I just recently lost my mom, too. I feel the same way. As I prepare her obituary and look through her pictures, I find myself reframing our relationship and how I think of her—not as the sick woman she was for so long, but younger, even as the nursin...

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     My mother passed the day of your initial post; we mourn together at this time. We have some similarities that I wanted to share. I have short, instantaneous bouts of rage which move to sadness. But I have no one to be angry at. Mom passed as clo...