@Brightpool wrote:
Rule No. 1: Divorce at any age is Hell.
Rule No. 2: The best advice I received after my first divorce was that the best revenge is to be happy.
Rule No. 3: Be happy with whatever you do.
You didn't get this far in life by sitting around wondering what you were going to do. You know how to live. This gives you a chance to live the next chapter on your own terms without wondering what she wants - once the dust settles from the divorce, that is. Your next chapter might include somebody, sometime, but it doesn't have to. Certainly, do not rush into anything with anybody. That got me my second divorce.
Review your interests. Build on those as you see fit. Perhaps you want to cultivate new interests. That's okay, too. You can explore, both figuratively and literally.
Good luck with it.
--Lynn
@Brightpool
Lynn when you posted this reply months ago I gave a kudo but also should've posted to let you know just how much your post meant to me.....I saved it to have read anytime needed a reminder of your encouraging thoughts.... it is great comfort and offers Hope which myself and others need ! THANKS! 🥰
With our contact on another forum I'm aware your married again and things are good.... which is great blessing.... So thanks so much for taking time to post here to help me and others.
Everyone have a safe and enjoyable weekend
Ginger : )
🙂 Smile & the world Smiles with you 😉 Pass one on....its free