As we face this decision, it's good to read about others who feel the same way. I can't care for her the way she will need to be cared for and that makes it a little easier. 

My sister and I are just now starting to deal with it. It was good to read your post. We get irritated because we feel helpless. I also don't live nearby so when she calls and starts asking where my sister is who lives nearby, I get anxious because I...