@Soosie - I think some people are just more trusting (AKA gullible) than others, whether they're young or older. And people who've lost a spouse are often desperate not to be alone. BAD combination.
I've been single my whole life, and am very careful with people. I wouldn't hesitate to investigate what someone's told me about themselves & their situations; the stakes are very high! I periodically get "friend requests" from total strangers on Facebook; I delete them when it's obvious we have nothing in common. These scam artists often portray themselves in uniform in the middle east, with a flag nearby. Good way to avoid meeting someone, to say you're in the military & won't be back for years. A couple used the name/photos of famous generals .. one was married & had 5 kids. I couldn't imagine either would reach out to me!
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