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You probably can not do this, but you have to ditch your notion of "hookups" and "playing games".  Instead be more assertive, adventuresome and aggressive at talking to men about topics you are concerned with in dating. Closeness  only can happen when there is a mutual connection.  That takes risk and being more playful.   

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So much sadness and wasted energy.  Excitement and curosity bring people together, but openness and talking are usually missing. If values are important, connections would be easier to find.We can generally tell who is honest and kind. But both people have to be together and communicate before anything can be decided. It is about fun and creativity. Everything else is made up to say no. 

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...and a million others want that too. It used to be so easy to meet and fall in love. Today, it's played like a game. I want real love, not fake love. I want marriage, not just a hookup. Any real men onboard??? Just sayin'. Smiley Very Happy
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@WillisW572794 

Hello Willis 

Thanks for the giggle I needed that....wow your bold but honest I reckon...and I feel the urge to comment....so I will say you are not alone in your situation

I have had some dates in last 5 years of my single life 2 of them found on Our Time dating site which I didn't like that site & no longer member anyway the dates didn't work out...1 only wanted sexting relationship definitely not my thing...Anyway unbelievably compared to my past life experiences I have not had any sexual activity in 5 years could have but guess I am too choosy & hopefully bit wiser with age. Yes I miss it and companionship. Since I no longer work it is not easy meeting folks....So hope you get some comfort in knowing your not alone and I hope something happens for us soon....Good luck :  ) 

Smiley Happy Smile & the world Smiles with you Smiley Wink Pass one on....its free
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I am looking for a date and sex have not had one in a long time

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