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How long do you want live? 80, 90, 100?
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How long do you want live? 80, 90, 100?
Do you have a number in mind? Do you want to live to be 80, 90 or 100? How about 115 or 120?
Do you think it matters what your expectations are? I do. I think if you expect to live a long healthy life, your chances of doing so are greater.
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I definitely agree. At present am 83, have a new hip and minimal other issues. I think 108 as a minimum. However, if my mind disintegrates then that is another matter but I feel as though it is still working well. I appreciate every day I am here and pray I am a positive example to all whom I touch.
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I'm 74. I plan to live to 94, then re-evaluate. 20 more years doesn't sound like a lot, especially now (The last 20 zoomed by.) But it may be a lot if my health deteriates.
@AARPTeri wrote:Do you have a number in mind? Do you want to live to be 80, 90 or 100? How about 115 or 120?
Do you think it matters what your expectations are? I do. I think if you expect to live a long healthy life, your chances of doing so are greater.
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I would like to enjoy living and contributing to life on Earth as long as I am not in continual or debilitating pain, I am mobile, and particularly as long as my mind and eyes function well. For me, that is not a number, rather, I aspire to an easy passing when the time comes to the Great Spirit, Allah, and by any other name or verballization, God.
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@AARPTeri wrote:Do you have a number in mind? Do you want to live to be 80, 90 or 100? How about 115 or 120?
Do you think it matters what your expectations are? I do. I think if you expect to live a long healthy life, your chances of doing so are greater.
I want to live to a healthy 100plus . I believe positive expectations matter. Also important is taking charge and LEADING your life, controlling what is within your control - how you eat, exercise, and continue to learn. I focus on extending youth rather than extending old age.
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I believe you can live long as you want as long as you can control how much rest that you can have.
When you have loss that control people will drawn you to worthless matters. Claiming it is a matter life of death went it is not. Stay away from people that can not respect your privacy.
You may have to choice your association carefully.
You also need to choice your carefully that demand too much overtime.
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As for me it's not the quantity of life about the quality of it. As long as I am relatively if physically healthy, able to be independent, able to be mobile, and have a clear mind Reasonably good cognitive abilities then I want to live. At the point that any of the aforementioned are no longer true, then it's time for me to make the decision to stop medical intervention and allow nature to take it's natural course.
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As for me it's not the quantity of life about the quality of it. As long as I am relatively if physically healthy, able to be independent, able to be mobile, and have a clear mind Reasonably good cognitive abilities then I want to live. At the point that any of the aforementioned are no longer true, then it's time for me to make the decision to stop medical intervention and allow nature to take it's natural course.
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I feel the same!! I too am 78, and altho I am wheelchair bound, I still try to contribute to my family, and my community. I support all pet sanctuaries that I can, enjoy knowing God's beautiful creatures have a little better life because of me. My "girls", two beautiful little French Poodles, wait for me across the Rainbow Bridge, and I look forward to holding them in my arms again someday. My family is kind, supportive, and loving, who could ask for more? I never married but I have raised several children who think of me as "Mom", and I think of them as my own. Whenever I make that final journey, I will be ready. I have lived the best life I could, believed in God, and treated others as I wished to be treated every day of my life. I have loved, and been loved, cared for, and been cared for, always strived to be fair, honest, and keep my integrity above all else. Few will miss me, as so many have gone before me, but what a wonderful day it will be to see my parents, my siblngs, my children, my friends, and my girls once again.
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That question is impossible to answer without a functional crystal ball. Right now, I consider myself a healthy, slightly overweight, cognitively intact 69 year old female. My life consists of endless obligations since my husband is in a Nursing facility with a rare form of dementia (age 82). I must sell my home in order to survive financially, as well as having no help with up-keep of the property. Our only son and grandchild live 2,000 miles away. My friends have their own lives and problems. How long do I want to live "like this?" Probably until I get to the point where I can no longer handle my own affairs, and by then maybe science will stop trying to prolong life in years rather than in quality!!
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I'm a very active healthy 62 year old now. I'm was widowed at 54 but I am in a long term relationship with a lovely man. Everyone in my family lives in their 90's. It seems that the women in my family stay cognitively sharp and healthy until they have one big heart attack. The men seem to suffer from dementia. I don't want to live like that at all. I would rather be healthy and live less then end up in a nursing facility with dementia.
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If I could ever get my heath in order, I wouldn't mind living to a nice "young" age of maybe 90-95. I am insulent intolerent, have high blood pressure, and high cholestrol. And by medical standards I am obesse. Unless I can get this all under control, I can't see myself living past retirement. I am 62 years "young" now, my dad passed away at age 67, 32 years ago. My sweet momma just passed this past August. She was 95 years young, but had demencia in her last year. So, at this point, I will take what the Good Lord gives me...
@AARPTeri wrote:Do you have a number in mind? Do you want to live to be 80, 90 or 100? How about 115 or 120?
Do you think it matters what your expectations are? I do. I think if you expect to live a long healthy life, your chances of doing so are greater.
@AARPTeri wrote:Do you have a number in mind? Do you want to live to be 80, 90 or 100? How about 115 or 120?
Do you think it matters what your expectations are? I do. I think if you expect to live a long healthy life, your chances of doing so are greater.
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Living to 90 is good as long as my functions are still working. On Facebook they had a video of a 90+ lady doing her last Ice Skating performance. I don't need to ice skate. but I want to move on my own. Im 74 all my parts are still working.
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@LadyAnne73 wrote:Today Hugh Hefner passed at the age of 91 . He was functional till his last days, Slow but sure. Living his life the way he wanted. Aging did not stop him....In 17 yrs I will be 91. That's how I wish to be.
I don't know how to say this, so please forgive me if it comes out wrong. I was living with my mom when her health suddenly dropped like a rock and she nearly died in my arms. I knew she didn't want to be in a nursing home/hospital, but I panicked, and called an ambulance. I didn't know what to do, so I left it up to them. If I was better prepared to handle it, I might have been able to handle it better. Since nobody dies and lives to tell about it, It's still a mystery to us all. It seems to me, that even tho we all know our time will come some day, Being conscious of the event itself is a bit disconcerting. I don't think I'd want to be conscious of my own death. But even tho this may sound a bit morbid, I'd like to find out how people who are about to cross that threshold feel/think about it. I'm not sure if I'd be able to give someone that kind of interview. But when my time comes, I'd like to be prepared for it. I don't know if there is any good way to do that. But it sure seems better than being a bumbling idiot about it. Any thoughts about that?
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I don't know that there is any way to prepare for death other than how we prepare to live. Being aware and conscious and kind and loving to ourselves and our life, and all our dear ones, while we are alive now is probably the only way to be "prepared" for one's own death. Life certainly offers enough practice in facing difficult things as well as the lovely things. Just practice, is all I can think. With love and blessings.
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My mother died at 94. She lived in pain for several years and had difficulty getting around, but she was as smart and sharp as ever. I was with her as she went through the process. She'd told me a few years before she died that she was ready. However, when she went to hospice, she cried. And then she concentrated on what she loved, her children. I was with her while she passed, talking to her and holding her hand. I think she left us feeling content.
My job, at 74, is to live fully. I'm not rushing around trying to accomplish a bucket list of events. Instead I do what I want as conditions and money allow. I enjoy sitting on my back porch in New Orleans, watching storms come through, or drinking my morning coffee while to birds and butterflies sing and dance across the trees and flowers. Friends and family mean a lot. Currently I'm back up north visiting my friends who have become part of my family and watching the leaves turn.
While I was raised a Christian, I don't worry about the afterlife. We live through heaven and hell on earth, so when the choice is mine, I pick heaven.
As for the process of dying, I have no desire to live through the prolonged pain of disease or dementia. But if the process is peaceful, I'll take it as I do everything else.
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Okay, so let's see, I'm 56 as of tomorrow, and I think that I'd like to live to be somewhere between 75-85 years young! Then when my time comes and I have finished my mission in this life I will move on to my next existence freely and at peace.
Feeling Groovy in New England!
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I'm taking the best eye vitamins supplements I can find and afford ( "Optimal Eyes" - bought on Amazon) and keeping healthy. I was reading how 11 million Americans suffer from Age related Macular degeneration, I don't want to have it attack me.
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I have said that too. Recent losses have given me things to think about. I lost my car in an accident and can't replace it. I did not renew my drivers license. Now I have to get rides everywhere I need to go. My daughter takes me mostly but a neighbor and dear friend has been a big help. She is moving the end of February which is a double loss. My daughter and grandaughter moved in with me. Now my grandaughter is moving to No. California where her boyfriend lives. She is my joy and her leaving makes me want to cry. Because of the accident, I lost some memories though much has come back. I have always been very independent and I think that has helped me stay positive. Now so much is a struggle. I used to do my own errands and it was good for me to interact with people I would meet. All that I can't do now depresses me.
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