What's your best advice for living a long and happy life?

[AARPLynne]

No matter your age, it's never too late to get some great life advice and think back to what you would tell your younger self. Here are some tips and life hacks from real, everyday people.

What's your best advice on how to live a long and happy life?

[DennisG506651]

Lol.    Don't have kids   lol.     Aarp asked the question.   

[c149596r]

I have to agree with don't have kids. I had two girls & you wouldn't believe how they broke my heart. I should have become a nun!!!!!!

[GyorgyiM225681]

Simply........just.........”be”..............kind. 

[c149596r]

Being kind is the right thing to do, BUT, you must be careful or you could become a door mat. It use to be: treat others how you would want others to treat you. Not anymore! Now, it's treat others how others treat you. Too many people could care less about you, so don't let yourself be taken advantage of!

[GyorgyiM225681]

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@c149596r wrote:

Being kind is the right thing to do, BUT, you must be careful or you could become a door mat. It use to be: treat others how you would want others to treat you. Not anymore! Now, it's treat others how others treat you. Too many people could care less about you, so don't let yourself be taken advantage of!

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Kind is not being soft..... it’s being smart and strong. It’s a “choice “. Those that are not insecure know how to deligate their kindness. Gratitude is it’s foundation. 

[c149596r]

No, one said that kindness is being soft! In todays world, people will use kindness to their advantage! It's a matter of intelligence who to trust & who not to!

[sm5396924]

I'm grateful for every moment I have. I love myself so that I may love my spouse , family and others.

I meditate and practice yoga. I eat a very healthy diet as a health coach. I eat VERY little sugar and I know where to find sugar and it's pretenders in our food supply. 

I love sharing myself and helping to educate those in my community.

[zeleake]

I have tp agree with all those answers I read its like ready my own life.They are the true answers of a great,healthy,happy and wealthy life.Wealth doesn't always mean money of course you need money but it should be your master use it where it belongs.

[8strts]

Always use sugar, not vinegar as Mom always told me.  It works!

Smile, even, if your day is so Sour, it's going to get better, you will run into somebody that has a worse day than you.

Spread white light, around you, in you,in your neighborhood, to your friends, family, around the world and then jump on it and go with it to outer space.  You will be surprised at how your life will change.

Dont curse anybody, your actually doing the devils work, so spread white light and tell anybody that is giving you a nasty day, step into the white light and fill with Love and Compassion and walk away.

When, your getting bullied at work- take that person -make them look like an elephant with a huge trunk, beavers ears( so it can slap the ground) and have them prance around in a circle, trumpeting and it will bring a smile to your face and maybe you will laugh too!

Go to the park and feel the wonderful energy from the trees, birds, insects, butterflies and you will fill up on good energy!

[sp11127880]

Dear Sir/Madam,

A few Recommendations:

1. Live a simple life, within your means.

2. Never compare yourself with others.

3. Try to learn one musical instrument.

4. Have at least one hobby you love.

5.Socialize with friends, relatives & neighbors.

6. Do not expect anything from anyone.

7. While working SAVE money for your 

future & for your family.

8.Enjoy nature, Gardens, wilderness, birds,animals,beaches, lakes, rivers, birds, animals etc. develop taste for reading & listen to good music.

9. Always try to be Happy, avoid unpleasant talks.102-3 years before planning to retire make sure you plan how you will spend at least 5-7 hours a day. Work it out & make sure you would love to do that.

10. Try to be helpful to others.

These are just a few suggestions.

[zeleake]

Great advice

[jeffwyckoff2388]

Remember the promise. Honor thy Mother and Father...

[c149596r]

Always be a good person. Do not let any adversity change that. Just use common sense on who you trust & keep toxic people out of your life!!

[zeleake]

YES

[jrj90620]

Stop envying those who you think are better off than you.Try to improve your own life.Remember that voting to bring someone else down,by increasing their taxes,to give yourself more,is immoral and will bring you down.

[johninnevada]

I have said this on several similar Forums. The key is being Happy, Having a Great Partner and keeping Active. Stop feeling sorry for all things that happen as you age. I am 84 years old and my wife is 83 yrs old. We are very active I still work 2 days a week and Volunteer and my wife is also very active. The old saying is true "A happy wife, a happy life"

Johninnevada

[cs9205]

Think young! I remember my parents and some of their friends talking about being old at age 65. I am 80 and I still think and act like I am 40.

[hillyer]

Keep Moving.  Remember these 3 little words :  MOTION IS LOTION. 

[DonnaW42]

Don't die young--sorry couldn't resist the obvious.

[NeilB838808]

 MINE IS SIMPLE EAT SALADS, HEALTHY VEGITABLES AND OATMEAL. ALONG WITH WHOLE WHEAT PASTAS ALSO HAVE YOUR FAVORITE ITEMS ALSO SUCH AS SEAFOODS

[co7256512]

To live a long and happy life

Know God, pray, follow His teachings,seek inspiration..

Find your purpose in life.

Give of yourself, your time and talents.

Pay your blessings forward.

Look for the good, be positive.

Like yourself. If you don't like you, why should anyone else?

As Dolly Pardon said, "Find out who you are and do it on purpose."

Give 110% in any relationship.

Honor vows.

Keep in touch with family and friends.

Laugh with others, not at them.

Be a positive role model, encourage others.

Stand up for what you know is right especially when it is unpopular.

Share lessons learned in life with others.

Always move towards a goal, never give up.

Play, pray, persevere.

We only get each moment in life once, use/spend the time wisely.

Right now is the beginning of the rest of your life, what are you going to do with it?

[zeleake]

This is the answer to a wonderful life.I couldn't have said it any better.

[karens848900]

One simple word - SMILE!!!

[c149596r]

To treat your body like the temple it's. How to avoid illness, simply eat the proper foods & stay hydrated.. Drink in moderation. Stay away from sugar. Sing like nobody is listening & dance like nobody is watching. Do not care what others are thinking about you. It's your life & not theirs, so don't let anyone live it for you. Exercise, but not until it hurts, & get some sun, just not too much. Enjoy the beauty of nature. Take time to smell the roses, just make sure there isn't a bee in it. LOL  Take time to laugh & enjoy life!!!!

[SIMPLEGAL]

Karens848900,

I kudo'd your post re living a long and happy life.  A smile is an easy way to feel good and hopefully make someone else feel even better.

Where do you live?

[newtonr]

We all have gifts(talents) using these gifts to raise up (help) others gives us PURPOSE, what we are meant to do, having PURPOSE MAKES ALL THE DIFFERENCE IN THE WORLD!

Identify your gifts

Learn how you can use them to benefit others

This the gift of giving of yourself, your reward is HAPPINESS!

[DoryAnne2]

For me, having an attitude of gratitude and appreciating everything I have is key to living a happy life. Also thinking of others and trying to give as much as possible.

[sneekycheeky]

for all the married guys out there just keep saying "YES DEAR"

[ArleneM470504]

great advice