😭 Rest In Peace My Friend!

[APassionateLife]

(Friday - December 2, 2022) It took someone moving into what use to be John's apartment for my grieving process to start. Up until this morning at 2am when the new neighbor from hell arrived, I had not thought of him. The mind has a way of forgetting I guess. Forgetting he was not next door and was never coming back. 😭 I last saw John on his last trip to the Veteran's Hospital and had no idea that would be the last time. John died of cancer in his 70's. The perfect neighbor. Now I have two Neighbors from Hell and waiting for the 3rd when they fill the apartment above me. Up until now, I had a "quiet wall" between me and John to lean against on those nights when I could not sleep. Lol, nights I want to "strangle" both neighbors. That wall kept me out of jail..🙄 Now my car will be my haven, no more "quiet wall" and I had to look at my quote on that wall to remind me that soon (hoping next year 2023) I will be in Melbourne, Florida again with my precious daughter. I know they say we should not hate, but guys it has been 4 years of no sleep. Lol, this 64-year old is tired and p.ssed. The new female better not say one word to me or knock on my door for anything. Sorry, she is not my John. Rest in Peace my friend. MY QUOTE: Let the thing that drives you up the wall INSPIRE you to IMPROVE your life! I created this quote for myself last night. In my case, let my 3 Neighbors from hell inspire to never give up on relocating. 👌 Luv you guys! 🤗 Nicole 🙂

[APassionateLife]

@gm5271 🤎🤗

[APassionateLife]

(12/6/22) .Lol, the anger finally kicked in after a week of NO SLEEP thanks to my New Neighbor From Hell.

.

They say GRIEF has its stages.

.

My 1st stage was crying over her moving in as it drove home the fact, John was NEVER coming back. While his apartment was EMPTY, I tended I guess to FORGET he died August 9th of this year 2022. Four years of me knowing him. He was in his 70's and moved in here about 40 years ago.

.

Anyway, my dear friends, TODAY I took care of what needed to be done.

.

Lol, calling the OFFICE to complain.

.

Keeping my mouth SHUT only depressed and angered me. You know, feeling TRAPPED with NO solution.

.

Some days/nights I was ready to climb into my car and hit the GAS and go....

.

Well, I had my "meltdown" - back on track = reported new neighbor. And now to HOPE we move FORWARD with "an understanding"...

.

John and myself NEVER had any issues. I will ALWAYS TREASURE the 4 years he was here. Thank you my friend!

.

Sending lots and lots of luv and hugs to anyone else who is GRIEVING.

.

Nicole 🤗🤎

Grief & Loss Forum - Rest In Peace My Friend Thread

[APassionateLife]

(12/3/22) Sending lots of luv and hugs to anyone else who is GRIEVING today/tonight! Nicole 🤗

[APassionateLife]

(Friday - December 2, 2022) Your "kudos" touched my insides @gm5271 and @RochelleB567613 🤗🤗

[gm5271]

@APassionateLife

😕So so sorry for your loss Nicole 😟💔

& I hear you....neighbors from hell.... no fun.... I'm almost deaf been all my life but traffic noise I moved to Feb 2017 drives me mad...umpympumpbump music.... loud bass....ummmm😖😨😱

Thanks for sharing

Adjustments aren't easy ....I so miss quiet peaceful place used live b4 last divorce.... but we do what must best we can...

Hope you have a beautiful Christmas & blessed New Year

In my thoughts

Ginger : )

PS: I'm 64 also be 65 in April

[APassionateLife]

---

@gm5271wrote:

@APassionateLife

😕So so sorry for your loss Nicole 😟💔

& I hear you....neighbors from hell.... no fun.... I'm almost deaf been all my life but traffic noise I moved to Feb 2017 drives me mad...umpympumpbump music.... loud bass....ummmm😖😨😱

Thanks for sharing

Adjustments aren't easy ....I so miss quiet peaceful place used live b4 last divorce.... but we do what must best we can...

Hope you have a beautiful Christmas & blessed New Year

In my thoughts

Ginger : )

PS: I'm 64 also be 65 in April

---

👉(12/3/22) Hi @gm5271 , the tears have finally stopped and I thank you SO MUCH for taking the time to write this. 🤗 I turn 65 next September and DREADING dealing with Medicare. Another major CHANGE as the Bradley Free Clinic here in Roanoke, Virginia where I have gone to since 2018 does NOT take Medicare. 😭 Take care, Nicole 🙂 👈

[APassionateLife]

(Friday - December 2, 2022) Thank you @gm5271 🤗