I will jump out there with my thoughts.....
@ChessiePique
As Cheesie says ...ha yup
I'm grateful that I have a choice & I've been more choosy not willing to settle just for sake of having sex as was in younger days
But I'd be lying if said didn't miss it or desire it.
I read girlfriends article.... ok with me you don't have sex even while married but I don't see a moment in my thoughts being married living without lovemaking
Yes I'd be perfectly fine if given health issues... also don't feel anyone should feel pressured to keep up with anyone else If your happy way things are so be it don't let others choose what makes you happy and is "normal" for you.
Given choice I'd definitely be in for the fun and enjoyment along with the great exercise from sex. I also would love to replace my last memory of sex- quickie sex just b4 SuperBowl just before end of my marriage.
Dr. Phil used to say : [quoting loosely] his thoughts on how important sex is to a marriage "If you have a great sex life in your marriage then it matters 10%.... if you don't then it matters 90%.
I do hope to again have a loving full relationship again but also I'm ok waiting till feel its right choice for myself. .... As far as taking an oath like a nun & saying never again or I don't desire or want it.... that's not happening.... ha ha yup
Hope if you have a loving relationship you'll relish and enjoy it. ... while I am still keeping the faith for myself
Ginger : )
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