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OLIFOLIF...are you serious?  What in the world would make you think you need to pay for friendship? 

 


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The only way we can make "friends" is when we invite them to dinner and WE have to pick up the tab!! Or if we invite them to a concert, WE pay for the tickets! Otherwise, they won't bother to show up! It's either they join us for free, or they will say "No thanks

 

We you get to a certain age, nobody wants to do anything except watch TV or spend too much time with their grandkids! However, they will pay hundreds of dollars for their grandbrats, and we have to spend the same amount, if not more, just so we won"t wind up as another bunch of old farts and watch TV all day and be in bed by 9:00 PM!!

 

Bah!!


 

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I took a class in stained glass and I had a ball.  Instructor and other students were so much fun.

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Smiley Happy  An AARP member suggested Meetup:  https://www.meetup.com/

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Smiley Happy  This is a GREAT suggestion...will look into it.  Might do the voting assistant

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Wish we lived closer. I’d definitely be up for getting out and about from activities to lunches to exercise.
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OlifOlif, If you have to "buy" friends, they aren't really friends. Move on and find real ones.
Go on cruises and trips.
I spend $100 per adult child and their spouses, I have 2. I have one Grandchild. I spend $100 on him... for Christmas. Birthdays, I give them a card and tell them they should bring me a gift for bringing them into the world. 🙂
Older life is not about spending your money on others. It is for enjoying the 4th quarter of your life.

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The only way we can make "friends" is when we invite them to dinner and WE have to pick up the tab!! Or if we invite them to a concert, WE pay for the tickets! Otherwise, they won't bother to show up! It's either they join us for free, or they will say "No thanks

 

We you get to a certain age, nobody wants to do anything except watch TV or spend too much time with their grandkids! However, they will pay hundreds of dollars for their grandbrats, and we have to spend the same amount, if not more, just so we won"t wind up as another bunch of old farts and watch TV all day and be in bed by 9:00 PM!!

 

Bah!!

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Volunteer, volunteer, volunteer.  You never know who you will meet that could be your next best friend.  And you get to feel like you belong to this new group and feel very good in that you are helping out.  It gets you out of the house.  It doesn’t matter what you do, there is a volunteer organization out there looking for your skills.

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I’m divorced for more than 25 years.  Recently, I have been grieving the loss of my sister, a dear cousin, and best friend from childhood.  Feeling depressed is so painful.  It has also brought forth loneliness, which is so debilitating.  It seems that older folks have difficulty in acquiring new friendships. 

 

I live in Los Angeles, and not really the online dating type.  I’d be delighted to meet both men and lady friends.  I am not a loner, and enjoy people - that being one on one; or groups.  I enjoy most everything having to do with learning -  different cultures, theater, film, travel, games, walks, the arts, lectures, fishing, etc. 

 

Any suggestions would be much appreciated.  

 

Most Sincerely,

Rhoda

From So.  California 🌺

 

 

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@bgsdaughter 

Hello BGS 🙋‍♀️

That's awesome thanks for sharing such a hopeful & positive experience 

Have a beautiful weekend 

Ginger  :  ) 

🙂 Smile & the world Smiles with you 😉 Pass one on....its free
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