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I have been reflecting on how I should proceed in 2022. In the past, before my husband got sick and then died, I used to view January as an opportunity for new beginnings- trying new ideas, refreshing perspectives, and embarking on new adventures. That doesn't mean I always succeeded but I liked the possibility of a fresh start. As Nina Simone recorded, "It's a New Dawn, it's a New Day...." The rest of the lyrics go "It's a New Life for Me and I'm Feeling Good." Can't say that part is true for me but maybe I should start thinking that way. I am still grieving, which is understandable given my husband of 48 years died in mid-October. Yes, the last 2 years have been very rough for both of us, but that dark time cannot overshadow the many good years we had together. Caregiving to a terminally ill spouse or other loved one unfortunately can take over your life and perspective on life. I feel I need to start resetting my priorities to attain a New Life, meaning finding purpose and establishing new relationships. How do I plan to achieve happiness? What does it mean to me - gratitude, making a difference, humor, hobbies, friends, having fun? Don't really know. My script has not been written. But I am hoping I can achieve a New Day and with it a New Life. Happy New Year. Sue
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