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Gotta love Viagra and such!  Makes me feel like a teenager.  I will try Levitra  Thanks for the info

 

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I have not had intercourse with my wife for the last 20 years for various reasons and yet we still have a fun and active sex life. We try new things that we read about to see of we like them or not. Never boring.

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It is frustrating, I am 51 and my wife is 50 and she has lost her drive

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I feel your pain. I am 51 and wife is 50 and she has lost her drive. It is frustrating 

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I hate that saying "You have to please your man". The only thing you have to do is pay taxes and die. I would rather say, "We love to please one another" because women enjoy sex just as much and men should be equally concerned about our pleasure.
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What worked for us as women in our sexual hay day does not always work as we "mature". There are many....many natural solutions to vaginal dryness. You two must first talk open about the situation at hand. You need to be patient with her too. Do not just use lubricants that are a one time fix but use natural products that bring back vaginal wetness.There are yam creams and others on the market. Take your time, and honor her as if when you make love it will be the last time you ever embrace her. I suggest you learn some Tantra techniques. Tantra is GREAT for seniors, in fact I believe there should be more out there about Tantra for seniors. Most teachings are for younger folks. Being almost 60 I have learned that Tantra is now part of my love making and it has changed forever how I approach sex with my partner. 

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What worked for us as women in our sexual hay day does not always work as we "mature". There are many....many natural solutions to vaginal dryness. You two must first talk open about the situation at hand. You need to be patient with her too. Do not just use lubricants that are a one time fix but use natural products that bring back vaginal wetness.There are yam creams and others on the market. Take your time, and honor her as if when you make love it will be the last time you ever embrace her. I suggest you learn some Tantra techniques. Tantra is GREAT for seniors, in fact I believe there should be more out there about Tantra for seniors. Most teachings are for younger folks. Being almost 60 I have learned that Tantra is now part of my love making and it has changed forever how I approach sex with my partner. 

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This may seem silly,  but please bear with me.  I am 67 and, although I am more of an every week rather than every night guy, I am still going strong.  My wife, who used to love sex, starting having terrible vaginal pain after menopause which ended intercourse.  Being a loving wife, she has reverted to going down om me (**bleep** is out)".  Over the years, she hs never been a fan of going donw on me and now she does it but I know she really does not want to, but does it out of love fo me.  I would really like to help her enjoy it more.  A ny help will be greatly appreciated.  Oh yes, I should add ghat I have always and continue to go down on her.

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