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[Anonymous]

2 comments (5/18/23) And I just thought of this Marcy @MarcyW882921 . Our will and all the other documents that goes with it. 😭

But as you "reminded" me - 1 step at a time! 👍

Luv you my friend,

Nicole 🤗🤎

[MarcyW882921]

Yes believe it or not wills drawn up in one state do not necessarily meet the requirements of another state. It is something to be investigated if you move to another state.

[Cadee2719]

Good to hear from you.  Mothers Day, my son took me to dinner and we had a quiet, peaceful day.  I am like a pogo stick; up and down.  More things are breaking.  Is it Karma?  The city needs to replace the water meter; the pool filter broke, and the air conditioning in the car stopped working!!!  With the way my life is going I just decided there is nothing I can do but take one day at a time,  fix things and move on.  I was always a busy person and I guess my husband is just trying to keep me happy?? by keeping me busy.  😂  I am and will continue to Take One Step At a Time and do the best I can.  Wishing everyone on this site Happiness & Peace.  I cannot tell you how all of you have helped me through the saddest days of my life.  Nicole I hope all goes well with your new home.   I, too, am thinking about moving out of state.  

[mc6844]

That's a lot to cope with Cadee. Household things can become exhausting. I've had lots of clearing out to do. But I guess that's how it goes. I go from one thing to another in my day and try not to think too much. Starting a book in the am, just a few paragraphs, a few more later in the day and save the rest for night. Helps me to detach from stresses. You take good care of yourself Cadee. The houses and repairs will be here after us!

[MarcyW882921]

Wow Cadee you just keep getting hit with things! You're right...all you can do is take one step and one day at a time and keep moving forward. You are definitely being kept busy by someone or something. I hope that you find some peace and happiness soon.

[MarcyW882921]

I was just thinking of you today. I hope you are busy in a good way as you create you new home!

Marcy

[mc6844]

I was thinking of everyone on this thread tonight too. For me, lately it's been up and down. I guess it's no smooth ride. It was a lovely Mother's Day with two of our adult children. It was great to see them. Now I feel like I'm almost back at square one with the grieving. I wonder how all of you are doing with all these new adjustments?  How was your Mother's Day? Not all days can be good. For me Easter wasn't good. But apparently I got through it.

[Anonymous]

2 comments (5/17/23) Dear @mc6844 , all we can do as Marcy @MarcyW882921  "reminded" is 1-step-at-a-time dear friend. YOU have made so much progress, it shows in YOUR posts. ALWAYS asking how WE are and wishing us a good day/night. Always so GOOD to hear from you 🥳💃

WE LUV YOU, admire you and here for you....

Nicole 🤎🤗

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▶️@mc6844 wrote:

I was thinking of everyone on this thread tonight too. For me, lately it's been up and down. I guess it's no smooth ride. It was a lovely Mother's Day with two of our adult children. It was great to see them. Now I feel like I'm almost back at square one with the grieving. I wonder how all of you are doing with all these new adjustments?  How was your Mother's Day? Not all days can be good. For me Easter wasn't good. But apparently I got through it.◀️

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[mc6844]

Thank you Nicole ! I admire all on the grieving thread too. It takes effort and resilience to keep moving forward. On all our individual paths and callings. I can also see you all growing in your situations. I'm happy for all of you and so nice to see! Take care now.

[Anonymous]

1 comment (5/16/23) Dear Marcy @MarcyW882921 , lol, A LOT to do!!! 🤣😂

Hope you are well my friend....

Nicole 🤎🤗

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▶️@MarcyW882921 wrote:

I was just thinking of you today. I hope you are busy in a good way as you create you new home!

Marcy◀️ 

[MarcyW882921]

Yes a move can be overwhelming. A step at a time and you will get things done.

Doing well...thanks Nicole!

Marcy

[Anonymous]

15 comments (5/7/23) Thank you ALL for your participation, support and luv!!!! Nicole 🤎🤗

[mc6844]

I'm thinking of all the people on this thread and all their sharing and concerns. I want to wish all the Moms a lovely Mothers Day! No matter what kind of day it is, rain or shine, you will get through it. I'm sure your husbands and loved ones think you're the greatest Moms ever! Someday we will be with our loved ones in heaven. Now that's something nice to look forward to the future. At the appropriate time.

[CatherineS641676]

Thanks for your kind thoughts. I agree with everything you said, so ditto for me! Have a lovely Mom's Day everyone

[MarcyW882921]

I wasn't sure if this was Nicole either. I agree with mc that you will be missed if it is you! Are you finally getting to go to Florida near your daughter? That would mean congratulations are in order! I don't know what part of Florida you might be heading to but I am in the southern part.

Marcy

[mc6844]

I wasn't sure if that's you Nicole. If so we will miss you. Your kindness and caring and all your good work in this site for the grieving. Thank you Nicole. Many good wishes for your future happiness!

[Anonymous]

3 comments (5/10/23) Dear @mc6844 , got your PM! I no longer have the time for this site. Thank you SO MUCH for your participation! Take care my friend🤎🤗

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➡️@mc6844 wrote:

I wasn't sure if that's you Nicole. If so we will miss you. Your kindness and caring and all your good work in this site for the grieving. Thank you Nicole. Many good wishes for your future happiness!⬅️

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[mc6844]

Nicole thank you for letting us know you are OK. I'm happy you're doing well and moving forward with your life. Take care!

[Anonymous]

1 comment (5/10/23) Dear @mc6844 , they say stuff happens for a "reason" - I am still waiting on an AARP Tech number to hopefully get my issue resolved = I get to chat with you!!! 🥳💃

Lol, I want to TALK with them to find out WHY I am showing "logged in" when I am "logged out" 🙄🙄🙄

Want to WAIT to "log out"... Wish me luck/lol 🤣😂

Your friend 🤎🤗

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➡️@mc6844 wrote:

Nicole thank you for letting us know you are OK. I'm happy you're doing well and moving forward with your life. Take care!⬅️

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[mc6844]

Yes Nicole thank you for reminding me that waiting has it's own rewards. Like getting to know all you wonderful people on this forum. Your struggles and courage to overcome, while remembering loved ones with respect is admirable. I think however after a while we all look forward to the new! Take care.

[CatherineS641676]

You will be missed by this girl. Take care, our dear friend. I hope you enjoy Florida-I live in Tallahassee, so this part of Florida is loved by me. Not so crazy about the traffic further south. Let us know how you are from time to time, and again, thanks for all your care and concern for so many of us.

[Anonymous]

5 comments (5/10/23) Dear Catherine @CatherineS641676 , thanks for your PM! Lol, way too busy for this site but know I will always treasure your awesome participation here. Thank you my friend 🤎🤗

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➡️@CatherineS641676 wrote:

You will be missed by this girl. Take care, our dear friend. I hope you enjoy Florida-I live in Tallahassee, so this part of Florida is loved by me. Not so crazy about the traffic further south. Let us know how you are from time to time, and again, thanks for all your care and concern for so many of us.⬅️

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[Anonymous]

4 comments (5/10/23) Dear Catherine @CatherineS641676 I just came back from Walmart  and see I received 2 AARP emails telling me you gave me "kudos" - Party Time 🥳💃 Thank you 🤗🤎 Lol, waiting on @AARPJanelleM to hopefully post a number to the AARP Tech person 🙄🙄🙄 as I always clear my cache and so on daily. My showing as being logged in (green button) all the time is not good. Issue started when they changed how we sign in. I think last month (senior moment/lol - forgot). Anyway, do not want to sign out again BEFORE I speak to them. 😉 Glad I followed my intuition and learn't to check my profile on my other phone. You can see what the public sees. The button is suppose to be GREY when you logged out. Lol, NOT mine. Got a PM from someone who thought I was still logged in. Anyway....

Your friend 🤎🤗

[CatherineS641676]

Just got back from Walmart, myself😁. Astonishing how much I can spend in a very short amount of time! Stay well, our Nicole. We are all so grateful for you. 

[Anonymous]

2 comments (5/10/23) Dear Catherine @CatherineS641676 ALL of you have ADDED so much to my 6 months (joined 11/14/22) here in the Grief & Loss Forum. Who knows, we may run into each other in Florida. Lol, Florida Girls!!! 🥳💃 Luv you my friend 🤎🤗

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➡️@CatherineS641676 wrote:

Just got back from Walmart, myself😁. Astonishing how much I can spend in a very short amount of time! Stay well, our Nicole. We are all so grateful for you. ⬅️

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[CatherineS641676]

I would love that-we are going north next, but are always in Lake Worth for Thanksgiving and Christmas. (I do an early Xmas in New York with the boys). You are on the Gulf side?. And, yes, I feel like I found a friend in you, also. We shall see what the future brings, but having a beer or a glass of wine with you would be big fun. Keep in touch-pm is fine, too

[MarcyW882921]

I'm in Delray Beach. It almost sounds like we could have a FL get together over an adult beverage!

Marcy

[Cadee2719]

Good Morning to everyone.  Well, I found a washer.  Should be delivered this week.  Water Heater (check), windshield (check), washer (check).  I am working my way through the list.  It is keeping me busy but it distracts me from the sadness.   Hope that everyone is well and that May will be sunny and bright for us all.

[mc6844]

You're doing well Cadee! Sad moments come and go, but that too is part of this process. It's good you don't stuff the sadness. Allowing it to pass through you is healthy. I hope you have many more moments of happiness than sadness in your future. Take care.

[MarcyW882921]

You go Cadee! You are making great progress on your list and sometimes the distractions are good for us. Here's to sun and flowers in the month of May!