I like right where I am ( 57 ) Comfortable in my skin, and looking forward to more adventures, experiences, continuing to learn new things, challenging myself and meeting people from all walks of life.
My favorite decade was my 20s. While married then, I got to live in South Korea, Germany, Maryland, Florida, Wyoming, Colorado, and Utah. I got to have a fun and interesting career, and an easy mail order divorce, which gave me freedom to work and travel in Europe.
@DeahC77388 , "Mail order divorce." That's a new phrase for me. 😃 Sounds like you had an interesting life traveling. I lived in Budapest, Hungary and traveled throughout Europe and Japan courtesy of General Electric and my former husband. Christine
Mail order divorce occurred while we were living in Germany courtesy of the Air Force. I contacted the bar association of Colorado, claimed state residency on the basis of my parents owning land there, told them I wanted a no fault divorce (going through German courts was expensive, lengthy and assigned fault). The Colo bar sent me a list of three names of lawyers willing to file for divorce for me, I picked the female, and presto chango, I was single in about 6 weeks. MUCH easier than the second divorce in Washington State. LOL
Wow, Budapest must have been interesting. The Iron Curtain was still up when I was in Europe, so it was strongly recommended that civilians attached to the US military not wander into East Europe.
@DeahC77388 , So smart to divorce the way you did. Very clever! Mine was $13,000 and took nine months. But I've heard of couples that take years to legally divorce. Making a painful thing more painful ( and expensive. )
I lived in Budapest for 2 1/2 years from mid 1991 to the end of 1993. We got out there just as "Western" goods were arriving. They had a single McDonalds. By the time we left, there was a Burger King and Pizza Hut. So funny to get calls from friends saying something had opened or there were Oreos at a store. When we went out there, my former husband was addicted to Diet Coke and I was crazy about Grape-Nuts, so we brought those things out. The hardest part was figuring out how many disposable diapers I would need for my 14 month daughter before she would be potty-trained! Used cloth until 9 months and switched to disposable then. When we moved back to NY, I didn't take anything for granted. Glad to have had the experience. Christine
Maybe a more interesting question would be, your least favorite age ( or time in life ) ? For me, from 46-48, at the end of my marriage ( 27 yrs ). I clearly remembered praying for God to reveal a concrete reason to continue fighting for my marriage, or to leave. Within hours, I had my answer, filed for divorce two days later, and left with a clear conscience! Christine
My teen years were my least favorite for many reasons. High school is just hard for everyone isn't it? Or maybe just for introverts. But I also felt exceptionally controlled and repressed in those years and couldn't wait to leave home for college and never look back. I even married in my junior year so I wouldn't have to spend another summer with my parents. LOL Not the best strategy for liberation.