I am very close to my sisters but we all live in different states (Florida, California and New Jersey). We get together with our families maybe once a year but left little time for "us" time. We changed that. We now go on a "sisters' retreat", a 5-day extravaganza every year without our families. The criteria is we pick a destination that none of us have ever been to, it has to include a spa treatment and we don't discuss problems or issues. It's to enjoy each other's company and eat, drink and laugh continuously. We have been to Santa Fe (one sister wanted to see the Georgia O'Keefe museum), Austin (had a blast at the Broken Spoke where us city slickers did country dancing among the cowboys/cowgirls), Nashville (we loved the Johnny Cash museum, the Arrington winery and the Jack Daniels distillery tour we were told not to miss). Future destinations will include Toronto, the Florida Keys (ok, I've been there but my sisters haven't), and a mini Carribean cruise. Our sisters' memories we are creating are priceless and will last us our entire lives.