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Re: AARP Caregiving Summer Break Contest, The love of my life, my husband.

Hi Jane, You are right, I have attempted all those resources and more. My husband does get a disability check every month. However, it is not enough for one person to live on. We can't pay rent and our utilities bills. I am constantly robbing Peter t...
Fedup68 07-31-2018 12:29 PM
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Re: AARP Caregiving Summer Break Contest, The love of my life, my husband.

Hi Sandi, Thank you for the reply. I have asked both sides of our familys. They either ignore my question or ignore us all together. They tend to sweep everything regarding feelings under the carpet. They do not like to discuss feelings. I have asked...
Fedup68 07-29-2018 12:47 PM
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Re: AARP Caregiving Summer Break Contest

Hello,I am so sorry that you are sad, angry, and depressed. I do understand. Is there any way that your husband and friends could relieve the pressure from you more? Maybe, allow you to have a day or even few hours for yourself. You could have a "me"...
Fedup68 07-22-2018 01:14 PM
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Re: AARP Caregiving Summer Break Contest, The love of my life, my husband.

Hello fellow caregivers, My name is Sue and I have been with my husband for 10 years. He has been sick for almost six years. He was dianosed with sever/chronic pancreatitis and severe neuropathy. I care for him on a daily basis. He is in so much pain...
Fedup68 07-22-2018 12:58 PM
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Re: AARP Caregiving Summer Break Contest, The love of my life, my husband.

Hi Jane, You are right, I have attempted all those resources and more. My husband does get a disability check every month. However, it is not enough for one person to live on. We can't pay rent and our utilities bills. I am constantly robbing Peter t...
Fedup68 07-31-2018 12:29 PM
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Re: AARP Caregiving Summer Break Contest, The love of my life, my husband.

Hi Sandi, Thank you for the reply. I have asked both sides of our familys. They either ignore my question or ignore us all together. They tend to sweep everything regarding feelings under the carpet. They do not like to discuss feelings. I have asked...
Fedup68 07-29-2018 12:47 PM
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Re: AARP Caregiving Summer Break Contest

Hello,I am so sorry that you are sad, angry, and depressed. I do understand. Is there any way that your husband and friends could relieve the pressure from you more? Maybe, allow you to have a day or even few hours for yourself. You could have a "me"...
Fedup68 07-22-2018 01:14 PM
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Re: AARP Caregiving Summer Break Contest, The love of my life, my husband.

Hello fellow caregivers, My name is Sue and I have been with my husband for 10 years. He has been sick for almost six years. He was dianosed with sever/chronic pancreatitis and severe neuropathy. I care for him on a daily basis. He is in so much pain...
Fedup68 07-22-2018 12:58 PM
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Re: AARP Caregiving Summer Break Contest, The love of my life, my husband.

Hi Jane, You are right, I have attempted all those resources and more. My husband does get a disability check every month. However, it is not enough for one person to live on. We can't pay rent and our utilities bills. I am constantly robbing Peter t...
Fedup68 07-31-2018 12:29 PM
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Re: AARP Caregiving Summer Break Contest, The love of my life, my husband.

Hi Sandi, Thank you for the reply. I have asked both sides of our familys. They either ignore my question or ignore us all together. They tend to sweep everything regarding feelings under the carpet. They do not like to discuss feelings. I have asked...
Fedup68 07-29-2018 12:47 PM
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Re: AARP Caregiving Summer Break Contest

Hello,I am so sorry that you are sad, angry, and depressed. I do understand. Is there any way that your husband and friends could relieve the pressure from you more? Maybe, allow you to have a day or even few hours for yourself. You could have a "me"...
Fedup68 07-22-2018 01:14 PM
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Re: AARP Caregiving Summer Break Contest, The love of my life, my husband.

Hello fellow caregivers, My name is Sue and I have been with my husband for 10 years. He has been sick for almost six years. He was dianosed with sever/chronic pancreatitis and severe neuropathy. I care for him on a daily basis. He is in so much pain...
Fedup68 07-22-2018 12:58 PM
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