Thank you for your reply and suggestions.  I appreciate it.  I'm getting kind of used to the guilt tripping as it's her same 'ol  pattern of communication she does. I found out about her pattern since we've been having these difficult talks. I'd real...

I ran out of time on my other post, and would like to continue. My Mom is 92 yrs. old and lives alone. She doesn't want to pay alot for in home care, but when it's needed, and she could pay for it, why not? I understand that in home care agencies ha...