers of my memoir, "Lucy's Biggest Fish to Fry" found it helpful to know that their caregiver role was the start of their grieving process and that they weren't alone. My second book, "The Accidental Player" explores life and...
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 Howdy - I'm new as a member. Love the Book Lists and would like to get my memoir about caregiving and my wife's battle with terminal brain cancer called "Lucy's Biggest To Fry" along with my debut fiction novel called "The Accidental Player" listed....
2bigsky1 03-19-2025 11:38 AM
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  Howdy. I like Saturday Night Widows by Becky Aikman. The Grieving Brain which you noted is very good. Lately, I've been following Nora McInerny https://noraborealis.com/ and liked her book No Happy Endings.  It's been 14 years for me and with the h...
2bigsky1 04-10-2025 08:40 AM
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 Sorry for your loss. Readers of my memoir, "Lucy's Biggest Fish to Fry" found it helpful to know that their caregiver role was the start of their grieving process and that they weren't alone. My second book, "The Accidental Player" explores life and...
2bigsky1 03-20-2025 05:55 PM
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 Howdy - I'm new as a member. Love the Book Lists and would like to get my memoir about caregiving and my wife's battle with terminal brain cancer called "Lucy's Biggest To Fry" along with my debut fiction novel called "The Accidental Player" listed....
2bigsky1 03-19-2025 11:38 AM
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