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Re: Will anyone consider marry a younger partner so you will have someone to take care of you

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I'm not quite sure how much younger I would marry. I dated a man who is six years younger than me. It didn't work out not because of age , but because of our life situations: his family's issues, my family issues . Other than the fact that he was a really nice guy and we had so much in common I really did wish it worked out.

I'm not sure if age is a matter when you become compatible ,however, I have been on dating sites, eHarmony, and they matched me up with an 18-year-old and my current age is 54. I seriously don't see how we would even be a compatible at all considering his hormones are probably flying off the wall and doesn't know what he wants in life. As far as older men I would consider, however, I was matched me up with 75 and 80 and 90-year-old men, and I wasn't interested in that age group either. Relationships are more than just looks, and I believe you have to be attracted to your partner. Compassion, patience, good sense of humor etc. make up what I'm looking for in a partner and one day a husband again. Since I've been single I have gained my own independence, so when I start dating again it certainly won't be with a man who is totally controlling; like the marriage I was in. My kids don't understand why I would even want to go back into another relationship. I know that there are good men out there who Will treat women with respect and love and not control or fear. They are out there. Just not sure where
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or being alone for the rest of your life and move in assistant living?

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