If your loved ones lives in a nursing home, assisted living, group home, senior community etc, and they are on "lockdown" and not allowing any visitors, this is still a time for you to advocate for your loved ones. Two key things:
-
Make sure you know whether those facilities have taken precautions that are needed to ensure loved ones’ safety
-
Insist on some type of line of communication - FB posts with photos; telephone calls; videos; photos; video chats like Skype, Facetime, What's app
-
Facilities are obligated to give you regular updates about your loved ones' condition and the condition of other residents and the general facility condition.
Some questions to ask:
- Are residents being kept separate or are they gathering for meals, activities etc.?
- How is the facility being cleaned - are extra measures being taken?
- In the absence of group activities, what 1:1 activities are taking place to keep residents stimulated, connected
- Can you drop of things for your loved ones? Food, supplies, cards/letters, flowers, books, games, movies etc. And what is the best way/time to do so?
- What is the best way to video chat with them as frequently as possible
- Can you come to the facility and see your loved ones through a window (people are doing this while talking on the phone - the visual connection is so helpful to so many)
- Have any residents been diagnosed with coronavirus?
- If your loved one gets sick, how will he/she be given medical care? Is a trip to the hospital still allowed?
- How can you best support the staff and show appreciation for what they are doing - can you send meals, baked goods, healthy snacks, flowers etc. and what is the best way to do so?
You'll find more info about coronavirus at www.AARP.org/coronavirus